Uploaded August 2023 | Updated September 2026, 2 days ago
ABH Sunkissed Glow Kit vs Hourglass Metallic Strobe Lighting Palette & e.l.f. Active Lip and Cheek vs Glossier Haloscope: The "putter declutter" of my makeup continues: today is all about HIGHLIGHTERS!
P r o d u c t s m e n t i o n e d:
Glossier Haloscope: go.shopmy.us/p-1952944
ABH Sun Dipped Glow Kit: go.shopmy.us/p-1952953
ABH Sugar Glow Kit (shade: sunburst): go.shopmy.us/p-1952960
O n m y e y e s:
YSL Mini Clutch (300 Kasbah Spices): go.shopmy.us/p-1881668
I'm PANNING FOR GOLD! (a.k.a. systematically curating my cosmetics with a project pan). Today I'm reporting back about some cream and powder highlighters.
I use this project to find the best of the best, a.k.a. the gold nuggets of my makeup collection! How? I pair cosmetics with similar claims so that I can do head-to-head comparisons, using each pair AT LEAST 10 times. And each time I strike gold, I report back. The gold nuggets get to stay, but if something turns out to be "fool's gold", it will get passed on to a new home. So... what will remain after this round of PANNING FOR GOLD?
I review the e.l.f. blushes here:
youtu.be/kq2zR1yYOeo
Watch the PANNING FOR GOLD playlist:youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRof3YTqgIizX-sELJfeZ2d2dqy2lyAg4
If you like comparisons, I recently compared these 2 eyeshadow palettes:
youtu.be/P_Dk9ClUu8Y
Time Stamps:
00:00 Intro
00:30 Cream highlighters
03:22 Powder highlighters
05:08 Roll-ins
How does one develop a sense of style? And how can we do it sustainably – both financially and environmentally? By enjoying and creatively using what we already have. By streamlining those things with thoughtful declutters. By developing awareness of how we use our stuff to encourage wiser decisions about the cosmetics, clothing and any other items we purchase. Sounds simple, but it's easier said than done. I've certainly been stumbling my way through it – let's stumble in style together!
Links to my style profiles:
Instagram: instagram.com/thestylestumbler
Facebook: facebook.com/TheStyleStumbler
Links to my musician profiles:
YouTube: youtube.com/user/stephanieforryan
Spotify: open.spotify.com/artist/1tHe1JjCR8c9CdqQileDx5
Instagram: instagram.com/stephanieforryan
Facebook: facebook.com/stephanieforryanmusic
Homepage: stephanieforryan.com
All music in this video was written, recorded and produced by Stephanie Forryan.
ABH Sunkissed Glow Kit vs Hourglass Metallic Strobe Lighting Palette & e.l.f. Active Lip and Cheek vs Glossier Haloscope: The "putter declutter" of my makeup continues: today is all about HIGHLIGHTERS!
P r o d u c t s m e n t i o n e d:
Glossier Haloscope: go.shopmy.us/p-1952944
ABH Sun Dipped Glow Kit: go.shopmy.us/p-1952953
ABH Sugar Glow Kit (shade: sunburst): go.shopmy.us/p-1952960
O n m y e y e s:
YSL Mini Clutch (300 Kasbah Spices): go.shopmy.us/p-1881668
I'm PANNING FOR GOLD! (a.k.a. systematically curating my cosmetics with a project pan). Today I'm reporting back about some cream and powder highlighters.
I use this project to find the best of the best, a.k.a. the gold nuggets of my makeup collection! How? I pair cosmetics with similar claims so that I can do head-to-head comparisons, using each pair AT LEAST 10 times. And each time I strike gold, I report back. The gold nuggets get to stay, but if something turns out to be "fool's gold", it will get passed on to a new home. So... what will remain after this round of PANNING FOR GOLD?
I review the e.l.f. blushes here:
youtu.be/kq2zR1yYOeo
Watch the PANNING FOR GOLD playlist:youtube.com/playlist?list=PLRof3YTqgIizX-sELJfeZ2d2dqy2lyAg4
If you like comparisons, I recently compared these 2 eyeshadow palettes:
youtu.be/P_Dk9ClUu8Y
Time Stamps:
00:00 Intro
00:30 Cream highlighters
03:22 Powder highlighters
05:08 Roll-ins
How does one develop a sense of style? And how can we do it sustainably – both financially and environmentally? By enjoying and creatively using what we already have. By streamlining those things with thoughtful declutters. By developing awareness of how we use our stuff to encourage wiser decisions about the cosmetics, clothing and any other items we purchase. Sounds simple, but it's easier said than done. I've certainly been stumbling my way through it – let's stumble in style together!
Links to my style profiles:
Instagram: instagram.com/thestylestumbler
Facebook: facebook.com/TheStyleStumbler
Links to my musician profiles:
YouTube: youtube.com/user/stephanieforryan
Spotify: open.spotify.com/artist/1tHe1JjCR8c9CdqQileDx5
Instagram: instagram.com/stephanieforryan
Facebook: facebook.com/stephanieforryanmusic
Homepage: stephanieforryan.com
All music in this video was written, recorded and produced by Stephanie Forryan.






![I Thought They Were My Friends. They Were Just Selling Me Lipstick.
What happens when beauty influencers blur the line between community and consumerism? In this video, I share the moment I realized my social media feed was reshaping how I think, feel, and shop — and how I took back control. We’ll talk parasocial relationships, algorithmic manipulation, and how to curate your digital space like a thoughtful art exhibit (instead of an impulse kiosk).
