sexplanations
SexShields - 2
updated
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Eight years ago, I published a video on my vlog channel DoeEyes asking a boy who likes my daughter to stop asking her out because she felt harassed. The video went viral for its messaging about consent and relationships. Then it was picked up by a media outlet that reframed the story and fueled cruelty. My daughter and I were threatened. The experience traumatized me and now I'm sharing it because there is a lot to learn from the experience.
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Chapters:
0:00 Intro
0:30 Unboxing the Vesper 2
4:41 Testing the Vesper 2
6:35 Get the Vesper 2
7:44 Bloopers
Videos:
Dr. Doe's Gift Suggestions youtu.be/-yx0J9VWfhk
Sexplanations Subtle Vibrations youtu.be/-8LEDkcRKfA
50 Ways to Hold a Vibrator http://youtu.be/QYzzJTciDdE
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I wanted a little challenge. Can I make a connection to sex from any random word or phrase? I asked the videographer to say a term without any preparation and I verbalized my train of thought without any scripting or time to really contemplate. It was exciting and taught me something about myself now. Whereas I used to connect everything to sex, I now seem to connect everything to Sexplanations. This is telling. What it suggests is that sex isn't my passion like it used to be. I'm passionate specifically about Sexplanations -- an accessible sex education resource that has a willing and engaged audience that makes the world a better place.
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Chapters:
0:00 Intro
1:34 Broccoli
1:58 Paragliding
2:41 Settlers of Catan
3:20 Sex on the beach
3:55 Large hadron collider
5:15 Dog break!
5:32 Ladybug
6:28 Cardboard
6:41 Women’s rights
7:37 American football
8:13 YouTube play button
9:16 Incense
9:33 Outro
10:43 Bloopers
Videos:
Sexplanations Podcast featuring Hank Green youtube.com/watch?v=7FA9aqw1wag
DIY Sex Toys youtube.com/watch?v=e5oa3W9w85E
Self-Induced Abortions youtube.com/watch?v=kaUnTWc8siQ
Vessel Film youtube.com/watch?v=aWkBUmEkwbs
Nick on Identity youtube.com/watch?v=3oQK2Eme1Qg
Lindsey and Nick answer your Sexplanations questions youtube.com/watch?v=NjHJ2H5Yx8w
Nick's Goodbye youtube.com/watch?v=5ipGNiluwGE
Sex Smells youtube.com/watch?v=_XuSRF7gpWU
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IS SEX...? Sometimes I wonder what people are curious about on the world wide web. What do they ask about sexuality? What are they concerned about or interested in? And so, with the help of predictive text, these are the questions autogenerated and the short answers from your online clinical sexologist. Stay curious.
Chapters:
0:00 Intro
0:12 Is sex work legal in Mexico?
0:39 Is sex binary?
0:55 Is sex overrated?
01:12 Is sex supposed to hurt?
01:25 Is sex a sin?
01:39 Is sexting cheating?
01:52 Is sex safe during pregnancy?
02:31 Is sex important in a relationship?
02:59 Is sex exercise?
03:44 Is Sexplanations ending?
06:33 Bloopers
Videos:
Why Sex Hurts youtu.be/Dx9DVFSNx7Q
Bondage 101 youtu.be/RxH4DD-y1y0
Is Masturbation a Sin? youtu.be/QwGGV9TByAE
Sources:
journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0079342
CHAPTERS:
0:00 Intro
0:34 Life Changes
1:11 Moving to Mexico
2:10 Dog rescues
2:45 Kitesurfing
3:27 Crafting
3:59 Hooking up
5:37 Favorite dinosaur
6:05 The future
7:52 Sex and death
8:53 Outro and Bloopers
VIDEOS:
Heartfelt Explanations
youtube.com/watch?v=VkVFZtdPH2U
The Greatest SEXpedition
youtube.com/watch?v=b-fePWVor9g
Sex Education RV Wrap Reveal
youtube.com/watch?v=bjgCvtHC9D8
Jae Rhim Lee: My mushroom burial suit
youtube.com/watch?v=_7rS_d1fiUc
Podcast episode with Em:
soundcloud.com/sexplanations/episode-67-rediscovering-who-we-are-with-the-vibrant-emily
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I asked her to talk about this developmental experience because it's been so fascinating to me how much change takes place within a person and across time. Undoubtedly curiosity has designed a remarkable human and I'm ever so thankful for her willingness to stay curious.
