Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
In this episode, we unpack the recent conversation surrounding Brandy and the resurfaced discussion of her being in a relationship at 16 with a 22-year-old man.
But this isn’t just about Brandy.
This is about how our culture consistently blames young girls for the actions of grown men—and how that narrative has shaped so many of our own stories.
We talk about grooming, coercion, internalized shame, and the ways women are often conditioned to police other women instead of questioning harmful dynamics.
If you’ve ever been made to feel like you were “too fast,” this episode is for you.
You were not the problem. 🤎
In this episode, we unpack the recent conversation surrounding Brandy and the resurfaced discussion of her being in a relationship at 16 with a 22-year-old man.
But this isn’t just about Brandy.
This is about how our culture consistently blames young girls for the actions of grown men—and how that narrative has shaped so many of our own stories.
We talk about grooming, coercion, internalized shame, and the ways women are often conditioned to police other women instead of questioning harmful dynamics.
If you’ve ever been made to feel like you were “too fast,” this episode is for you.
You were not the problem. 🤎