📌 Videos Mentioned:
The Adagio Mindset: my joyful low buy
https://youtu.be/DGUaZl3f-Hc
How language affects what we buy:
https://youtu.be/B-mcKdr9NPI
Comparing Powders:
https://youtu.be/ZxNrPrTSRxg
https://youtu.be/_waC0usht7Y
📌 Some of my Green Flag creators:
✅️ @TooMuchTash
✦ Insightful reviews, comparisons & thoughtful hauls
✦ Transparent about how sue uses & evaluates products over time
✅️ @Alexa_lowbuylifestyle (Alexa)
✦ Focused on breaking shopping cycles
✦ Blends personal journey with psychological insights & strategies
✅️ @LisaEldridge
✦ Offers tutorials that teach rather than sell
✦ Leads with education, not urgency
✅️ @CharlotteHoldcroft
✦ Her new makeup videos often discuss why we DONT need to buy
✦ Often shares when a product ISNT worth it.
✅️ @hautemesstom
✦ Joyful maximalist with a whole lot of critical sass
✦ Embraces their aesthetic while challenging excess
✅️ @bobmindset
✦ Emphasizes financial literacy & conscious spending
✦ Blends logic with passion for makeup
✅️ @mariam.a.
✦ Balances enthusiasm with discernment
✦ Shares why she will or WONT buy certain makeup
✅️ @kimclarkqueen
✦ Anti-consumerist drag queen beauty guru
✦ Intelligent, witty, critical of consumerism
✅️ @HannahLouisePoston
✦ Older content shares deep reflections on beauty and consumption
✦ Emotionally honest, often philosophical.
✅️ @LaurenMaeBeauty
✦ Thoughtful takes on formulas, trends ] industry shifts
✦ Doesnt oversell, often reflects on what she has
✅️ @JuliaAdamsMUA
✦ Tutorials feel approachable, not aspirational
✦ Calming vibe, rarely emphasizes consumption
✅️ @SarahRoseBeauty
✦ Shares reflections, declutters & empties
✦ Low-pressure vibe & clear boundaries around consumerism
✅️ @CarmelNicoleBeauty
✦ Transparency & practicality help viewers make better decisions based on use, not trends
✦ Reviews many different products without any sell tactics
✅️ @shawnaripari
✦ Uses her platform as a mirror, not a sales pitch
✦ Regularly reflects on emotional buying & personal growth
✅️ @cloveroom (Cam)
✦ Emphasizes the artistic joy of beauty without excess
✦ Honestly shares struggles with buying
✅️ @AmandaZ
✦ Extremely detailed, thorough reviews
✦ Doesnt sugarcoat disappointments, even from hyped brands
✅️ @QueerBones (Colin)
✦ Extremely detailed reviews
✦ They clearly enjoy makeup, but stay grounded without hype
✅️ @Betterthanbasicivy (Ivy)
✦ Has a realistic relationship with shopping
✦ Discusses unique makeup without hyping it up
Minimalist content: Im not a minimalist, but I find that listening to minimalist content can get me in a better headspace:
✅️ @TheMinimalMom
✦ Warm, relatable voice in the minimalist space
✦ Balances practical advice with emotional insight, all without guilt
📌 Join Club Adagio for extra content:
On Patreon:
https://www.patreon.com/c/TheStyleStumbler
On YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/TheStyleStumbler/join
Both have the same content perks – I just offer both so you can choose whats more convenient for you. Thanks for considering supporting the channel in this way!
💄 On my face:
(Afilliate link)
LISA ELDRIDGE | Kitten Mischief
https://go.shopmy.us/p-19876069
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:38 The Moment I Realized My Relationship with Beauty Content Was Toxic
01:10 From Friends to Feeds: How Community Turned into Consumption
01:56 What the Algorithm Really Wants from You
02:20 Emotional Fallout: The Shopping Hangover Nobody Talks About
02:51 Influencers Don’t Just Sell Products — They Sell Habits
04:30 Learning to Make Thoughtful Exceptions (Yes, Even Backups)
05:03 The Limited Edition Trap: Urgency is the Enemy of Clarity
05:54 Wait... Are Influencers Influenced Too?
06:36 Affiliate Links Are Fine — But Stay Conscious
06:54 The Parasocial Pull: Why You Want to Buy What They Have
07:35 Impulse Kiosk or Thoughtful Exhibit? Curating Your Feed Intentionally
07:53 Green Flag 1: Calm, Context-Rich Language
08:23 Green Flag 2: Balanced Reviews, Not Just Hype
08:45 Green Flag 3: Realistic Spending & Shopping Behavior
09:20 Green Flag 4: Value Alignment Over Aesthetic Envy
09:48 Gut Check: How Certain Creators Make You Feel
10:29 Adjusting Your Feed Seasonally (Like a Skincare Routine)
11:14 Manage Your Feed, Manage Your Mood, Budget & Beauty Inventory
11:24 Challenge: Curate Like a Museum, Not a Mall
12:06 The Adagio Mindset™: Slow Beauty in a Fast World
12:38 Social Media Can Still Inspire (If You Use It Right)
13:03 Preview: The One Question That Changed Everything I Thought They Were My Friends. They Were Just Selling Me Lipstick.](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/ks2YFPO49BM/mqdefault.jpg)