In the next episode, Em does the questioning of me. I gave her permission to ask anything she wanted and I think she did. Really well.
Podcast interview with Em from 4 years ago: soundcloud.com/sexplanations/episode-67-rediscovering-who-we-are-with-the-vibrant-emily
How to Get the Sex You Want - 14
youtu.be/xoYxd3E3UXU
Video Chapters
0:00 Intro
1:06 Becoming Dr. Doe’s student
6:45 Are we teaching kids to be queer?
8:32 Am I asexual?
10:13 Bisexuality and pansexuality
12:31 Nonbinary identities
15:19 Navigating polyamory as an ace person
20:46 Outro
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I judge too. I catch myself in hypocrisy. Don't yuck, someone else yum. But there I am poking holes in the lifestyle or personal choices of others like I'm some sort of all-knowing guru of existence. I'm not.
There isn't a should about whether or not you have sex with your ex. Unlikely that anything applies to everyone or all of time and place. Life is too diverse for a system of shoulds and musts. I think.
So if I or you or someone else is sleeping with an ex or isn't -- all I ask is that you not pack shame onto that decision and stay curious.
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Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:09 Benefits and risk factors of breakup sex
02:45 What does the research say?
03:23 Perspectives
04:07 My experiences with breakup sex
04:28 Takeaways
06:21 Bloopers
Videos:
Decisions, Decisions: How to Make Hard Choices! (ft. Dr. Lindsey Doe!)
youtube.com/watch?v=lxWSGwJzDlY
How to Break Up with Someone the RIGHT Way (ft. Dr. Lindsey Doe!)
youtube.com/watch?v=NO_PyUrk1zs
Break Up First Aid Kit
youtube.com/watch?v=wS1_K8JcZT0
Sources:
journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704920936916
journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0265407509351035
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22946958
link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-018-1268-6
elitedaily.com/p/is-having-sex-with-your-ex-unhealthy-a-new-study-makes-a-surprising-discovery-12612276
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3115386
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28485695
forbes.com/advisor/legal/divorce/divorce-statistics
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10001274
bustle.com/wellness/things-no-one-tells-you-about-sex-with-your-ex
journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704920936916
Additional notes which I may expound upon in a future video but I think are helpful to know now:
· Most Hydromax/ HydroXtreme users report improved sex lives
· 80% of HydroXtreme users reported size gains
· 86.66% of HydroXtreme users reported "better erections"
· After two months, 92.9% of HydroXtreme users report better erections
· After two months, 85.7% of HydroXtreme users report size gains Lindsey **There isn't quantitative research to support permanent size gains of using a hydropump but there's a lot of empirical data from users showing pumps increase length, girth, and tumescence more than temporarily
Link to an uncensored video of someone pumping his penis with a Bathmate HydroXtreme hydropump: youtube.com/watch?v=rj6qNW_wuWU
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Cock Rings
youtube.com/watch?v=InbHM-kY55I
Video Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:20 How Geddings Osbon invented a penis pump
01:37 How a penis pump works
02:42 History of penis pump patents
03:59 Stats and studies on penis pumping
04:38 Benefits of penis pumping
05:41 Sponsor
06:10 Bloopers
Sources:
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3784970
augustams.com/vacuum-therapy-for-ed-history
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3784970
thevibed.com/blogs/thevibed-sex-toys-blog/pumps-buyers-guide
patents.google.com/patent/US1225341A/en
auajournals.org/doi/10.1016/S0022-5347%2817%2940752-X
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There is some trepidation in sharing this because of the potential to offend people and the backlash. It's definitely a different style than usual -- more critical, more assertive. My hope is that over all these years together, I've built rapport with you to trust my intentions and assume goodwill. Even if it doesn't fit with your beliefs, fawning is something we can stay curious about.
Video Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:34 What is fawning?
01:32 Problems with fawning
02:08 Do you witness fawning? Watch this
05:23 How the body responds to fear
06:20 What can we do?
Link to the okcupid data:
thesocietypages.org/socimages/2015/07/03/ok-cupid-data-on-sex-desirability-and-age
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The video explains why I took interest in this tourist attraction and what the experiment conducted there which influences our understanding of sexual arousal. It also features cute dogs and the video-making assistance of my daughter.
