Ex-Fundie Diaries | Being Raised in Purity Culture | Masturbation & Modesty @ExFundieDiaries | Uploaded November 2020 | Updated October 2024, 10 hours ago.
This video is about being raised in purity culture and the harmful messages I was taught about masturbation and modesty. Thanks so much for watching!
Purity Culture Resources:
[Videos]
“Give Me Sex Jesus” Documentary by Matthew Barber: vimeo.com/137784146
“Black trans women ARE Black women. Period. w/ Kat Blaque & L’Lerret Ailith” by For Harriet: youtube.com/watch?v=EQLIsSOstYw
"A Place in the Middle" by PBS Hawaii: youtube.com/watch?v=TIQ5fHc5_KA
“The Adultification of Black Girls” by IsisSaysHi: youtube.com/watch?v=XVOIUqPGx7M
“Growing Up Quiverfull - The Duggar’s Destructive Cult” with Kristiana Miner: youtube.com/watch?v=9WQy4LGUQRg
“Good Christian Gays: Sex, Purity, & Gender in the Church” by Bradley Birkholz: youtube.com/watch?v=GqClDqqeGs0
“Journey to Me: Black and Nonbinary” by Charlie the Prophet: youtube.com/watch?v=_5j2FlnXu34
“On Sex Positivity” by Jo Luehmann: youtube.com/watch?v=cqvhIzli_KQ
“Queer Christian Sex PrEP…..yes that’s the name of this video” by Kevin Garcia: youtube.com/watch?v=82TCZyYXbBU
"I left a cult and found myself" by Lilia Tarawa: youtube.com/watch?v=hScyIB7_EPU
[Podcasts]
"Purity Culture & White Supremacy" by Tori Williams Douglass: open.spotify.com/episode/6vr1vQd5qBbgBYARLHXfna
“Purity culture, National Security, and Racism” by Bradley Onishi with Dr. Sara Moslener: https://anchor.fm/straightwhiteamericanjesu/episodes/Purity-Culture--National-Security--and-Racism-ejm2ic
"Coming Out with Anna Lee and Justin Rodjanapanyakul" by AsianBossGirl: asianbossgirl.com/episodes/2020/28/5/episode-66-coming-out-with-anna-lee-and-justin-rodjanapanyakul
"Emily Joy Allison Wrote the Book on # ChurchToo | Exvangelical" by Blake Chastain with Amy Congdon: exvangelicalpodcast.com/emily-joy-allison-wrote-the-book-on-churchtoo
"Being a Woman of Color in Purity Culture with Asha Dahya" by Bradley Onishi with Asha Dahya: https://anchor.fm/straightwhiteamericanjesu/episodes/Being-a-Woman-of-Color-in-Purity-Culture-with-Asha-Dahya-etvhuf/a-a5ir2u4
[Articles & More]
Tweet by Juliany Gonzales Nieves: twitter.com/julianygonzalez/status/1303783441859850240
“Decolonizing Our American Christianity” by Kaitlin Curtice: faithandleadership.com/kaitlin-curtice-decolonizing-our-american-christianity
"Purity Culture is About National Purity: Anti-Asian Hate and Purity Culture" by Bradley Onishi: religiondispatches.org/purity-culture-is-also-about-national-purity-anti-asian-hate-and-purity-culture-audio
“Unlearning the Gendered, Racist Oppression of Purity Culture” Resource List by Jade T. Perry: jadetperry.com/blog/unlearning-the-gendered-racist-oppression-of-purity-culture-resource-list
“Don’t Just ‘Reframe’ Purity Culture—Rethink the Whole Concept” by T.F. Charlton: rewirenewsgroup.com/article/2013/11/21/dont-just-reframe-purity-culture-rethink-the-whole-concept
“Unlike a Virgin: Exploring My Sexuality as an Asian American Christian” by Emily Lu Gao: mochimag.com/our-voices/unlike-a-virgin-exploring-my-sexuality-as-an-asian-american-christian
“How An Evangelical Dating Guide and Purity Culture Gave Me An Anxiety Disorder” by Hannah Brashers: huffpost.com/entry/i-kissed-dating-goodbye-trauma_n_5c66fedbe4b05c889d1f158e
"Being Non-Binary is Not New" by ALOK: alokvmenon.com/blog/2019/8/14/being-non-binary-is-not-new
[Christian Courtship]
"I Kissed Dating Goodbye" Wikipedia: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Kissed_Dating_Goodbye
“Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship” Wikipedia: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boy_Meets_Girl:_Say_Hello_to_Courtship
"Dating versus Courtship | Growing Up in Christian Patriarchy" by Ex-Fundie Diaries: youtube.com/watch?v=69cNpYuEq-w
[Song Mentioned]
“I Need You to Love Me” by BarlowGirl: youtube.com/watch?v=8ubFjn6PjUc
[Background Music]
Title: Acoustic Inspiring
hooksounds.com
Image description: Elly is white with brown eyes and straight, shoulder-length brown hair. She is wearing a light purple sweater and sitting on the floor in a bedroom. As she talks, she looks into the camera.
