Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago

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In this 3-part series, our good friend Stefanie O'Connell breaks down some of the biggest traps women fall into, starting with the cost of betting on potential: when "I can fix him" turns into a huge financial mistake, or worse. Stefanie is an award-winning writer covering ambition, money and power, and her book THE AMBITION PENALTY is in stores now!

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nber.org/papers/w33393

thelancet.com/journals/lanpub/article/PIIS2468-2667(22)00160-8/fulltext#seccestitle10

pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6291212

onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/jomf.12748

nber.org/digest/202412/gender-career-opportunities-and-relocation-decisions-couples?page=1&perPage=50

journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/08912432241230555