My apologies that the research is cishet.
A big thanks to all of you on patreon.com/sexplanations who make this content possible.
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A big thank you to Blake for doing this work in his community and sharing wisdom with ours, to those you who share your talents, and to the many who support expression. I'm a fan.
0:00 Intro
0:33 What is a drag show?
1:27 What to wear
1:42 What to bring
2:11 When to show up
2:24 Where to sit
2:56 What to do
3:14 What to expect
4:51 Don’ts
5:44 How to apologize
6:06 Watch my drag performance!
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Also, a big reason why I made this episode was to show looks aren't intrinsically gendered. Men wear wigs, makeup, dresses, and nail polish. Maybe more comprehensive and accurate education for the haters will lessen/stop the bigotry.
0:00 Intro
0:33 Lipstick
2:45 Nails
4:45 Eyelashes
5:42 Hair
6:03 Padding
7:30 Let's learn and stay curious
Crave Dr. Lindsey Doe Limited Edition Vesper
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We made this episode of Sexplanations to be a solid summary of deepfake porn so that people can stay informed and curious. Please share.
00:00 Intro
00:09 What is a deepfake?
01:10 Deepfake porn
02:29 The Good
03:43 The Bad
05:55 What can we do?
09:17 Let’s talk!
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SOURCES:
Info -
the-artifice.com/deepfake-issues/#note-155204-21
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Garcia_v._Google,_Inc
efani.com/blog/deep-fakes#:~:text=As%20of%20March%202020%2C%20there,one%20million%20by%20February%202020
leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/billTextClient.xhtml?bill_id=201920200AB602
Quotes -
newlinesmag.com/spotlight/twitch-deepfake-porn-scandal-is-a-sign-of-things-to-come
kotaku.com/twitch-deepfake-porn-atrioc-sweet-anita-qt-cinderella-1850100817
doingitpodcast.co.uk/episodes/jennifer-savin
wired.com/story/deepfake-porn-harms-adult-performers-too
cybercivilrights.org/ccri-safety-center/#document
reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/88fhyz/cmv_deepfakes_pornographic_or_otherwise_are_in_no
twitlonger.com/show/n_1ss80dv
Videos -
youtu.be/2aHYp9IZrOw
youtu.be/wq-kmFCrF5Q
youtu.be/uAPUkgeiFVY
youtu.be/ROGuQK_cmmQ
youtu.be/CXeB63_ikdY
youtu.be/gon_DaMcIaw
youtu.be/_gb6RkD_25Y
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00:00 Intro
00:18 Can a penis break?
01:22 How a penile fracture happens
03:54 When to see a doctor
05:28 Risk factors for penile fractures
Delaying Surgical Treatment of Penile Fracture Results in Poor Functional Outcomes
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28753754
Curved Penises
youtube.com/watch?v=XGbFhFqoMPg
Sexual complications of penile fracture in men who have sex with men
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5996807
Penis Fracture
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK551618
Penile Fracture and Trauma
emedicine.medscape.com/article/456305-overview
Taqaandan
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4553230/#:~:text=Taqaandan%20or%20%27%27Taghaandan%2C%E2%80%9D,click%20is%20heard%20and%20felt
Orgasmic Sex Positions
youtu.be/IarBYMXb5cg
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00:00 Intro
00:25 Can your dentist tell if you’ve given a blowjob?
02:06 Do dentists learn how to navigate blowjob detection in dental school?
03:49 How do you take care of your mouth after deep throating?
Dr. Huzefa Kapadia on TikTok
tiktok.com/@dentite/video/6926687625222950150
Adriana Chechik on the Two Bears One Cave podcast
youtube.com/watch?v=DJbCB5tslcw
Antibacterial agents in semen
academic.oup.com/biolreprod/article/70/3/768/2712933
The Ultimate Blowjob - Part 1
youtube.com/watch?v=jYYYOLYegtQ
The Ultimate Blowjob - Part 2
youtube.com/watch?v=fmpEFmAngAw
Oral Sex Playlist
youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_zdi3TflN9Jf4i0906JViH6xmHlIZ7nQ
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A big thank you to Charles Panati for his permission to do this.
A big thank you to our supporters and community on Patreon.