#PurityCulture #Exvangelical #ReligiousTrauma
This video is about being raised in purity culture and the harmful messages I was taught about masturbation and modesty. Thanks so much for watching!
Purity Culture Resources:
[Videos]
“Give Me Sex Jesus” Documentary by Matthew Barber: vimeo.com/137784146
“Black trans women ARE Black women. Period. w/ Kat Blaque & L’Lerret Ailith” by For Harriet: youtube.com/watch?v=EQLIsSOstYw
"A Place in the Middle" by PBS Hawaii: youtube.com/watch?v=TIQ5fHc5_KA
“The Adultification of Black Girls” by IsisSaysHi: youtube.com/watch?v=XVOIUqPGx7M
“Growing Up Quiverfull - The Duggar’s Destructive Cult” with Kristiana Miner: youtube.com/watch?v=9WQy4LGUQRg
“Good Christian Gays: Sex, Purity, & Gender in the Church” by Bradley Birkholz: youtube.com/watch?v=GqClDqqeGs0
“Journey to Me: Black and Nonbinary” by Charlie the Prophet: youtube.com/watch?v=_5j2FlnXu34
“On Sex Positivity” by Jo Luehmann: youtube.com/watch?v=cqvhIzli_KQ
“Queer Christian Sex PrEP…..yes that’s the name of this video” by Kevin Garcia: youtube.com/watch?v=82TCZyYXbBU
"I left a cult and found myself" by Lilia Tarawa: youtube.com/watch?v=hScyIB7_EPU
[Podcasts]
"Purity Culture & White Supremacy" by Tori Williams Douglass: open.spotify.com/episode/6vr1vQd5qBbgBYARLHXfna
“Purity culture, National Security, and Racism” by Bradley Onishi with Dr. Sara Moslener: https://anchor.fm/straightwhiteamericanjesu/episodes/Purity-Culture--National-Security--and-Racism-ejm2ic
"Coming Out with Anna Lee and Justin Rodjanapanyakul" by AsianBossGirl: asianbossgirl.com/episodes/2020/28/5/episode-66-coming-out-with-anna-lee-and-justin-rodjanapanyakul
"Emily Joy Allison Wrote the Book on # ChurchToo | Exvangelical" by Blake Chastain with Amy Congdon: exvangelicalpodcast.com/emily-joy-allison-wrote-the-book-on-churchtoo
"Being a Woman of Color in Purity Culture with Asha Dahya" by Bradley Onishi with Asha Dahya: https://anchor.fm/straightwhiteamericanjesu/episodes/Being-a-Woman-of-Color-in-Purity-Culture-with-Asha-Dahya-etvhuf/a-a5ir2u4
[Articles & More]
Tweet by Juliany Gonzales Nieves: twitter.com/julianygonzalez/status/1303783441859850240
“Decolonizing Our American Christianity” by Kaitlin Curtice: faithandleadership.com/kaitlin-curtice-decolonizing-our-american-christianity
"Purity Culture is About National Purity: Anti-Asian Hate and Purity Culture" by Bradley Onishi: religiondispatches.org/purity-culture-is-also-about-national-purity-anti-asian-hate-and-purity-culture-audio
“Unlearning the Gendered, Racist Oppression of Purity Culture” Resource List by Jade T. Perry: jadetperry.com/blog/unlearning-the-gendered-racist-oppression-of-purity-culture-resource-list
“Don’t Just ‘Reframe’ Purity Culture—Rethink the Whole Concept” by T.F. Charlton: rewirenewsgroup.com/article/2013/11/21/dont-just-reframe-purity-culture-rethink-the-whole-concept
“Unlike a Virgin: Exploring My Sexuality as an Asian American Christian” by Emily Lu Gao: mochimag.com/our-voices/unlike-a-virgin-exploring-my-sexuality-as-an-asian-american-christian
“How An Evangelical Dating Guide and Purity Culture Gave Me An Anxiety Disorder” by Hannah Brashers: huffpost.com/entry/i-kissed-dating-goodbye-trauma_n_5c66fedbe4b05c889d1f158e
"Being Non-Binary is Not New" by ALOK: alokvmenon.com/blog/2019/8/14/being-non-binary-is-not-new
[Christian Courtship]
"I Kissed Dating Goodbye" Wikipedia: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Kissed_Dating_Goodbye
“Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship” Wikipedia: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boy_Meets_Girl:_Say_Hello_to_Courtship
"Dating versus Courtship | Growing Up in Christian Patriarchy" by Ex-Fundie Diaries: youtube.com/watch?v=69cNpYuEq-w
[Song Mentioned]
“I Need You to Love Me” by BarlowGirl: youtube.com/watch?v=8ubFjn6PjUc
[Background Music]
Title: Acoustic Inspiring
hooksounds.com
Image description: Elly is white with brown eyes and straight, shoulder-length brown hair. She is wearing a light purple sweater and sitting on the floor in a bedroom. As she talks, she looks into the camera.
#PurityCulture #Exvangelical #ReligiousTrauma
