Uploaded July 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Are dating apps really the cause of modern dating problems? In this final video on Marie Bergström’s The New Laws of Love: Online Dating and the Privatization of Intimacy, I look at the dating app industry and the assumptions built into online dating platforms.
Through quotes and commentary, I discuss Bergström’s analysis of dating entrepreneurs, gender assumptions, business models, and the conventional ideas about sex and love that shape dating apps. The video ends with one of Bergström’s most important arguments: dating apps did not invent these problems; they magnify what was already present in modern intimacy.
Watch Part 1: youtu.be/j6P0-LZ0hKc
Watch Part 2: youtu.be/VmGHPPG2HYU
Also mentioned in the video:
- Weapons of Math Destruction by Cathy O'Neil youtu.be/4I0cunzojoU
- More than a Glitch by Meredith Broussard youtu.be/r49fhOPSODo
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#OnlineDating #DatingApps #ModernDating #DatingCulture #Sociology #Intimacy #Relationships #GenderAndDating #MarieBergstrom #TheNewLawsOfLove
Are dating apps really the cause of modern dating problems? In this final video on Marie Bergström’s The New Laws of Love: Online Dating and the Privatization of Intimacy, I look at the dating app industry and the assumptions built into online dating platforms.
Through quotes and commentary, I discuss Bergström’s analysis of dating entrepreneurs, gender assumptions, business models, and the conventional ideas about sex and love that shape dating apps. The video ends with one of Bergström’s most important arguments: dating apps did not invent these problems; they magnify what was already present in modern intimacy.
Watch Part 1: youtu.be/j6P0-LZ0hKc
Watch Part 2: youtu.be/VmGHPPG2HYU
Also mentioned in the video:
- Weapons of Math Destruction by Cathy O'Neil youtu.be/4I0cunzojoU
- More than a Glitch by Meredith Broussard youtu.be/r49fhOPSODo
Support my work on Patreon:
patreon.com/c/dgozli
Join the reading group:
dgozli.com/reading-group-schedule
#OnlineDating #DatingApps #ModernDating #DatingCulture #Sociology #Intimacy #Relationships #GenderAndDating #MarieBergstrom #TheNewLawsOfLove










