Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago
My mom is aiding and abetting a kidnapper! Perimenopause took my old body and is holding it hostage.
Here’s what I’m trying to do to get it back:
1. Walking for 30 mins - 1 hour a day. I definitely slept on walking it it helps tremendously. I walk with a 16 lb weighted vest. I was doing it 3 days a week but trying to increase to at least 5
2. Hitting my macros. I am personally trying to eat 150g of protein, 40g of fat, and 120g of carbs. If you’ve been avoiding carbs, friend that might be why you have an attitude…you need carbs!
3. Using an estradiol patch. I’m trying to restart my estrogen and tell my body to put my fat back where it got it from - my booty
I’ve been lifting weights since I was 20 so that’s not new for me but if you’ve aren’t currently doing it, please add weights to your routine!
Ok how do you find the defendants on this one?
My mom is aiding and abetting a kidnapper! Perimenopause took my old body and is holding it hostage.
Here’s what I’m trying to do to get it back:
1. Walking for 30 mins - 1 hour a day. I definitely slept on walking it it helps tremendously. I walk with a 16 lb weighted vest. I was doing it 3 days a week but trying to increase to at least 5
2. Hitting my macros. I am personally trying to eat 150g of protein, 40g of fat, and 120g of carbs. If you’ve been avoiding carbs, friend that might be why you have an attitude…you need carbs!
3. Using an estradiol patch. I’m trying to restart my estrogen and tell my body to put my fat back where it got it from - my booty
I’ve been lifting weights since I was 20 so that’s not new for me but if you’ve aren’t currently doing it, please add weights to your routine!
Ok how do you find the defendants on this one?


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![Black Girls (and Guys) Guide to Tulsa
Are Black people there? Is the #1 question I got asked when people found out I had moved to Tulsa with the Tulsa Remote program. In this video, Im sharing all about the [my perspective] of the Black experience in Tulsa.
**RESOURCES MENTIONED**
Apply for Tulsa Remote:
TULSA GUIDE:
Black Wall St Tours:
https://www.tulsa.tours/greenwood-black-wall-street-tour
https://www.realblackwallstreettour.com/
Beauty:
Poppi’s - https://tulsapoppi.com/
Mandy’s Beauty Supply - https://mandysbeautysupply.com/
Greenwood Ave Barbershop - https://share.google/jTuvowdimamErOEup
Silhouette Sneakers - https://www.silhouettetulsa.com/
Food
Fixins - https://fixinssoulkitchen.com/
Sisseoro’s - https://sisserousrestaurant.com/
Mi Tea Lounge - https://mitealounge.com/
My Mama’s House - https://www.facebook.com/mymommashouse2020?
Fitness
Hardbody Gym - https://www.thardbody.com/
Rico Ferguson Trainer - https://www.instagram.com/tfit918?igsh=MWJ5YTB4MGltM2xyNw
Blueprint Studio - https://www.thebluprintstudio.com/
Sweat Jam - https://www.sweatjam.online/
Doctors
Primary Care/Family Medicine - Dr. Kristin Baker Hankton
OBGYN - Dr. Conchita Woodruff
Dentist - Dr. Kenneth Moore
Activities and Events
Mi Tea Lounge
Kin Dinners -
Juneteenth - https://www.tulsajuneteenth.org/
Legacy Fest - https://www.blackwallstreetlegacyfest.com/
Black Entrepreneur Communities
ACT House - https://www.act.house/
Buildin Tulsa - https://www.buildintulsa.com/
Techstars Tulsa - https://www.techstars.com/
TIMELINE:
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1:17 Why I moved to Tulsa
2:29 Black Tulsa History
5:48 Current State of Black Tulsa
8:20 Your Black Experience in Tulsa
10:36 Beauty and Self-Care
12:44 Food
15:04 Health and Fitness
17:37 Activities and Events
19:34 Black Entrepreneur Communities
20:17 How to Build Community
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