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Sitting in silent worship can be challenging even for adults. How do Quaker youth programs help children connect to Quaker spirituality through movement, play, and joyful creation?
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Transcript:
I don’t think American culture asks us to be in a state of reflection on a daily basis, on a weekly… it just doesn’t ask that of us at all. And so I think that Quakerism offers a tradition of roundedness and an access point to that state which I think is really good for humans and really good for me. Even though it’s tricky in my body too—I’ve got a lot of movement. So I had to practice being still and listening, and that practice was really hard for me as a kid. But it’s been really beneficial for me as an adult.
How Do We Teach Quaker Worship to Kids?
My name is Benjamin Camp. I live in South Philadelphia and I just became a member of Central Philadelphia Monthly Meeting, after transferring from Norristown Friends Meeting.
Working with Quaker Youth
The most recent programming I was involved with Quaker youth was I was the children’s religious life program coordinator for Philadelphia Yearly Meeting. So I worked with the kindergarten to fifth graders. I felt like my work was the set up and framing of community experiences that were Quaker-led and rooted in an opportunity to explore God and connection to one another. I’m also really interested in play, so a lot of that was play-oriented, play-based. We had great conversations, but conversation isn’t always the way to get to God if you’re in second grade.
So I really thought a lot about the family and community and joyfulness, and joyful spirit. How can we set up a situation that feels Quaker and help kids figure out what Quaker means for them?
Encouraging Joyful Creativity
My approach to Quaker youth work, which is very much informed by people I got to work under and with, is that the act of joyful creativity, the act of expression, is an act of God; that creativity and God are synonymous. When we talk about the Light, we also talk about joyfulness and creativity. We say that Quaker worship is people listening, but you listen together. And so it’s that light of God, that creative moment, but it’s togetherness. I think when a Quaker space with youth is at its best, then we have an understanding and we leave space for that aspect of God to really come forward with one another.
Creating Structure and Trust
So sometimes that looks like projects together; sometimes that looks like putting on a little show. Sometimes that looks like writing in journals; sometimes that looks like worship, same as adults. It definitely looks like trusting the kids to know what their leadings are and offering the structures to help them not get distracted, which is really easy for anyone.
An Embodied Approach
If there was something that I gently encouraged Quakers towards as a youth program coordinator, it was to get everyone a little more physical. To create in large groups of multigenerational community situations, playing a game where everyone was dancing a little bit or coming into physical contact with one another. I think the state of Quaker worship can kind of imply a non-embodied experience. I think we do ourselves a disservice if we forget the ways that the body is connected to the spirit.
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.
Sitting in silent worship can be challenging even for adults. How do Quaker youth programs help children connect to Quaker spirituality through movement, play, and joyful creation?
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Transcript:
I don’t think American culture asks us to be in a state of reflection on a daily basis, on a weekly… it just doesn’t ask that of us at all. And so I think that Quakerism offers a tradition of roundedness and an access point to that state which I think is really good for humans and really good for me. Even though it’s tricky in my body too—I’ve got a lot of movement. So I had to practice being still and listening, and that practice was really hard for me as a kid. But it’s been really beneficial for me as an adult.
How Do We Teach Quaker Worship to Kids?
My name is Benjamin Camp. I live in South Philadelphia and I just became a member of Central Philadelphia Monthly Meeting, after transferring from Norristown Friends Meeting.
Working with Quaker Youth
The most recent programming I was involved with Quaker youth was I was the children’s religious life program coordinator for Philadelphia Yearly Meeting. So I worked with the kindergarten to fifth graders. I felt like my work was the set up and framing of community experiences that were Quaker-led and rooted in an opportunity to explore God and connection to one another. I’m also really interested in play, so a lot of that was play-oriented, play-based. We had great conversations, but conversation isn’t always the way to get to God if you’re in second grade.
So I really thought a lot about the family and community and joyfulness, and joyful spirit. How can we set up a situation that feels Quaker and help kids figure out what Quaker means for them?
Encouraging Joyful Creativity
My approach to Quaker youth work, which is very much informed by people I got to work under and with, is that the act of joyful creativity, the act of expression, is an act of God; that creativity and God are synonymous. When we talk about the Light, we also talk about joyfulness and creativity. We say that Quaker worship is people listening, but you listen together. And so it’s that light of God, that creative moment, but it’s togetherness. I think when a Quaker space with youth is at its best, then we have an understanding and we leave space for that aspect of God to really come forward with one another.
Creating Structure and Trust
So sometimes that looks like projects together; sometimes that looks like putting on a little show. Sometimes that looks like writing in journals; sometimes that looks like worship, same as adults. It definitely looks like trusting the kids to know what their leadings are and offering the structures to help them not get distracted, which is really easy for anyone.
An Embodied Approach
If there was something that I gently encouraged Quakers towards as a youth program coordinator, it was to get everyone a little more physical. To create in large groups of multigenerational community situations, playing a game where everyone was dancing a little bit or coming into physical contact with one another. I think the state of Quaker worship can kind of imply a non-embodied experience. I think we do ourselves a disservice if we forget the ways that the body is connected to the spirit.
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The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators.





![Fitting into Gods Big Tent
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Transcript:
I would say that the Quaker idea of integrity and encouragement to be honest has been, in a way, a source of conflict with some of the social group aspects of our religious society, because I am different. And Ive just become maybe more open about that difference and theres sometimes been a tension. Ive often thought of quitting and yet Im still oriented towards Quakerism as a way to God.
Fitting into Gods Big Tent
My name is John Spears. I live in three different places - Naples, FL; Hopewell, NJ; and the place were in right now, which is a newly constructed house in New Hope, PA. Im a member of the Princeton Monthly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends in Princeton, NJ, and Ive been a member there for over 40 years.
My first introduction to Quakerism, again going back roughly 40 years ago, was my wife suggested it to me, and I was just sort of blown away by it. The very first time I felt an energy, and it was just kind of a love at first sight, just a great experience the first time. I still appreciate the freedom of it, the direct dial to God, so. And you know, also there are a number of people that just socially I like. We may have lots of other things not in common but... [Laughs] There arent that many of us!
Valuing Different Perspectives Among Friends?
The value of different perspectives, different orientations in our religious society? Yes, I think its very valuable. Now I dont think it necessarily exists all the time. Certainly at my meeting, Princeton Meeting, I think that out of I dont know how many members there are I think that maybe one or two of us (I know Im one, there might be another) who is a republican, and I just think there could be room for different perspectives on these political topics. I kinda go, oh. Its just not a republican point of view; its kind of a left-wing point of view and thats fine but I think that the idea of Quakerism, it should be a welcoming idea. Christ is a welcoming idea.
Gods Big Quaker Tent
I think that Gods Big Quaker Tent, at its heart it has a Christian spirit. Jesus I think of as opening his arms to all different types of people. But I just, I like that idea. I think its a loving idea. If it was my tent Id say, Come on in! Have a beer!
The views expressed in this video are of the speakers and do not necessarily reflect the views of Friends Journal or its collaborators. Fitting into Gods Big Tent](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/OPGrRYylS1g/mqdefault.jpg)