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00:12 Rizz
00:19 Dopplebanger
00:21 Vab
00:31 Olfactophilia / Osmolagnia
00:43 Nasolingus
00:50 Cunnilingus
00:52 Fellatio
00:54 Anilingus
01:05 Tuning
01:07 DTR
01:10 Instafficial
01:16 On a Thing
01:23 Situationship
01:26 Breadcrumbing
01:39 Seggs
01:45 Cum tribute
02:03 Callipygian
02:07 Dump truck
02:12 Fraysexual
02:19 Ignotasexual
02:34 Accountant
02:49 Sneaky link
02:53 Showoff
02:59 Smash
03:17 Cushion
03:22 Clap cheeks
03:35 Shrimping
03:37 Pillow princess
03:42 Thirsty
03:45 Acomoclitic
03:49 Smoothie
03:52 Nullos
04:02 Leg Booty
04:06 Trixic
04:12 Toric
04:14 Skoliosexual
04:18 Fruity
04:36 Top
04:39 Bottom
04:42 Switch / Versatile
04:45 Side
Links to videos mentioned in this episode:
Demisexuality
youtube.com/watch?v=r9C4wUgl-xo
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Here are links to the resources referenced in the video.
Dr. Doe’s Favorite Sex Sites
youtube.com/watch?v=2qy1qN65Bvg
Paulo Freire on “banking”
https://envs.ucsc.edu/internships/internship-readings/freire-pedagogy-of-the-oppressed.pdf
2020 study on sexual satisfaction and mental health
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7036876/#:~:text=In%20general%2C%20results%20showed%20more,of%20depression%20for%20young%20adults.
Sexplanations Podcast!
youtube.com/@sexplanationspodcast
Picking the Right Lube
youtube.com/watch?v=5A5Nz_cnyfI
Lube Talk with Alex: a wet masturbation review
youtube.com/watch?v=RyzDu0ezKxg
Newton’s “Puberty” series
youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJX8EALqb4PzmhYdnK6AxcAhm45FyCCK-
Playlist for adults
youtube.com/watch?v=nHvJJsEd9k8&list=PL_zdi3TflN9K5-kXlufyUZA10hI1IH_BP
Playlist for teens
youtube.com/watch?v=S6jfmPs9pW0&list=PL_zdi3TflN9IekQXPvs-dT1deTEb-MMBZ
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The podcast is back!
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Special shoutouts to:
Charity:Water who is helping me to build water resources in high needs community. I will do a campaign with them soon to include all of you in another well project if you'd like to participate.
Every Dog Matters in Bulgaria and Baja Pet Rescue in Mexico, both organizations do really great work rescuing and rehoming dogs.
Maia Ledesma, for coming back on board as an editor for this channel. I asked her last minute when I finally decided to return at full-speed and she waved her magical wand all over this channel.
Alex the production assistant who navigates the ship and the dogs that cuddle all the negativity out of me.
Megasexual was coined by Rebecca Jay and Dr. Liz Powell in 2015 - friskyfairy.com/wp/blog/2018/03/15/megasexuality-the-identity-of-a-slut
Casual Sex Protocols - http://ReidAboutSex.com/protocols
Difficult Conversation Formula - https://ReidAboutSex.com/convo
Embrace the Awkward Formula - https://ReidAboutSex.com/awkward
The Safer Sex Elevator Speech -
https://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator
Allison Moon’s books - https://GirlSex101.com
ReidAboutSex on Youtube - youtube.com/ReidAboutSex
ReidAbotuSex on Instagram - https://Instagram.com/ReidAboutSex
Reid’s transformative justice-based accountability process - bit.ly/reidaccountability
Here is your link again for convenience: mycoral.co/Sexplanations
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DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
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I'm curious to hear your reviews and what cool inventions Sexpla(i)nauts come up with to make this product even better. My latest curiosity is whether or not you could safely strap-in a dildo for a receptive form of f**king. Staying curious ;o)
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This is a playlist of options for sexual pleasure:
youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_zdi3TflN9K2LML874lSrhNIZw2Ao68h
mentalhelp.net/addiction
tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/19419899.2019.1679230
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19453881
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This episode of Sexplanations is my spontaneous effort to show my own boundary with explicit pedagogy (or at least my understanding of culture's). To see the original video review of the book Show Me! you can go to Patreon.com/sexplanations and for $0 watch the whole thing, including my inner conflict.
