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Transcript:
(Khary)
My prayer is basically through meditation now. I think the humility of meditation is me praying. That's my prayer. Just saying like, God, I ain't got all the answers. I ain't got...give me the strength. Let me sit back and listen to you. Keep me humble, keep me...that's my prayer, you know? And that’s me sitting back and closing my eyes and sitting back like, “let me still my mind.” Because my mind is it's like a stallion! You know? It could be ridden by train. It is hard the still your mind! Every time you think it was stilling it some thought comes in to your mind. Do you know what I mean? So our mind is really our worst enemy. You heard? It's the sentry in front of the gate of God. That says like, “you're not getting past me!”. You heard? (laughing)
(Paul)
I do pray. I pray before every meal. But usually my prayer is, “Help me.” I mean, that's it. Sometimes my prayer will be, “Thank you.” And sometimes my prayer will be, “Okay, what do you want from me?” But usually it's just “Help me.” I have on very, very, very rare occasions, felt that I actually heard words. But, without words, I do feel I'm being given answers.
(Henry)
My wife and I do devotions every morning at 7:00. It's the best thing. We've been doing it for probably seven or eight years. It's probably been one of the best things for our marriage because we center. And we know that's the time when we can talk and...Prayer has become increasingly important to me, probably the older I've gotten. It's a way for me to center on what I think is important. I don't see prayer is something that I get answers. But more I get the questions. And it helps me understand, "Am I my asking the right questions?" If we really focus on the question, it's much easier to separate and say, “What is the answer separate from what's good for me.”
(Lucy)
I attend, as much as I can, Pendle Hill Worship in the morning. And this morning, there was somebody who sang “Everything is Sacred”. Got his guitar out and sang. And the prayer, it's probably not in a Christian vein. It is holding in the light. I love that as a translation of prayer.
(Pamela)
I pray in my own way. I take a walk every morning and I hold an intention and I hold my heart open. And I think that's probably the same thing as prayer.
(Lynette)
In addition to being a Quaker, I'm also a vowed consecrated woman. Just in case anyone doesn't know what that is, I've taken the traditional evangelical vows that a sister would take. A nun. And I was accepted into a largely Catholic community as a Quaker. I’m, to my knowledge, the only Quaker sister in our community. So prayer is my life. Formalize prayer I do multiple times a day in community with my sisters or with brothers from other communities. We partake in things like daily office.
(Adam)
In terms of whether, you know, I recite a set text or something...no. But, in some ways, I think being a Quaker one is trying to be always in a sort of prayerful approach to life.
(Lucy)
I also think of my life as a prayer. Like, how do I step through my days understanding that how I walk is a way to praise God, and be in relationship with God, and invite transformation that God is helping, is trying to bring into being. I wrote a prayer called “Prayer for the Coming of the Light”, which is about worship, and talk about how we are to midwife the spiritual birth. And I think prayer is one way to do that. And I think that how we walk in the world is a way to live those prayers
(Lynette)
Life itself is prayer. Sometimes it's not about just formalize words, but journaling is prayerful. Walking and thinking theological questions is a form of prayer. Eating can be a form of prayer. The more that I grow in my knowledge of what God is to me, the more I realize that my life is prayer. That I am, in general, a prayerful person.
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Transcript:
(Khary)
My prayer is basically through meditation now. I think the humility of meditation is me praying. That's my prayer. Just saying like, God, I ain't got all the answers. I ain't got...give me the strength. Let me sit back and listen to you. Keep me humble, keep me...that's my prayer, you know? And that’s me sitting back and closing my eyes and sitting back like, “let me still my mind.” Because my mind is it's like a stallion! You know? It could be ridden by train. It is hard the still your mind! Every time you think it was stilling it some thought comes in to your mind. Do you know what I mean? So our mind is really our worst enemy. You heard? It's the sentry in front of the gate of God. That says like, “you're not getting past me!”. You heard? (laughing)
(Paul)
I do pray. I pray before every meal. But usually my prayer is, “Help me.” I mean, that's it. Sometimes my prayer will be, “Thank you.” And sometimes my prayer will be, “Okay, what do you want from me?” But usually it's just “Help me.” I have on very, very, very rare occasions, felt that I actually heard words. But, without words, I do feel I'm being given answers.
