Uploaded March 2021 | Updated September 2026, 1 hour ago
**Today with stand-up comic and accountant Shamiso Mushambi we talk about the juxtaposition of achieving our goals and its cost on our wellbeing if not kept in check.
We cover:
• How she got into stand-up comedy.
• Taking control of our lives and narratives.
• Type casting in movies/ series. How Miranda Bailey in Grey's Anatomy means different things to different viewers.
• Imposter syndrome.
• How her plans for 2020 panned out.
• High functioning survival mode when depressed and suicidal.
• Detaching from our feelings and what it does to us.
• Self-care is not optional if you want to live, and not just getting by.
• Finding our reason to live, both internal and external.
• Young people being convinced that all anxiety needs to be medicated. There needs to be a scale.
*Content note: this episode contains topics such as depression and suicidal ideation. Mention of pedophilia (no details or what happenned, but it is mentioned), discretion is advised*
**Recorded in December 2020
Find Shamiso Mushambi on social @Shamisomushambi (instagram.com/shamisomushambi/) @comedypops (facebook.com/ComedyPops)
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For mental health crisis helplines:
UK:
mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/crisis-services/helplines-listening-services/
IAPT: england.nhs.uk/mental-health/adults/iapt/
Europe:
mhe-sme.org/library/helplines/
USA:
American Foundation of Suicide Prevention (afsp.org/chapter/afsp-western-pennsylvania/)
Suicide and Depression Awareness for Student (learnpsychology.org/suicide-depression-student-guidebook/)
NAMI Resources on Suicide Prevention (nami.org/Find-Support/Family-Members-and-Caregivers/Preventing-Suicide)
NAMI Resources on Suicide Risk (nami.org/Learn-More/Mental-Health-Conditions/Related-Conditions/Suicide)
National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1-800-273- 8255
Crisis Textline - Text HOME to 741741
**Today with stand-up comic and accountant Shamiso Mushambi we talk about the juxtaposition of achieving our goals and its cost on our wellbeing if not kept in check.
We cover:
• How she got into stand-up comedy.
• Taking control of our lives and narratives.
• Type casting in movies/ series. How Miranda Bailey in Grey's Anatomy means different things to different viewers.
• Imposter syndrome.
• How her plans for 2020 panned out.
• High functioning survival mode when depressed and suicidal.
• Detaching from our feelings and what it does to us.
• Self-care is not optional if you want to live, and not just getting by.
• Finding our reason to live, both internal and external.
• Young people being convinced that all anxiety needs to be medicated. There needs to be a scale.
*Content note: this episode contains topics such as depression and suicidal ideation. Mention of pedophilia (no details or what happenned, but it is mentioned), discretion is advised*
**Recorded in December 2020
Find Shamiso Mushambi on social @Shamisomushambi (instagram.com/shamisomushambi/) @comedypops (facebook.com/ComedyPops)
✨ Don’t be a stranger:
• 🎙️ Thinking about starting your own podcast? My membership at (https://getyourpodcastdone.com) getyourpodcastdone.com (http://getyourpodcastdone.com) will help you actually do the thing - without the overwhelm.
• 📬 Want the good stuff I don’t share anywhere else? Hop on my email list (forms.angie-s.com/sign-up)
• ❤️ If this episode made you think, laugh, or roll your eyes (in a good way), you can support the show here (https://to4ts.captivate.fm/support) . It helps keep the mics on.
• The podcast host I swear by: Captivate (https://www.captivate.fm/signup?ref=angiesorensen)
• 💌 Old school and want to just say hi? Contact me here (angie-s.com/contact)
*Affiliate link alert: I get a tiny kickback if you sign up. Think of it as buying me a fancy coffee. ☕️
For mental health crisis helplines:
UK:
mind.org.uk/information-support/guides-to-support-and-services/crisis-services/helplines-listening-services/
IAPT: england.nhs.uk/mental-health/adults/iapt/
Europe:
mhe-sme.org/library/helplines/
USA:
American Foundation of Suicide Prevention (afsp.org/chapter/afsp-western-pennsylvania/)
Suicide and Depression Awareness for Student (learnpsychology.org/suicide-depression-student-guidebook/)
NAMI Resources on Suicide Prevention (nami.org/Find-Support/Family-Members-and-Caregivers/Preventing-Suicide)
NAMI Resources on Suicide Risk (nami.org/Learn-More/Mental-Health-Conditions/Related-Conditions/Suicide)
National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1-800-273- 8255
Crisis Textline - Text HOME to 741741
![#065: The Cost Of Love - with Haley McGee
When being broke pushed her to the idea of doing a yard sale, Haley realised the only items of value (other than her phone and laptop) were gifts from her exes, that’s how the idea of her play and subsequent book ‘The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale’ came to be.
With the help of a mathematician, she created a formula [for the Cost of Love] that takes into account all the ways we invest or don’t, into our romantic relationships and spit out an accurate price for the material things we’re left with when the romance dies.
We go over:
• Can you put a price on love?
• Is love worth the heartbreaks and disappointments?
• The concept of sunk- cost bias (or pot committed in poker) applied to relationships.
• Why stay-at-home wives and mothers should not be free labour.
• How very traditional men understand the value a woman brings to their lives.
• You cannot control what people are going to think about you.
Find Haley: haleymcgee.ca
(https://www.haleymcgee.ca)
Her book: The Ex-Boyfriend Yard Sale
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• 🎙️ Thinking about starting your own podcast? My membership at (https://getyourpodcastdone.com) getyourpodcastdone.com (http://getyourpodcastdone.com) will help you actually do the thing - without the overwhelm.
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![#093: Going to Mars & the Elon Musk Paradox Feat. Lindsay DeMarchi - recorded 9th July 2022
With astrophysicist and poet Lyndsay, we take a deep-dive into the benefits and harms that come from the Mars exploration & her unusual journey into academia. This is part 1 of a two-part series.
We cover:
// Her unusual journey into academia.
// How we are related to dead stars.
// The ethical issues on the mission to Mars.
// The colonial language & attitude that is continually applied to space exploration.
// Elon Musk’s mission and the lack of scientists being part of the big decisions.
// Starlink’s satellites posing a huge threat to observational physics.
// Who does Starlink’s satellites truly benefit?
// The benefits and harms that come from Mars exploration.
// A lawless Mars.
// Why are we so curious about finding life on other planets?
// Is an Armageddon-like event a likely threat?
Timestamps:
[00:17:01] The intersection of science and spirituality: Exploring near-death experiences
[00:21:57] Embracing the Unknown: A Personal Belief on Death
[00:35:43] Elon Musk and the ethics of space travel
[00:44:16] Surviving a 7-month trip to Mars
[00:50:32] The Cost of Colonizing Mars: Private Whim?
[00:55:26] Contemplating Life: Poets and Physicists Perspectives
[01:03:51] Can Life on Other Planets Save Humanity?
Next week in part 2:
// What are black holes and how are they created?
// What’s behind a black hole?
// What happens to the content in the black hole?
// What happens to the spatial coordinates after a black hole has gone through it?
// Multiverses.
// String theory for beginners.
// How are we still around as a species?
Find Lindsay https://www.lindsaydemarchi.com Her podcast: Go Ask Alice.
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• 🎙️ Thinking about starting your own podcast? My membership at (https://getyourpodcastdone.com) getyourpodcastdone.com (http://getyourpodcastdone.com) will help you actually do the thing - without the overwhelm.
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