Recently I've made four videos I can't even bring myself to post. My mind feels like it's jammed, like a big chunk of sadness is wedged into the gears of enthusiasm and purpose. Even though there's content it doesn't feel safe to share. I'm mad at myself for not knowing how to punch through this, for not having the energy to fight harder; and I'm mad at society for all the barriers it puts up for sex workers/educators like myself to do our jobs. GAH!!!
Anyway, that's what this video is. It's a vent session of me plunking through some of the back and forth that goes on in my mind when I think about what I want to do and how cornered I've become. I don't have a solution except to stay curious and give time time.
Thank you for being a part of what makes this job rewarding, for being such precious students and teachers to me. I'm not done yet but I'm squirming and shifting. It means a lot that you're here.
Respectfully,
Lindsey
I have some nostalgia about the early days of Sexplanations, when I was more carefree and energized. I looked back on a video that seems to have really benefited people the original First Time Tips youtu.be/F_hGkcrgtdc? and thought it would be helpful to update the video and share experience and insight from a broader source -- all of you.
I asked on Twitter what your first time tips are for those having sex and a lot of you shared about masturbation, consent, communication, changing your mind, and reasonable expectations. Here's a link to your responses: twitter.com/elleteedee/status/1419742549896400899
Here are links to some of the other resources I mention while going through the suggestions given:
tsubmissive.medium.com/5-ultimate-tips-for-first-time-sex-66de472b0b00
youtu.be/xoYxd3E3UXU?t=83
youtu.be/SqdF0AL2GBQ?t=204
youtu.be/5A5Nz_cnyfI?t=122
Thank you to everyone who contributed to this and all of you who are doing the work to prepare for your first time. Stay curious.
At first I used the registry to understand it from a laypersons perspective. I was shocked that Bill Cosby was not on there so early I learned the list isn't accurate. Then I spoke with a police detective, and two therapists who work with sex offenders. I used to work with sex offenders too but didn't take that into account. What I gathered from these sources, and then all the studies I read online, is that sex offender registries, at least the public registries in the U.S. are not fair, don't work right, and do incredible harm.
Here are some other resources to check out if you're curious:
smart.ojp.gov/sites/g/files/xyckuh231/files/media/document/adultsexoffendermanagement.pdf
https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/pdf/10.1086/658483
bark.us/blog/state-by-state-differences-in-sexting-laws
justice.gov/archive/tribal/docs/fv_tjs/session_3/session3_presentations/Sex_Offender_Guidelines.pdf
njjn.org/uploads/digital-library/resource_840.pdf
hrw.org/report/2013/05/01/raised-registry/irreparable-harm-placing-children-sex-offender-registries-us
smart.ojp.gov/SOMAPI-brief-management-strategies
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
Here are some other resources:
youtube.com/watch?v=25sUhR-oA0g
molecularautism.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s13229-017-0132-1
spectrumnews.org/news/gender-and-sexuality-in-autism-explained
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5789215
autisable.com/2017/07/08/self-stim
pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32535668
youtube.com/channel/UC9Bk0GbW8xgvTgQlheNG5uw
itunes.apple.com/us/movie/best-most-beautiful-things/id1182600782
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
Here's that video: youtube.com/watch?v=L3JE8oj_bWI
Now Sexplanations is into its ninth year and I thought it would be helpful to remake this episode. Not only are most of the original viewers through high school and college, it's something I've been asked to do by those of you who support the channel. "Remake some of your earlier stuff!" It's a great idea! It's like starting a new semester, inviting a new class and cohort to learn with us.
For those of you who are 2021 Sexplanations first years, welcome. There are over 400 videos on all sorts of topics and usual another added each week. We're happy to have you. Stay curious.
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
You can actually go to the site trylgc.com/sexplanations and use the best discount available. Going to trylgc.com/sexplanations shows you support our sponsors supporting sex ed. The discount code is a way to make things a little more affordable.
