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‘A TERRIBLE APPROACH’: ANDREW SYMES ON LATEST C OF E MOVES
Dear marriage supporter,
The Church of England has confirmed that any new blessing services for same-sex couples must not look like weddings, with proposed guidance ruling out rings, vows, kisses or processions that might suggest a marriage is taking place.
At the same time, campaign groups have been gathering signatures for an open letter, now approaching 7,000 clergy and lay members, urging the bishops to go further and faster towards full LGBT inclusion.
Against that background – and following on from my first conversation with Revd Andrew Symes – this second part of our recent interview, recorded shortly after the bishops’ announcement, looks at what Living in Love and Faith has really meant for marriage and why this matters for anyone who cares about the truth. You can watch the video here.
In this new video, Andrew goes back to first principles. For him the issue is the Gospel and the Church’s public witness. At the centre sits the belief that marriage is the term describing what only one man and one woman can do and that this God-given pattern protects sex and children.
He then tackles Living in Love and Faith. LLF was presented as a listening process, but in reality, he says, it has been driven by “those who want a much more liberal approach” and its purpose “has been… the aim of liberalising the church’s teaching on sex and marriage”. General Synod now permits blessings for same-sex couples in regular services, even though official doctrine still says marriage is only between one man and one woman, prompting “questions of conscience”. He asks: “Can we continue to be in the Church of England when it has this ambivalent view of marriage and sexuality?”
Andrew is especially critical of claims that nothing significant has changed because the canons remain untouched. His verdict is: “it’s a terrible approach”. He notes that many Anglican churches elsewhere in the world, with far more worshippers than the Church of England, see this as a serious break with historic teaching. His concern resonates with C4M supporters who believe real man-woman marriage is the gold standard for individuals, children and society, and who want the national church to say so clearly.
If you’re not yet supporting C4M financially but would like to help, please click the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
‘A TERRIBLE APPROACH’: ANDREW SYMES ON LATEST C OF E MOVES
Dear marriage supporter,
The Church of England has confirmed that any new blessing services for same-sex couples must not look like weddings, with proposed guidance ruling out rings, vows, kisses or processions that might suggest a marriage is taking place.
At the same time, campaign groups have been gathering signatures for an open letter, now approaching 7,000 clergy and lay members, urging the bishops to go further and faster towards full LGBT inclusion.
Against that background – and following on from my first conversation with Revd Andrew Symes – this second part of our recent interview, recorded shortly after the bishops’ announcement, looks at what Living in Love and Faith has really meant for marriage and why this matters for anyone who cares about the truth. You can watch the video here.
In this new video, Andrew goes back to first principles. For him the issue is the Gospel and the Church’s public witness. At the centre sits the belief that marriage is the term describing what only one man and one woman can do and that this God-given pattern protects sex and children.
He then tackles Living in Love and Faith. LLF was presented as a listening process, but in reality, he says, it has been driven by “those who want a much more liberal approach” and its purpose “has been… the aim of liberalising the church’s teaching on sex and marriage”. General Synod now permits blessings for same-sex couples in regular services, even though official doctrine still says marriage is only between one man and one woman, prompting “questions of conscience”. He asks: “Can we continue to be in the Church of England when it has this ambivalent view of marriage and sexuality?”
Andrew is especially critical of claims that nothing significant has changed because the canons remain untouched. His verdict is: “it’s a terrible approach”. He notes that many Anglican churches elsewhere in the world, with far more worshippers than the Church of England, see this as a serious break with historic teaching. His concern resonates with C4M supporters who believe real man-woman marriage is the gold standard for individuals, children and society, and who want the national church to say so clearly.
If you’re not yet supporting C4M financially but would like to help, please click the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage

![Activists want to replace family values in schools. Elizabeth Harewood (ACT) and Tony Rucinski
INTERVIEW: ACTIVISTS WANT TO ‘REPLACE FAMILY VALUES’ IN SCHOOLS
Dear marriage supporter,
The Association of Christian Teachers (ACT), has published deeply concerning findings about how traditional views of marriage and gender are treated in schools. Watch my discussion with ACT’s Lizzie Harewood about this here.
ACT’s investigation was prompted by numerous teachers who felt “forced” into activities counter to their beliefs, such as Pride marches, or who saw their young pupils exposed to “drag-queen story time” against their wishes. It aimed to find out if these instances were isolated or part of a broader trend by speaking to teachers who champion man-woman marriage and traditional gender views.
The research centred on the nature of Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) materials, exemplary practices, and how schools responded to moral objections about resources and third-party providers. Lizzie told me that three startling revelations emerged:
1. A clear “existence of … ideological bias in the curriculum” that neglects traditional views on marriage and gender.
2. The growing marginalisation of teachers upholding these values, leading them into “unnecessary [professional] dilemmas”.
3. A number of educators are being removed from teaching RSE due to their convictions, even when these are presented “in a balanced way”.
Beyond these core findings, many teachers face a looming “state of fear” should they voice concerns or seek a balanced teaching approach. Disturbingly, certain ideological groups seem to believe it’s their right to “replace family values”. Some educators reported that the benefits of children growing up with married parents receive “no mention”.
However, Lizzie highlighted ACT’s unwavering commitment to supporting Christians in education. Its backing for traditional beliefs around man-woman marriage and immutable gender stems from a conviction that these principles result in the best outcomes for all children, irrespective of their faith.
C4M knows that optimal outcomes for both adults and children spring from the gold standard of man-woman marriage. Teaching this to the next generation in a balanced manner should be paramount. We encourage you to share the interview, stand with educators facing these challenges, and advocate for the rightful recognition of real marriage in education and society at large.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the donate button on our website at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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![The Church Must Take a Stand on Marriage - Revd Dr Joe Boot interview with Dr Tony Rucinski
THE CHURCH MUST TAKE A STAND ON MARRIAGE
Dear marriage supporter,
Reverend Dr Joe Boot, founder of the Ezra Institute, recently joined me for a must-watch interview, offering essential guidance for all – and especially today’s church leaders. Dr Boot’s intellect and insight shed light on the urgent need for the Church to uphold man-woman marriage. Marriage, he says, is a foundational institution that transcends religious boundaries, with relevance to people from all faiths and none. The full interview is available here, along with a shorter seven-minute clip for those pressed for time - https://youtu.be/Sgu9AP7pTe8
In our conversation, Revd Dr Boot emphasises that “the message of the Gospel” includes “human identity and sexuality”. Revd Dr Boot offers practical advice on how busy pastors can find time to tackle these cultural challenges, stressing that this should be a vital aspect of their ministry.
He does not shy away from the reality that many non-Christians are deeply disappointed with the Church’s stand on these issues. He insists that “we have to show… compassion and kindness without compromising what is true”.
He quotes that marriage is “the cosmological key to the universe”, emphasising the profound significance of marriage to the stability of society.
The cultural attacks on marriage and family are not new, Dr Boot argues. But the Church cannot afford to stay silent. Emphasising the responsibility of the Church to engage in these cultural battles, he asserts: “You can’t leave that struggle to JK Rowling… [and] Sharron Davies”.
C4M believes that the restoration of real marriage will be driven by the silent majority speaking out. To support this effort, please forward this email to any church leaders you know and encourage them to listen to Dr Boot’s important message.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
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