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Dr. Ben discusses the psychology of blame, near-misses, and failure in TTRPGS (Episode #178). #dnd #pathfinder #ttrpg #wfrp
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Why does a failed dice roll ruin someone's whole session while another player shrugs it off and moves on? The answer isn't personality. It's psychology. In this video, we apply three behavioral science frameworks to the experience of failure at the tabletop: Loss Aversion (Kahneman and Tversky), Attribution Theory (Heider and Kelley), and Regret Theory with Counterfactual Thinking (Loomes, Sugden, Kahneman, and Miller). Together they explain how much a failure hurts, where the blame gets aimed, and why some failures echo for weeks while others disappear by the next session. Whether you're a GM trying to design stakes that land, a player trying to understand why you're still thinking about that roll from three sessions ago, or a designer building systems that produce meaningful emotional investment, these frameworks give you a toolkit that goes well beyond "failure is part of the game."
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tabletop RPG psychology, TTRPG game design, GM advice, loss aversion TTRPG, attribution theory tabletop, why failure hurts RPG, RPG PHD, game master tips, player psychology RPG, behavioral economics tabletop, regret theory game design, counterfactual thinking RPG, TTRPG emotional investment, RPG session design, how to design stakes RPG, near miss game design, D&D psychology, tabletop game theory, RPG academic analysis, game design theory, TTRPG failure mechanics, RPG player engagement, game master psychology, D&D game design, tabletop roleplaying theory
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00:00 Intro
00:57 Loss Aversion
07:10 Attribution Theory
11:31 Regret Theory
15:00 Pitfalls
17:59 Step by Step guide
20:42 Thoughts?
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Works Cited
Heider, Fritz. The Psychology of Interpersonal Relations. John Wiley & Sons, 1958.
Kahneman, Daniel, and Dale T. Miller. "Norm Theory: Comparing Reality to Its Alternatives." Psychological Review, vol. 93, no. 2, 1986, pp. 136–153.
Kelley, Harold H. "Attribution Theory in Social Psychology." Nebraska Symposium on Motivation, edited by David Levine, vol. 15, University of Nebraska Press, 1967, pp. 192–238.
Kelley, Harold H. "The Processes of Causal Attribution." American Psychologist, vol. 28, no. 2, 1973, pp. 107–128.
Loomes, Graham, and Robert Sugden. "Regret Theory: An Alternative Theory of Rational Choice Under Uncertainty." The Economic Journal, vol. 92, no. 368, 1982, pp. 805–824.
Mezulis, Amy H., et al. "Is There a Universal Positivity Bias in Attributions? A Meta-Analytic Review of Individual, Developmental, and Cultural Differences in the Self-Serving Attributional Bias." Psychological Bulletin, vol. 130, no. 5, 2004, pp. 711–747.
Ross, Lee. "The Intuitive Psychologist and His Shortcomings: Distortions in the Attribution Process." Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, edited by Leonard Berkowitz, vol. 10, Academic Press, 1977, pp. 173–220.
Tversky, Amos, and Daniel Kahneman. "Prospect Theory: An Analysis of Decision Under Risk." Econometrica, vol. 47, no. 2, 1979, pp. 263–292.
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Dr. Ben discusses the psychology of blame, near-misses, and failure in TTRPGS (Episode #178). #dnd #pathfinder #ttrpg #wfrp
Website rpgphd.com
Discord discord.gg/e49rJVQCwW
RPG PHD swag!!! rpg-phd.myspreadshop.com
Facebook facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089593636905
Instagram instagram.com/rpg_phd
Bluesky @rpg-phd.bsky.social
Special thanks to Evelina for the thumbnail template, much appreciated!! 😊
Description
Why does a failed dice roll ruin someone's whole session while another player shrugs it off and moves on? The answer isn't personality. It's psychology. In this video, we apply three behavioral science frameworks to the experience of failure at the tabletop: Loss Aversion (Kahneman and Tversky), Attribution Theory (Heider and Kelley), and Regret Theory with Counterfactual Thinking (Loomes, Sugden, Kahneman, and Miller). Together they explain how much a failure hurts, where the blame gets aimed, and why some failures echo for weeks while others disappear by the next session. Whether you're a GM trying to design stakes that land, a player trying to understand why you're still thinking about that roll from three sessions ago, or a designer building systems that produce meaningful emotional investment, these frameworks give you a toolkit that goes well beyond "failure is part of the game."
Tags
tabletop RPG psychology, TTRPG game design, GM advice, loss aversion TTRPG, attribution theory tabletop, why failure hurts RPG, RPG PHD, game master tips, player psychology RPG, behavioral economics tabletop, regret theory game design, counterfactual thinking RPG, TTRPG emotional investment, RPG session design, how to design stakes RPG, near miss game design, D&D psychology, tabletop game theory, RPG academic analysis, game design theory, TTRPG failure mechanics, RPG player engagement, game master psychology, D&D game design, tabletop roleplaying theory
---------------------------------------------
00:00 Intro
00:57 Loss Aversion
07:10 Attribution Theory
11:31 Regret Theory
15:00 Pitfalls
17:59 Step by Step guide
20:42 Thoughts?
--------------------------------------------
Works Cited
Heider, Fritz. The Psychology of Interpersonal Relations. John Wiley & Sons, 1958.
Kahneman, Daniel, and Dale T. Miller. "Norm Theory: Comparing Reality to Its Alternatives." Psychological Review, vol. 93, no. 2, 1986, pp. 136–153.
Kelley, Harold H. "Attribution Theory in Social Psychology." Nebraska Symposium on Motivation, edited by David Levine, vol. 15, University of Nebraska Press, 1967, pp. 192–238.
Kelley, Harold H. "The Processes of Causal Attribution." American Psychologist, vol. 28, no. 2, 1973, pp. 107–128.
Loomes, Graham, and Robert Sugden. "Regret Theory: An Alternative Theory of Rational Choice Under Uncertainty." The Economic Journal, vol. 92, no. 368, 1982, pp. 805–824.
Mezulis, Amy H., et al. "Is There a Universal Positivity Bias in Attributions? A Meta-Analytic Review of Individual, Developmental, and Cultural Differences in the Self-Serving Attributional Bias." Psychological Bulletin, vol. 130, no. 5, 2004, pp. 711–747.
Ross, Lee. "The Intuitive Psychologist and His Shortcomings: Distortions in the Attribution Process." Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, edited by Leonard Berkowitz, vol. 10, Academic Press, 1977, pp. 173–220.
Tversky, Amos, and Daniel Kahneman. "Prospect Theory: An Analysis of Decision Under Risk." Econometrica, vol. 47, no. 2, 1979, pp. 263–292.
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