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Sex Work: youtu.be/WCUIx4VbSm8
Sexual Liberties: youtu.be/pqTsucn--p4
First Time Tips: youtu.be/F_hGkcrgtdc
Pregnancy Prevention: youtu.be/xf1KlQ-Pdvg
Toy Vaginas: youtu.be/-4BTrvdoH5g
Theory of Cognitive Dissonance: youtu.be/68c7Wd3NU5Y
Arousal: youtu.be/WmZnNWtQ2DE
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
ANAL SEX PREP: youtube.com/watch?v=0p84az86DfM
TRANS SEX: youtube.com/watch?v=RK8fv7i6v5A&t
150 SEX ACTS: youtube.com/watch?v=jqnkXufLM4A
HOW TO DEAL WITH SEXUAL INJUSTICES: youtu.be/TX-9jmmiWoY
REGAINING A HEALTHY SEX LIFE: youtube.com/watch?v=5VziM56ywZ4
MASTURBATION: youtube.com/watch?v=ClbmURYMFew
MORE ON TRAUMATIC MASTURBATORY SYNDROME: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9509379
healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/prone-masturbation#effect-on-sensation
HOW TO FIND A PARTNER: youtube.com/watch?v=rEReJ14bcjk
MY TIME AT A BROTHEL: youtube.com/watch?v=_JzRlRu6_uY
DEALING WITH SEXUAL SIDE EFFECTS: youtube.com/watch?v=0L3y67H2BM4&t
FREQUENCY RANT: youtube.com/watch?v=hzdt-Muhs1M
DUNGEON TOUR: youtube.com/watch?v=R0Zpyrbvo1o
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Videos about condoms:
youtube.com/watch?v=7TAU1Z_CEs4
youtube.com/watch?v=LdAYmtLG2Es&t
youtube.com/watch?v=pD1sX-sg8dE
youtube.com/watch?v=klyGIKsfx7k&t
youtube.com/watch?v=M9Lyay-gemA&t
I'll just make a playlist...
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
This week I learned from a sexpla(i)naut on Patreon about VirPed.org, a website which connects pedophiles to resources and support so they can safely talk out their desires without acting on them. It's a triggering topic, typically fraught with pain but today, I'm overfilled with joy that things can get better for everyone.
Here are two other Sexplanations' videos about the topic:
What causes fetishes : youtube.com/watch?v=zUM-PG6PkuY
Paraphilias : youtube.com/watch?v=8powiyRASGM
My colleague recommends Michael Seto as another resource as the go-to person to discuss pedophilia as a sexual orientation. He distinguishes between offending and non-offending pedophilia as well as the different types of pedophilia based on prepubescent, pubescent, and post pubescent minors.
I'm going to do more research on this and the comments many of you have already shared with me and share more later. Stay curious.
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Kayla was nervous about being on camera. It's understandable with the lights and the audience and potential trolls in the comments section. I reassured her that we'd have fun and that Sexplanations' audience is deeply heartwarming and really good about flagging harmful posts. I held her dog (one of my foster pups) and opened with the question about Kayla's first breast memory. Part of the conversation (which didn't make the final cut) addressed how many of our boob memories weren't positive -- being sexualized, having to cover up and wear uncomfortable or restrictive bras, breast pain, back pain, unwanted comments, trying to fit into clothing. When we finally landed on some positive memories it was really uplifting. I'm happy to report that talking with Kayla is another positive boob memory for me.
Questions for you:
What are your favorite names for breasts?
What is your first boob memory?
How is your experience similar or different?
Here are links to other Sexplanations boob videos, the third is a short film:
HOW TO TOUCH A BOOB part 1: youtube.com/watch?v=jPVeAfDHuXM
HOW TO TOUCH A BOOB part 2: youtube.com/watch?v=P_kfl-nLSrk
MAMMAL: youtube.com/watch?v=SeLDGjLt_vE&t
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
More videos on anal:
ANAL SEX PREP youtube.com/watch?v=0p84az86DfM
youtube.com/watch?v=riLLOsKnH3M
youtube.com/watch?v=1dKm2Xghz_g
youtube.com/watch?v=Sp9MT1di9as
youtube.com/watch?v=Iatpy4Ckx6E&t
Dr. Doe's contact info:
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast
TWITTER : twitter.com/elleteedee
TUMBLR : http://tumblingdoe.tumblr.com
FACEBOOK : facebook.com/sexplanations
INSTAGRAM : http://instagram.com/sexplanations
DFTBA : store.dftba.com/collections/sexplanations
WEBSITE : http://sexplanations.com
Support Sexplanations by becoming a sexpla(i)naut: patreon.com/sexplanations
patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast