Uploaded November 2022 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Thank you as always to our fantastic moderators, @zahrabahjawi867 and @kat2279 for their exceptional work and support! (...and thank you to @The Relyk for timing me, I suppose...)
--- timestamps ---
0:00 Salutations
2:48 Music
7:08 Introducing “Femcels”… | Incels vs. Femcels
10:30 Urban Dictionary definitions
13:03 Mindmap #1 – Historical intersections and modern connections
15:50 Shulasmith Firestone and Pink Pill Feminism | Radical feminists vs. the Second Wave
21:50 Political lesbianism & voluntary celibacy | Artificial reproduction | Dismantling gender
26:33 The Myth of the V*ginal O*gasm (1970)
29:49 r/PinkPillFeminism | Reddit Posts prior to ban
36:38 Body Positivity
45:15 Conflict between modern men & women
48:00 Identity crisis among femcels
52:19 Pink Pill femcels vs. Black pill femcels
54:50 “Looksmaxxing”
1:00:45 “Whitemaxxing”
1:04:25 Why some femcels dislike average women and trans women
1:09:20 WGTOW (women going their own way)
1:16:19 Red Pill Women vs. Pink Pill Women
1:20:57 Red Pill Women explained | JustPearlyThings
1:28:22 Traditional women, Leftover women, & Wh*r*s | Torshaa | Amala Ekpunobi
1:38:45 Masculine women
1:42:13 Women as “complicity in their own unfreedom” | Simone de Beauvoir & the Red Pill
1:45:45 Western Europe vs. North America re. Second Wave Feminism | Freedom
1:52:33 Red Pill Women & the mainstream media | Anti-s*x revolution and hook-up culture
1:57:53 Tech & limitless desire | Beauty’s in the eye of the beholder?
2:08:02 Jordan Peterson & individualism contradiction
2:14:48 Brad Pitt thinks Dianne Wiest is “the most beautiful woman…”
2:23:25 Is this all a “developed world problem”?
2:29:15 How do media/public relationships influence our own relationship expectations? | Foodie Beauty
2:37:30 Why Jordan and Tammy Peterson work (as a public relationship)
2:43:55 End of stream chatter
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--- sources | references ---
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→ theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2022/05/femcel-meaning-female-incel-reddit/629836
→ unherd.com/2022/10/the-year-of-the-femcel
→ The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir
→ The Case Against the S*xual Revolution by Louise Perry
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Thank you as always to our fantastic moderators, @zahrabahjawi867 and @kat2279 for their exceptional work and support! (...and thank you to @The Relyk for timing me, I suppose...)
--- timestamps ---
0:00 Salutations
2:48 Music
7:08 Introducing “Femcels”… | Incels vs. Femcels
10:30 Urban Dictionary definitions
13:03 Mindmap #1 – Historical intersections and modern connections
15:50 Shulasmith Firestone and Pink Pill Feminism | Radical feminists vs. the Second Wave
21:50 Political lesbianism & voluntary celibacy | Artificial reproduction | Dismantling gender
26:33 The Myth of the V*ginal O*gasm (1970)
29:49 r/PinkPillFeminism | Reddit Posts prior to ban
36:38 Body Positivity
45:15 Conflict between modern men & women
48:00 Identity crisis among femcels
52:19 Pink Pill femcels vs. Black pill femcels
54:50 “Looksmaxxing”
1:00:45 “Whitemaxxing”
1:04:25 Why some femcels dislike average women and trans women
1:09:20 WGTOW (women going their own way)
1:16:19 Red Pill Women vs. Pink Pill Women
1:20:57 Red Pill Women explained | JustPearlyThings
1:28:22 Traditional women, Leftover women, & Wh*r*s | Torshaa | Amala Ekpunobi
1:38:45 Masculine women
1:42:13 Women as “complicity in their own unfreedom” | Simone de Beauvoir & the Red Pill
1:45:45 Western Europe vs. North America re. Second Wave Feminism | Freedom
1:52:33 Red Pill Women & the mainstream media | Anti-s*x revolution and hook-up culture
1:57:53 Tech & limitless desire | Beauty’s in the eye of the beholder?
2:08:02 Jordan Peterson & individualism contradiction
2:14:48 Brad Pitt thinks Dianne Wiest is “the most beautiful woman…”
2:23:25 Is this all a “developed world problem”?
