Uploaded July 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
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In this new 2-part series, Unpartnered Wealth, TFD Content & Production Manager, Alexa Claire, sits down with fan-favorite guest, Anita, to talk about what it's like to date while building a life for yourself in this economy, as two, single Black women of different generations.
In this first episode, they talk about the costs (financial and otherwise) of dating as a Black woman, the reality of using the apps at different ages and stages, and how friends can be even more important in life than romantic partners.
MORE WITH Alexa Claire
- The Single Tax Series: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD30V46E07RRwxfptSmNuEcKhMyOHGLAD&si=il5lJzhZaRpcyUKf
- Follow her here: instagram.com/momentswac
MORE WITH Anita:
- Anita's episode of Just Getting Good: youtube.com/watch?v=9zu1J-Hscro&
- Follow her here: instagram.com/annie_on_a_good_day/?hl=en
SOURCES
- British Vogue article, “Please Stop Telling Your Partner My Secrets vogue.co.uk/article/please-stop-telling-your-partner-my-secrets
- The Cuffing Economy
intuit.com/blog/innovative-thinking/the-cuffing-economy-how-gen-z-is-redefining-love-and-money/#:~:text=51%25%20of%20Americans%20are%20going,secure%20and%20lasting%20future%20together
00:00:00 Cold open
00:00:51 Intro and ad break
00:02:54 Welcome Anita & Alexa!
00:04:11 What does your dating life look like right now?
00:11:58 The finances of dating
00:17:08 Becoming your date’s life coach
00:32:30 What are you looking for in your romantic life?
00:38:50 The mental toll of financial infidelity
00:43:20 The gig economy of dating
00:50:28 Audience q: divorcing a narcissist
00:55:00 Friends who show up the way we expect a partner to
01:02:00 Stop telling your partner your friends’ secrets
Thanks to our good friends at Advisor.com for sponsoring this episode! Schedule a FREE consultation call with Advisor today and never make another financial decision alone. Take this short quiz to get started: bit.ly/3To24X5
In this new 2-part series, Unpartnered Wealth, TFD Content & Production Manager, Alexa Claire, sits down with fan-favorite guest, Anita, to talk about what it's like to date while building a life for yourself in this economy, as two, single Black women of different generations.
In this first episode, they talk about the costs (financial and otherwise) of dating as a Black woman, the reality of using the apps at different ages and stages, and how friends can be even more important in life than romantic partners.
MORE WITH Alexa Claire
- The Single Tax Series: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLD30V46E07RRwxfptSmNuEcKhMyOHGLAD&si=il5lJzhZaRpcyUKf
- Follow her here: instagram.com/momentswac
MORE WITH Anita:
- Anita's episode of Just Getting Good: youtube.com/watch?v=9zu1J-Hscro&
- Follow her here: instagram.com/annie_on_a_good_day/?hl=en
SOURCES
- British Vogue article, “Please Stop Telling Your Partner My Secrets vogue.co.uk/article/please-stop-telling-your-partner-my-secrets
- The Cuffing Economy
intuit.com/blog/innovative-thinking/the-cuffing-economy-how-gen-z-is-redefining-love-and-money/#:~:text=51%25%20of%20Americans%20are%20going,secure%20and%20lasting%20future%20together
00:00:00 Cold open
00:00:51 Intro and ad break
00:02:54 Welcome Anita & Alexa!
00:04:11 What does your dating life look like right now?
00:11:58 The finances of dating
00:17:08 Becoming your date’s life coach
00:32:30 What are you looking for in your romantic life?
00:38:50 The mental toll of financial infidelity
00:43:20 The gig economy of dating
00:50:28 Audience q: divorcing a narcissist
00:55:00 Friends who show up the way we expect a partner to
01:02:00 Stop telling your partner your friends’ secrets
