Uploaded July 2021 | Updated September 2026, 17 minutes ago
Today with CJ Grace, former BBC broadcaster and infidelity author of: The Adulterer's Wife, we discuss infidelity and how to overcome it whether we choose to stay or not.
We discuss:
• Her husband had an affair with a woman half his age.
• The 6-part plan she created to get through it.
• Being happier after the affair.
• Celibacy in marriage.
• Pelvic pain contributes to sexless marriages.
• If you had an affair in the past, how to bring it up when dating.
• How to learn to trust again.
• Being careful not to demonise the unfaithful partner and mistress/mister.
• Not staying in the anger stage and why revenge is not the way to go.
• What can happen when you revenge-cheat on your once-cheating partner.
Reference mentioned: Esther Perel’s work on infidelity.
Find CJ here: cjauthor.com & IG, TW, FB @cjgraceauthor Clubhouse @cjgrace
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Today with CJ Grace, former BBC broadcaster and infidelity author of: The Adulterer's Wife, we discuss infidelity and how to overcome it whether we choose to stay or not.
We discuss:
• Her husband had an affair with a woman half his age.
• The 6-part plan she created to get through it.
• Being happier after the affair.
• Celibacy in marriage.
• Pelvic pain contributes to sexless marriages.
• If you had an affair in the past, how to bring it up when dating.
• How to learn to trust again.
• Being careful not to demonise the unfaithful partner and mistress/mister.
• Not staying in the anger stage and why revenge is not the way to go.
• What can happen when you revenge-cheat on your once-cheating partner.
Reference mentioned: Esther Perel’s work on infidelity.
Find CJ here: cjauthor.com & IG, TW, FB @cjgraceauthor Clubhouse @cjgrace
✨ Don’t be a stranger:
• 🎙️ Thinking about starting your own podcast? My membership at (https://getyourpodcastdone.com) getyourpodcastdone.com (http://getyourpodcastdone.com) will help you actually do the thing - without the overwhelm.
• 📬 Want the good stuff I don’t share anywhere else? Hop on my email list (forms.angie-s.com/sign-up)
• ❤️ If this episode made you think, laugh, or roll your eyes (in a good way), you can support the show here (https://to4ts.captivate.fm/support) . It helps keep the mics on.
• The podcast host I swear by: Captivate (https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=angiesorensen)
• 💌 Old school and want to just say hi? Contact me here (angie-s.com/contact)
*Affiliate link alert: I get a tiny kickback if you sign up. Think of it as buying me a fancy coffee. ☕️