2:29:15 How do media/public relationships influence our own relationship expectations? | Foodie Beauty
2:37:30 Why Jordan and Tammy Peterson work (as a public relationship)
2:43:55 End of stream chatter
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→ theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2022/05/femcel-meaning-female-incel-reddit/629836
→ unherd.com/2022/10/the-year-of-the-femcel
→ The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir
→ The Case Against the S*xual Revolution by Louise Perry
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![Dating Apps: The New Class Struggle
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 Intro | The original objective of Tinder | What Tinder looks like today | Why people are increasingly using dating apps
4:47 How Tinder (specifically) has changed the way we date and form relationships
11:37 Why there are so few women on dating apps | 20% Male Elite advantage on dating apps
16:28 No. of likes = Desirability / Value | Who Tinder is for | Why and how Tinder keeps its most valued users swiping (and needs you to do it) | The unnatural proliferation of hypergamy and rejection
FURTHER READING | SOURCES
📑 https://quillette.com/2021/06/28/mate-selection-for-modernity/ [Mate Selection for Modernity, Quillette]
📑 https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater [worst-online-dater experiments and findings from 2015]
📑 https://www.businessofapps.com/data/tinder-statistics/ [Some of the most recent statistics on Tinder]
📑 https://onlineforlove.com/tinder-statistics/?vid=efVWNqVcjFGoCyE6ObqKf1H5b6x&n=10wDm2lPZsFi&utm_term=efVWNqVcjFGoCyE6ObqKf1H5b6x [More in-depth and multi-source statistics and analyses about Tinder and other popular dating apps]
📑 https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/jan/27/why-do-dating-apps-bring-out-the-worst-in-men [Why Do Dating Apps Bring Out the Worst in Men? by Nancy Jo Sales is a very interesting piece about the dating app biosphere]
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SEXUAL MARKET LIBERALISM
Stay tuned for my follow-up video going into extensively more depth than this video. Itll focus on the origins and contradictions of this brutal market we are all, in some way or another, apart of. Ill be scripting and recording it very soon, and it should be up by the end of March 2022. This essay inspired my interest in this topic: https://unherd.com/2022/01/why-do-men-hate-women-2/ [The cost of sexual liberation: Theres a price to pay for emancipation by Mary Harrington]
Thank you very much for your time and engagement. Let me know your thoughts, opinions, and experiences down below; I am intrigued to read... Dating Apps: The New Class Struggle](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/bhALIgyS4Ic/mqdefault.jpg)
![Understanding your sexuality in the 21st century
This is a livestream discussion based on what you decided we should focus on in todays weekly livestream. The topic is SEXUALITY : INNATE OR CONTEXTUALLY INFLUENCED?
PLEASE be respectful of everybodys opinions, experiences, and perspectives. This is an open discussion and I implore all viewers and participants in the livestream and comment section below to be mindful of others. Thank you for your cooperation and consideration in advance.
[timestamps coming shortly] Understanding your sexuality in the 21st century](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/byTqVABaHUE/mqdefault.jpg)




![Talking to @BASSFZz about incels, modern dating, and our differences | Call-in livestream (ep.2)
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0:00 Salutations
3:11 Music
5:45 @BASSFZz joins the stream
7:27 Three criticisms from @BASSFZz
12:09 Kidology’s first response | Similarities between incel ideology and mainstream issues
22:45 Women’s increased options (and its dilemmas)
29:39 Generalisations and the real world | When do we stop blaming society? | The weight on men vs. women in modern society
38:20 The demonisation of men’s power | “The Patriarchy” | Feminism as philosophy vs. feminism as an ideology/politics
47:01 @BASSFZz on women being a part of the solution | Generalisations as a probability rather than a rule
53:50 How do people get into echo chambers? How do people get out of echo chambers?
58:55 The s*xual component
1:03:12 Kidology’s passivity in dating and relationships addressed
1:10:03 Do dating apps privilege women?
1:14:40 What is Kidology picky for when it comes to men on dating apps and in real life? | Kidology’s changing opinions of @BASSFZz and attractiveness
1:23:13 Should men approach Kidology/women more? | Ghosting women | Can we truly know what we’re looking for in a partner?
1:31:24 Men’s openness & the importance of the “meeting market” | Men’s interests vs. women’s interests
1:39:35 @BASSFZz relationship to women in adulthood and understanding of “inceldom”
1:43:59 Will (most) incels “ascend” with time and age? | Is inceldom a phase?
1:46:39 Are incels a threat to society or to themselves?
1:50:00 What can young women do to engage with young men meaningfully?
1:56:30 What can young men be doing to bridge the gap between themselves and women? | Mentorship from men | “Paying it forward” vs. grifting/commercial self-improvement
2:06:20 Do men treat women “like dirt”?
