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![Talking to @BASSFZz about incels, modern dating, and our differences | Call-in livestream (ep.2)
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~ timestamps ~
0:00 Salutations
3:11 Music
5:45 @BASSFZz joins the stream
7:27 Three criticisms from @BASSFZz
12:09 Kidologyβs first response | Similarities between incel ideology and mainstream issues
22:45 Womenβs increased options (and its dilemmas)
29:39 Generalisations and the real world | When do we stop blaming society? | The weight on men vs. women in modern society
38:20 The demonisation of menβs power | βThe Patriarchyβ | Feminism as philosophy vs. feminism as an ideology/politics
47:01 @BASSFZz on women being a part of the solution | Generalisations as a probability rather than a rule
53:50 How do people get into echo chambers? How do people get out of echo chambers?
58:55 The s*xual component
1:03:12 Kidologyβs passivity in dating and relationships addressed
1:10:03 Do dating apps privilege women?
1:14:40 What is Kidology picky for when it comes to men on dating apps and in real life? | Kidologyβs changing opinions of @BASSFZz and attractiveness
1:23:13 Should men approach Kidology/women more? | Ghosting women | Can we truly know what weβre looking for in a partner?
1:31:24 Menβs openness & the importance of the βmeeting marketβ | Menβs interests vs. womenβs interests
1:39:35 @BASSFZz relationship to women in adulthood and understanding of βinceldomβ
1:43:59 Will (most) incels βascendβ with time and age? | Is inceldom a phase?
1:46:39 Are incels a threat to society or to themselves?
1:50:00 What can young women do to engage with young men meaningfully?
1:56:30 What can young men be doing to bridge the gap between themselves and women? | Mentorship from men | βPaying it forwardβ vs. grifting/commercial self-improvement
2:06:20 Do men treat women βlike dirtβ?
2:20:07 Post call-in reflections & catching up with the chat
2:24:40 Judging your Spotify Wrapped 2022 revelations
2:42:45 Why I am harsh on (modern) feminism | Thank you for watching!
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β https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IlsZ0ybx3kY&t=21s (Kidology is NOT an Incel)
β https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTzApAhTYxs (So Attraction...Is Still The Only Thing That Matters?)
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#dating #incels #femcels #justpearlythings #therationalmale #masculinity #feminism #femininity #bodypositive #bodypositivity #patriarchy #jordanpeterson #redpill #marriage #modernlove #modernlife #kidology #relationships #callinshow Talking to @BASSFZz about incels, modern dating, and our differences | Call-in livestream (ep.2)](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/eA3uJQzE2VQ/mqdefault.jpg)
![Squid Game ep.2 is TERRIFYING | Why hell is inescapable
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β οΈ Disclaimer PLEASE NOTE that I make references to several very serious social issues twice in this video. A disclaimer is included in the video itself.
πFeatured content:
Squid Game (μ€μ§μ΄ κ²μ) S1E2 (Hell)
Director: Hwang Dong-hyuk (ν©λν)
South Koreas Hangover | Al Jazeera English | 101 East | S1E2
Director: Steve Chao
https://www.aljazeera.com/program/101-east/2016/2/5/south-koreas-hangover [Al Jazeera English has outstandingly covered South Korean culture and contemporary issues facing the country and its people]
πMusic:
An der schΓΆnen, blauen Donau, Op. 314 [By the Beautiful Blue Danube], or The Blue Danube
Composer: Johann Strauss II
Date of composition: 1866
Source: European Archives (public domain)
πChapters:
0:00 Introduction Michel Foucault quotation
3:05 Bureaucracy A personal example; Its place in Squid Game
8:26 Why bureaucracy is so terrifying
13:53 Knowledge is power Information in Squid Game; The real world
15:49 Different Game, Same Bureaucracy The absence of trust/faith/hope; Amorality in bureaucracy; SOJU!; Corruption and Inequality; Loneliness & Isolation
24:16 Thank you!
πReading / Sources:
* On Bureaucracy by Max Weber https://archive.law.upenn.edu/institutes/cerl/conferences/ethicsofsecrecy/papers/reading/Weber.pdf
* On Violence by Hannah Arendt
* Ethics: Essential Works, 1954-84 by Michel Foucault
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![Why the FAR RIGHT is OBSESSED with THE LORD OF THE RINGS
WARNING: Flashing lights from 0:39 to 0:48
*Timestamps*
0:00 Introduction
1:46 Introducing Giorgia Meloni: Mother, Italian, Christian
5:55 Hobbit Camps
13:48 Tolkienites of the Right, Unite!
