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Wondering when your writing will actually pay the bills? In this video, I break down the 4 stages of an indie author career, plus the mistakes I made along the way and what it really takes to go full-time.
This video is not financial advice. I am not a financial professional. Results may vary.
🛑 FIRST, have you planned out your author career with a series? Get my free workbook, One Book to Bestselling Series, here: kelseyhumphreys.com/writing
🖋️ Submit your in-depth author questions: kelseyhumphreys.com/writing
👋 If you’re new here I’m Kelsey—rom-com author, stand-up comic, and mom of six. I make real-life rants about writing, creating and staying delulu with our creative dreams. I am a lot. Subscribe for weekly humor, heart, inspo, motivation and zero perfectionism.
"Kelsey Q&A" street cred: I have published over 13 novels over three pen names, made six figures in just over a year from book sales, with profit!, and have thousands of reviews and over 33 Million Kindle page reads.
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🔗 JUDGE ME
🎁 Get a FREE full-length novel and see what you think: kelseyhumphreys.com/freebie
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📌 STALK ME
Instagram → instagram.com/thekelseyhumphreys
Amazon → amazon.com/author/kelseyhumphreys
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⏱️ CHAPTERS & TIME STAMPS
0:00 Can I Quit My Job?
0:18 Welcome Back + About Me
0:59 Today's Question from Kira
1:26 Don't Compare Yourself to Other Authors
2:16 Traditionally Published vs. Indie Authors
2:58 Be Careful Who You Compare Yourself To
3:20 Decrease Your Bills First
4:16 Stage 1: Pay to Play
5:47 This Is a Normal Part of Business
6:09 Stage 2: Beer Money
7:39 Build a Series to Grow Faster
9:26 Stage 3: Real Side Gig
10:13 The Mistake I Made in Stage 3
11:09 How to Scale in Stage 3
11:45 Stage 4: Real Money
12:04 The Volatility of the Writing Business
13:04 Don't Rely on Your Latest Release
14:26 Scaling Beyond One Sale Per Book
15:10 Swag, Special Editions & Merch
15:30 Audiobooks & Foreign Editions
16:08 Events & Kickstarters
16:44 Think Like a Business
17:23 Traditional Publishing Reality Check
18:52 You Still Need a Long-Term Plan
19:13 Tough Love: This Can Happen for You
19:55 Resources & Submit Your Questions
20:13 I'm Still Writing Books Too
20:57 Stay Delusional
If this helped you, drop a comment with your biggest takeaway! And if you need longer than a youtube comment don't forget you can submit your questions at kelseyhumphries.com/writing for a chance to be featured in a future video.
Stay delulu, and I'll see you next week!
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Wondering when your writing will actually pay the bills? In this video, I break down the 4 stages of an indie author career, plus the mistakes I made along the way and what it really takes to go full-time.
This video is not financial advice. I am not a financial professional. Results may vary.
🛑 FIRST, have you planned out your author career with a series? Get my free workbook, One Book to Bestselling Series, here: kelseyhumphreys.com/writing
🖋️ Submit your in-depth author questions: kelseyhumphreys.com/writing
👋 If you’re new here I’m Kelsey—rom-com author, stand-up comic, and mom of six. I make real-life rants about writing, creating and staying delulu with our creative dreams. I am a lot. Subscribe for weekly humor, heart, inspo, motivation and zero perfectionism.
"Kelsey Q&A" street cred: I have published over 13 novels over three pen names, made six figures in just over a year from book sales, with profit!, and have thousands of reviews and over 33 Million Kindle page reads.
________________________________________________________________
🔗 JUDGE ME
🎁 Get a FREE full-length novel and see what you think: kelseyhumphreys.com/freebie
______________________________________________________________
📌 STALK ME
Instagram → instagram.com/thekelseyhumphreys
Amazon → amazon.com/author/kelseyhumphreys
________________________________________________________________
⏱️ CHAPTERS & TIME STAMPS
0:00 Can I Quit My Job?
