The School of Life | Why We Need to ‘feel’ - and Not Just Think @theschooloflifetv | Uploaded May 2022 | Updated October 2024, 1 week ago.
We often say we ‘didn’t get on too well’ with our father or that our mother was ‘slightly neglectful’ thinking we have a solid grip on events. However it is these compressed, ready-made, affectless accounts that stand in the way of properly connecting with our past and thereby truly knowing ourselves in the present.
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“One of the great impediments to understanding bits of our lives properly is our overly-ready assumption that we already do so. It’s easy to carry around with us, and exchange with others, surface intellectual descriptions of key painful events that leave the marrow of our emotions behind. We may say that we remember — for example — that we ‘didn’t get on too well’ with our father, that our mother was ‘slightly neglectful’ or that going to boarding school was ‘a bit sad.’...”
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Produced in collaboration with:
Natalia Biegaj
nb-animation.com
Title animation produced in collaboration with
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We often say we ‘didn’t get on too well’ with our father or that our mother was ‘slightly neglectful’ thinking we have a solid grip on events. However it is these compressed, ready-made, affectless accounts that stand in the way of properly connecting with our past and thereby truly knowing ourselves in the present.
FURTHER READING
You can read more on this and other subjects here: bit.ly/3FT0gul
“One of the great impediments to understanding bits of our lives properly is our overly-ready assumption that we already do so. It’s easy to carry around with us, and exchange with others, surface intellectual descriptions of key painful events that leave the marrow of our emotions behind. We may say that we remember — for example — that we ‘didn’t get on too well’ with our father, that our mother was ‘slightly neglectful’ or that going to boarding school was ‘a bit sad.’...”
MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE
Watch more films on SELF in our playlist:
bit.ly/TSOLself
SOCIAL MEDIA
Feel free to follow us at the links below:
Facebook: facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon
X: twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife
Instagram: instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon
CREDITS
Produced in collaboration with:
Natalia Biegaj
nb-animation.com
Title animation produced in collaboration with
Vale Productions
valeproductions.co.uk
