Rachel Oates | Colleen Hoover BROKE ME @RachelOates | Uploaded 1 year ago | Updated 18 hours ago
SPOILERS AHEAD! This Colleen Hoover book, It Ends With Us, leaves me with SO MANY THOUGHTS. Today, ahead of the film version's release, I'm reviewing the book and sharing my thoughts on this absolute mess.

If you'd like some recommendations for fictional books which deal with similar topics (although not specifically DV) in a sensitive way I'd recommend My Dark Vanessa - Kate Elizabeth Russell and The Girls of Summer - Katie Bishop. They're not only incredibly well-written but both show how these kinds of men can be so convincing that even their victims don't realise what is happening to them but at the same time, neither book ever glamourises or condones their behaviour. THIS is how you deal with these topics sensitively.
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I'd also recommend Dr Ramani's book Should I Stay or Should I Go? because this is the book which helped me leave my ex and saved my life.
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Apologies for the terrible camera quality in this - I used the wrong lens and it was too late to change it by the time I realised, it was getting super late, I was ridiculously tired. I then had 24 hours of absolute hell attempting to export this. I feel like everything that COULD have gone wrong with this video, DID go wrong. Ugh.

Resources and Further Reading:
R-pe Crisis (England and Wales) bit.ly/3N64bIg
Refuge nationaldahelpline.org.uk
SurvivorsUK www.survivorsuk.org
DV Hotline USA thehotline.org

thehotline.org/resources/the-dangers-of-strangulation
health.com/love-bombing-7479796
bannerhealth.com/healthcareblog/teach-me/what-is-love-bombing-and-how-to-recognize-the-signs

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0:00 Intro
04:35 Chapter 1
27:54 Meet Atlas
37:30 Who Needs A Business Plan?!
47:09 A Trip To The Past... Again
50:12 Ryle Begs On His Knees
57:50 A Party and a Kidnapping
01:20:32 The First Time Is Just Like Every Other Time
01:41:43 The Grand Opening
01:47:05 Scorpions!
01:56:43 More Locking Women In Rooms
02:02:57 He's Back
02:06:38 A Surprise Wedding
02:11:19 Excuses.
02:29:10 This Was Not A 'Mistake'
02:34:24 If Only A Competent Writer Had Written This Scene...
02:44:26 A Baby and I Don't Care
02:56:03 Conclusion: Bits I Liked
02:57:26 I Hate The Ending
02:59:16 Your Privilege Is Showing
03:02:31 Too Much "Romance"
03:05:01 The Marketing Problem
03:08:08 Let's Talk About The Film
03:10:47 The Response From Fans