(Henry)
My wife and I do devotions every morning at 7:00. It's the best thing. We've been doing it for probably seven or eight years. It's probably been one of the best things for our marriage because we center. And we know that's the time when we can talk and...Prayer has become increasingly important to me, probably the older I've gotten. It's a way for me to center on what I think is important. I don't see prayer is something that I get answers. But more I get the questions. And it helps me understand, "Am I my asking the right questions?" If we really focus on the question, it's much easier to separate and say, “What is the answer separate from what's good for me.”
(Lucy)
I attend, as much as I can, Pendle Hill Worship in the morning. And this morning, there was somebody who sang “Everything is Sacred”. Got his guitar out and sang. And the prayer, it's probably not in a Christian vein. It is holding in the light. I love that as a translation of prayer.
(Pamela)
I pray in my own way. I take a walk every morning and I hold an intention and I hold my heart open. And I think that's probably the same thing as prayer.
(Lynette)
In addition to being a Quaker, I'm also a vowed consecrated woman. Just in case anyone doesn't know what that is, I've taken the traditional evangelical vows that a sister would take. A nun. And I was accepted into a largely Catholic community as a Quaker. I’m, to my knowledge, the only Quaker sister in our community. So prayer is my life. Formalize prayer I do multiple times a day in community with my sisters or with brothers from other communities. We partake in things like daily office.
(Adam)
In terms of whether, you know, I recite a set text or something...no. But, in some ways, I think being a Quaker one is trying to be always in a sort of prayerful approach to life.
(Lucy)
I also think of my life as a prayer. Like, how do I step through my days understanding that how I walk is a way to praise God, and be in relationship with God, and invite transformation that God is helping, is trying to bring into being. I wrote a prayer called “Prayer for the Coming of the Light”, which is about worship, and talk about how we are to midwife the spiritual birth. And I think prayer is one way to do that. And I think that how we walk in the world is a way to live those prayers
(Lynette)
Life itself is prayer. Sometimes it's not about just formalize words, but journaling is prayerful. Walking and thinking theological questions is a form of prayer. Eating can be a form of prayer. The more that I grow in my knowledge of what God is to me, the more I realize that my life is prayer. That I am, in general, a prayerful person.
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.










![Fitting into Gods Big Tent
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I would say that the Quaker idea of integrity and encouragement to be honest has been, in a way, a source of conflict with some of the social group aspects of our religious society, because I am different. And Ive just become maybe more open about that difference and theres sometimes been a tension. Ive often thought of quitting and yet Im still oriented towards Quakerism as a way to God.
Fitting into Gods Big Tent
My name is John Spears. I live in three different places - Naples, FL; Hopewell, NJ; and the place were in right now, which is a newly constructed house in New Hope, PA. Im a member of the Princeton Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends in Princeton, NJ, and Ive been a member there for over 40 years.
My first introduction to Quakerism, again going back roughly 40 years ago, was my wife suggested it to me, and I was just sort of blown away by it. The very first time I felt an energy, and it was just kind of a love at first sight, just a great experience the first time. I still appreciate the freedom of it, the direct dial to God, so. And you know, also there are a number of people that just socially I like. We may have lots of other things not in common but... [Laughs] There arent that many of us!
Valuing Different Perspectives Among Friends?
The value of different perspectives, different orientations in our religious society? Yes, I think its very valuable. Now I dont think it necessarily exists all the time. Certainly at my meeting, Princeton Meeting, I think that out of I dont know how many members there are I think that maybe one or two of us (I know Im one, there might be another) who is a republican, and I just think there could be room for different perspectives on these political topics. I kinda go, oh. Its just not a republican point of view; its kind of a left-wing point of view and thats fine but I think that the idea of Quakerism, it should be a welcoming idea. Christ is a welcoming idea.
Gods Big Quaker Tent
I think that Gods Big Quaker Tent, at its heart it has a Christian spirit. Jesus I think of as opening his arms to all different types of people. But I just, I like that idea. I think its a loving idea. If it was my tent Id say, Come on in! Have a beer!
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