Uploaded December 2025 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
A lot of us were taught that putting ourselves first is selfish. That saying no means we don’t care enough. And that taking up space somehow makes us a bad person.
But self-love isn’t about hurting others or only thinking about yourself.
In this Psych2Go video, we talk about the difference between self-love and selfishness — and why so many healthy behaviors get misunderstood. Things like setting boundaries, protecting your energy, and listening to your own needs can feel uncomfortable at first, especially if you’re used to putting everyone else first.
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🌱 The Journey to Self-Love: Which Stage Are You At? youtu.be/4HTKzQm67mw
🌱 6 Signs It's Weaponized Boundaries, Not 'Self Love' youtu.be/jtkJoapTA4Y
🌱 5 Signs You’re “Self-Coddling”, NOT Self-Love youtu.be/3j9Y29PzjHo
🌱 How Your Lack of Self Love Affects Your Relationships youtu.be/S3sTd6TUj54
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A lot of us were taught that putting ourselves first is selfish. That saying no means we don’t care enough. And that taking up space somehow makes us a bad person.
But self-love isn’t about hurting others or only thinking about yourself.
In this Psych2Go video, we talk about the difference between self-love and selfishness — and why so many healthy behaviors get misunderstood. Things like setting boundaries, protecting your energy, and listening to your own needs can feel uncomfortable at first, especially if you’re used to putting everyone else first.
▶️Check out other Videos:
🌱 The Journey to Self-Love: Which Stage Are You At? youtu.be/4HTKzQm67mw
🌱 6 Signs It's Weaponized Boundaries, Not 'Self Love' youtu.be/jtkJoapTA4Y
🌱 5 Signs You’re “Self-Coddling”, NOT Self-Love youtu.be/3j9Y29PzjHo
🌱 How Your Lack of Self Love Affects Your Relationships youtu.be/S3sTd6TUj54
⭐Connect With Us:
Follow us on Facebook: facebook.com/psych2go
Find us on Instagram: instagram.com/Psych2Go_Tips
Visit our shop: https://psych2go.shop/
❤️If you found comfort or clarity here, feel free to like, share, and subscribe to support the channel and our community.❤️