*Music*
β Peer Gynt - Suite No. 1, Op. 46 - I. Morning Mood by Edvard Grieg (1875)
β Casta Diva from Norma (Act 1) by Vincenzo Bellini (1831)
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*Sources/Further reading*
β The Origins of Totalitarianism by Hannah Arendt
β The Lord of the Rings by J. R. R. Tolkien
β What is Post-fascism by GΓ‘spΓ‘r MiklΓ³s TamΓ‘s (https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/article_306jsp/)
β Credit for Middle Earth map high-resolution image goes to @Megaton Games posted February 2016 to Twitter
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![FINALLY talking to @BrittanySimon (ep.6) - Introduction
On Monday, January 30th, @BrittanySimon will be talking to @KidologyCO about the WHY of [Kidologys] life and work. Brittany Simon is a Professional Conversationalist and Listener who is also the co-founder of The Levels (a fascinating way to observe peoples introspection level):
Exploring The Levels - The Brittany Simon Podcast (ep.5) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kk9pYukx0O4
How To Choose A Bubble - The Brittany Simon Podcast (ep.83) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p7yHoHj2vxk&t=1s
*FULL STREAM* will be edited and available shortly.
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![Relationship Weight Gain: A deep dive into how weight gain is making us all single
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TIMESTAMPS
0:00 Celebrities are gaining weight
6:25 The Red Pills theory of whales making marriage obsolete
14:08 Relationship weight gain
20:24 S3xual orientation & weight gain | Why are gay men so healthy & unhappy?
24:48 Why men and husbands dont find their women attractive anymore
PRIMARY SOURCES
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9163392/ [Perceptions of Weight Change Among Romantic Partners: Considering Body Image, Relationship Experiences, Gender, and Sexual Orientation by Markey et. al]
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1411692/ [Marital status, fatness and obesity by Sobal et. al]
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30234354/ [How cohabitation, marriage, separation, and divorce influence BMI: A prespective panel study by Mata et. al]
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/23311908.2018.1496986#:~:text=Among%20women%2C%20relationship%20functioning%20emerged,and%20passion%20(Table%204%20). [Body image and the role of romantic relationships by Fernanda Laus et. al]
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10964-005-9013-6 [Romantic Relationships and Body Satisfaction Among Young Women by Markey & Markey]
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38368723/ [The relationship between Marriage and Body Mass Index in China: Evidence from the China Health and Nutrition Survey by Quan et. al]
https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/vjmj38/men_of_the_group_what_do_you_really_think_of_your/
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#kidology #weightgain #redpill #magicmind #mentalperformance #productivityhacks Relationship Weight Gain: A deep dive into how weight gain is making us all single](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/emXNCIs2YyU/mqdefault.jpg)
![THE THORP FAMILY: Analysing a modern family like no other...
I am obsessed with the Thorp Family. This is a deep dive and analysis into a modern family like no other. If you like this kind of content be sure to like, subscribe and leave a comment with a recommendation or two!
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0:00 Welcome! Salutations!
5:11 Mindmap #1: THORP FAMILY HISTORY | Kidologys bizarre story into hearing about the Thorp Family
10:10 Introducing Ben Thorp AKA Abel (@BenThorpAkaAbel)
23:01 Introducing Cortney Thorp (@Thankyoursir)
39:15 How Ben and Cortney Thorp met
47:23 Introducing Grace Thorp (@Thorp-Tube)
1:03:17 Mindmap #2: THORP CORP | Kidologys analysis of why the Thorp Family is...
1:22:27 The importance of online therapy to the Thorp Family | Introducing wh*re maxxer as relationship therapist
1:31:11 Uncle Max humiliates Cortney during relationship therapy with Ben
1:44:10 Evidence of Cortney being privy to the trolling and drama content of Thorp Corp
1:51:53 CORTNEY LEAVES THORP CORP
2:00:52 Can Thorp Corp bring the family together?
2:05:38 Ben wants to WIN HIS KIDS and DEFEAT CORTNEY | Were going to be big on YouTube.