0:18 Welcome Back + About Me
0:59 Today's Question from Kira
1:26 Don't Compare Yourself to Other Authors
2:16 Traditionally Published vs. Indie Authors
2:58 Be Careful Who You Compare Yourself To
3:20 Decrease Your Bills First
4:16 Stage 1: Pay to Play
5:47 This Is a Normal Part of Business
6:09 Stage 2: Beer Money
7:39 Build a Series to Grow Faster
9:26 Stage 3: Real Side Gig
10:13 The Mistake I Made in Stage 3
11:09 How to Scale in Stage 3
11:45 Stage 4: Real Money
12:04 The Volatility of the Writing Business
13:04 Don't Rely on Your Latest Release
14:26 Scaling Beyond One Sale Per Book
15:10 Swag, Special Editions & Merch
15:30 Audiobooks & Foreign Editions
16:08 Events & Kickstarters
16:44 Think Like a Business
17:23 Traditional Publishing Reality Check
18:52 You Still Need a Long-Term Plan
19:13 Tough Love: This Can Happen for You
19:55 Resources & Submit Your Questions
20:13 I'm Still Writing Books Too
20:57 Stay Delusional
If this helped you, drop a comment with your biggest takeaway! And if you need longer than a youtube comment don't forget you can submit your questions at kelseyhumphries.com/writing for a chance to be featured in a future video.
Stay delulu, and I'll see you next week!
________________________________________________________________
TAGS:
when will writing pay my bills, full time author, indie author income, author career stages, how to make money writing books, self publishing tips, indie author tips, author business, writing as a career, quit your job to write, Kelsey McPhee, authortube, writing YouTube, author YouTube, book marketing for authors, how to sell more books, series writing strategy, rapid release books, connected standalones, how to write a series, backlist strategy, author branding, Kindle page reads, KDP publishing, indie publishing, Amazon ads for authors, author email list, building reader fans, reader expectations, short form video for authors, BookTok, Bookstagram, romance author, rom com author, women's fiction, fiction writing tips, writing advice, author income, making a living as a writer, self publishing business, author marketing strategy, traditionally published vs indie publishing, author merch, audiobooks for indie authors, foreign editions, Kickstarter for authors, signed special editions, writing full time, author entrepreneur










![How to finally change yourself and your whole life!
If you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or like real change is impossible—this episode is for you. 💥
In this raw and hilarious episode of Happy Tears, Kelsey shares 3 very real truths about change—how she got sober, gave up sugar, grew mental toughness, adopted 4 kids in one year, and completely transformed her life. No fluff. No fake inspiration. Just honest, gritty steps for real transformation (plus a few jokes about sourdough and screaming toddlers 😅).
Whether you want to finally break free from bad habits, stop numbing your emotions, or stop waiting on someone else to change—this one will light a fire in you.
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What’s one small promise you’re going to keep to yourself this week? Drop it below. ⬇️
🎧 Listen to new episodes weekly
Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/happy-tears/id1830874636
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⏱️ CHAPTERS & TIME STAMPS
00:00 – Can people actually change?
01:30 – Losing 65K followers overnight and being “over it” 😬
03:00 – Yes, people DO change (and here’s proof)
05:00 – Why real change starts with one terrifying step
07:30 – What changed when Kelsey got sober
09:00 – The Christmas weeping tradition 😂
11:00 – Homeschooling, patience, and how motherhood changed everything
13:00 – Why she quit sugar (for real this time)
15:00 – The secret to mental toughness
17:00 – How to stop waiting for someone else to change
19:30 – The truth about mommy wine culture & social media negativity
21:30 – Building a family vs building a brand
24:00 – How to keep promises to yourself (and why you probably don’t)
28:00 – Rom-coms vs. real life cuddling
30:00 – The power of micro goals
34:00 – Final pep talk: You are worth the effort 💪
36:00 – Episode wrap-up + what’s coming next!
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