2:20:07 Post call-in reflections & catching up with the chat
2:24:40 Judging your Spotify Wrapped 2022 revelations
2:42:45 Why I am harsh on (modern) feminism | Thank you for watching!
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![Squid Game ep.2 is TERRIFYING | Why hell is inescapable
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📍Featured content:
Squid Game (오징어 게임) S1E2 (Hell)
Director: Hwang Dong-hyuk (황동혁)
South Koreas Hangover | Al Jazeera English | 101 East | S1E2
Director: Steve Chao
https://www.aljazeera.com/program/101-east/2016/2/5/south-koreas-hangover [Al Jazeera English has outstandingly covered South Korean culture and contemporary issues facing the country and its people]
📍Music:
An der schönen, blauen Donau, Op. 314 [By the Beautiful Blue Danube], or The Blue Danube
Composer: Johann Strauss II
Date of composition: 1866
Source: European Archives (public domain)
📍Chapters:
0:00 Introduction Michel Foucault quotation
3:05 Bureaucracy A personal example; Its place in Squid Game
8:26 Why bureaucracy is so terrifying
13:53 Knowledge is power Information in Squid Game; The real world
15:49 Different Game, Same Bureaucracy The absence of trust/faith/hope; Amorality in bureaucracy; SOJU!; Corruption and Inequality; Loneliness & Isolation
24:16 Thank you!
📍Reading / Sources:
* On Bureaucracy by Max Weber https://archive.law.upenn.edu/institutes/cerl/conferences/ethicsofsecrecy/papers/reading/Weber.pdf
* On Violence by Hannah Arendt
* Ethics: Essential Works, 1954-84 by Michel Foucault
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![Why the FAR RIGHT is OBSESSED with THE LORD OF THE RINGS
WARNING: Flashing lights from 0:39 to 0:48
*Timestamps*
0:00 Introduction
1:46 Introducing Giorgia Meloni: Mother, Italian, Christian
5:55 Hobbit Camps
13:48 Tolkienites of the Right, Unite!
*Music*
→ Peer Gynt - Suite No. 1, Op. 46 - I. Morning Mood by Edvard Grieg (1875)
→ Casta Diva from Norma (Act 1) by Vincenzo Bellini (1831)
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*Sources/Further reading*
→ The Origins of Totalitarianism by Hannah Arendt
→ The Lord of the Rings by J. R. R. Tolkien
→ What is Post-fascism by Gáspár Miklós Tamás (https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/article_306jsp/)
→ Credit for Middle Earth map high-resolution image goes to @Megaton Games posted February 2016 to Twitter
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![FINALLY talking to @BrittanySimon (ep.6) - Introduction
On Monday, January 30th, @BrittanySimon will be talking to @KidologyCO about the WHY of [Kidologys] life and work. Brittany Simon is a Professional Conversationalist and Listener who is also the co-founder of The Levels (a fascinating way to observe peoples introspection level):
Exploring The Levels - The Brittany Simon Podcast (ep.5) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kk9pYukx0O4
How To Choose A Bubble - The Brittany Simon Podcast (ep.83) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p7yHoHj2vxk&t=1s
*FULL STREAM* will be edited and available shortly.
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![Relationship Weight Gain: A deep dive into how weight gain is making us all single
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TIMESTAMPS
0:00 Celebrities are gaining weight
6:25 The Red Pills theory of whales making marriage obsolete
14:08 Relationship weight gain
20:24 S3xual orientation & weight gain | Why are gay men so healthy & unhappy?
24:48 Why men and husbands dont find their women attractive anymore
PRIMARY SOURCES
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9163392/ [Perceptions of Weight Change Among Romantic Partners: Considering Body Image, Relationship Experiences, Gender, and Sexual Orientation by Markey et. al]
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1411692/ [Marital status, fatness and obesity by Sobal et. al]
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30234354/ [How cohabitation, marriage, separation, and divorce influence BMI: A prespective panel study by Mata et. al]
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/23311908.2018.1496986#:~:text=Among%20women%2C%20relationship%20functioning%20emerged,and%20passion%20(Table%204%20). [Body image and the role of romantic relationships by Fernanda Laus et. al]
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10964-005-9013-6 [Romantic Relationships and Body Satisfaction Among Young Women by Markey & Markey]
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38368723/ [The relationship between Marriage and Body Mass Index in China: Evidence from the China Health and Nutrition Survey by Quan et. al]
https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/vjmj38/men_of_the_group_what_do_you_really_think_of_your/
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#kidology #weightgain #redpill #magicmind #mentalperformance #productivityhacks Relationship Weight Gain: A deep dive into how weight gain is making us all single](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/emXNCIs2YyU/mqdefault.jpg)