2:23:40 Ben Thorp on women
2:45:08 Why Ben and Grace believe Cortney has caused the emotional dysregulation in the family | Grace confronts Cortney, calling her criminally insane
2:59:22 The importance of BENS MANHOOD in all this
3:08:03 Graces nosebleed | Grace hitting and dragging Cortney by her hair
3:16:56 The Mothers Day incident | Kidology gets trolled by Grace Thorp in real time...
3:20:35 John Thorp makes a SuperChat | THORP FAMILY ENTERS THE STREAM!
3:25:35 Kidology talks directly to the Thorp Family
3:29:12 Grace Thorp asks if Kidology has a tiny crush on Ben Thorp
3:34:45 I dont think the Thorps are bad people.
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![Capitalism (today)
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TIMESTAMPS
0:00 Introduction | Disclaimer
1:06 Thank you WREN for sponsoring this video! (This video was sponsored by Wren)
4:46 Hard Truths (capitalism as a hard truth)
8:21 Our outdated definition of capitalism | Capitalism as an economic system
13:48 A (more) useful definition and understanding of capitalism for our times | Finance capitalism | The Mont Pelerin Society and neoliberalisms emergence | How and why we have become more neoliberal
18:15 Neoliberalisms co-opting of capitalism | The Regina George-ification of capitalism
22:41 Finance =/= capitalism
30:33 A decline in courage | Fear as endemic of our age (and of neoliberalism and its ever-present legacy)
PRIMARY SOURCES | REFERENCES | FURTHER READING
π https://nymag.com/intelligencer/article/fact-check-richest-1-dont-pay-40-of-the-taxes.html?regwall-newsletter-signup=true (No, the Richest One Percent Dont Pay 40 Percent of the Taxes)
π https://rooseveltinstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/RI_EndingShareholderPrimacy_workingpaper_201902.pdf (Ending Shareholder Primacy in Corporate Governance [working paper])
π https://oxfamilibrary.openrepository.com/bitstream/handle/10546/621149/bp-the-inequality-virus-250121-en.pdf (The Inequality Virus Oxfam January 2021 Report)
π https://www.nytimes.com/1993/11/28/opinion/to-tame-savage-capitalism.html (To Tame Savage Capitalism by Aleksandr I. Solzhenitsyn)
π https://www.gothamcenter.org/blog/a-crisis-without-keynes-the-1975-new-york-city-fiscal-crisis-revisited (A Crisis without Keynes: The 1975 New York City Fiscal Crisis Revisited)
π https://unherd.com/2022/02/covid-has-created-a-capitalist-nightmare/ (Covid has created a capitalist nightmare)
π https://www.vox.com/policy-and-politics/2017/8/8/16112368/piketty-saez-zucman-income-growth-inequality-stagnation-chart (Youre not imagining it: the rich really are hoarding economic growth)
π https://gabriel-zucman.eu/files/SaezZucman2020JEP.pdf (The Rise of Income and Wealth Inequality in America: Evidence from Distributional Macroeconomic Accounts)
π https://www.jstor.org/stable/23026492?refreqid=fastly-default%3Ac4d357c0ab1fcce5f530fb88b363579a&ab_segments=0%2Fbasic_search_gsv2%2Fcontrol&origin=search-results (Neoliberal Times: Intersecting Temporalities & the Neoliberalization of New York Citys Public-Sector Labor Relations [Jstor access required])
π https://www.theguardian.com/books/2016/apr/15/neoliberalism-ideology-problem-george-monbiot (Neoliberalism: the ideology at the root of all our problems)
π https://www.theguardian.com/news/2017/nov/14/the-fatal-flaw-of-neoliberalism-its-bad-economics (The fatal flaw of neoliberalism: its bad economics)
π https://journals.openedition.org/regulation/7473?lang=en (The Financial Crisis and the Global Shadow Banking System)
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Thank you so very much for your time and engagement (as always!). This is a controversial one and I know some of my views are a bit off the beaten track; but I thank you for giving me the time of day and, hopefully, taking something of interest or thought away with you. Do please let me know your thoughts in the comments down below or feel free to pop me an email if thats more comfortable on your end. Capitalism (today)](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/f-4RcJI9kV4/mqdefault.jpg)