Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Stop letting your kindness be mistaken for weakness.
When a man hurts you or disregards your boundaries, over-explaining your feelings often results in him pulling further away. In this video, we discuss the power of Dark Feminine Energy and why silence, scarcity, and strategic distance are the only languages some men truly respect. It’s not about being malicious—it’s about teaching people how to treat you by shifting your energy and making your presence a privilege, not a guarantee.
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About MJ Harris:
Malcolm “MJ” Harris is the best selling author who helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris family of comapnies, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
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Stop letting your kindness be mistaken for weakness.
When a man hurts you or disregards your boundaries, over-explaining your feelings often results in him pulling further away. In this video, we discuss the power of Dark Feminine Energy and why silence, scarcity, and strategic distance are the only languages some men truly respect. It’s not about being malicious—it’s about teaching people how to treat you by shifting your energy and making your presence a privilege, not a guarantee.
Schedule a Private Coaching Session With MJ Harris: calendly.com/mjharrisspeaks
Get MJ's New Book: mjharrisspeaks.com/book/get-the-fck-out-your-own-way
Get Affordable Life Insurance imalilife.com
Join MJ's Team (Learn to Sell Insurance): imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in
Subscribe: bit.ly/3eUvcMz | Website: mjharrisspeaks.com
Watch the newest videos: youtube.com/playlist?v=GtYW-VU63Rk&list=PL2GP17BeNlBgMbRPDVgUoCp7vJzZsOJeq&index=2&playnext=1
Follow MJ Harris
Facebook: facebook.com/MJHarrisSpeaks
Twitter: twitter.com/MJHarrisSpeaks
Instagram: instagram.com/mjharrisspeaks
Make More Money By Joining MJ’s Insurance Team: imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in
Watch more videos!
Relationship and Dating Advice: youtube.com/playlist?v=_0Y5raZbfGM&list=PL2GP17BeNlBjCzQoQDepyIpeb8Ofponwk&playnext =1
Financial Tips: youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2GP17BeNlBidh6QW_pImFkz_LTA7zAAH&playnext=1 Life With MJ: youtube.com/playlist?v=s5GRxjj0IQg&list=PL2GP17BeNlBisvlYkKjhzeEjPtSDo0a9y&playnext=1 Most Popular: youtube.com/playlist?v=GtYW-VU63Rk&list=PL2GP17BeNlBj811sEVvvYcHU2s30__Lh-&playnext=1
About MJ Harris:
Malcolm “MJ” Harris is the best selling author who helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris family of comapnies, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
#MJHarris
