Uploaded March 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
A second Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Adam Lane Smith, a relationship coach.
Here's Adam's website with all of his social media links: adamlanesmith.com
For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire.
0:00 – Attachment Styles & Struggling with Love
5:34 – Why We’re Attracted To People Who Hurt Us
9:06 – Intensity & Toxic Relationship Patterns
12:38 – The Most Destructive Relationships
15:44 – What is a Healthy Relationship?
17:27 – Dating Apps & Modern Love
22:30 – Masculinity / Femininity
25:05 – Recreating Childhood Patterns
27:10 – Insecurity & Self-Worth
30:17 – Can People Truly Change Their Patterns?
34:52 – Choosing The Wrong Partner
40:11 – Building Healthy Love, Community & Connection
44:24 – Infidelity & Relationship Repair
50:18 – What Secure People Do Differently
54:14 – Rewiring Your Brain
58:35 – The Future Of Love
Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: softwhiteunderbelly.org
#swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #attachement #attraction #love #relationships #humanconnection
A second Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Adam Lane Smith, a relationship coach.
Here's Adam's website with all of his social media links: adamlanesmith.com
For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire.
0:00 – Attachment Styles & Struggling with Love
5:34 – Why We’re Attracted To People Who Hurt Us
9:06 – Intensity & Toxic Relationship Patterns
12:38 – The Most Destructive Relationships
15:44 – What is a Healthy Relationship?
17:27 – Dating Apps & Modern Love
22:30 – Masculinity / Femininity
25:05 – Recreating Childhood Patterns
27:10 – Insecurity & Self-Worth
30:17 – Can People Truly Change Their Patterns?
34:52 – Choosing The Wrong Partner
40:11 – Building Healthy Love, Community & Connection
44:24 – Infidelity & Relationship Repair
50:18 – What Secure People Do Differently
54:14 – Rewiring Your Brain
58:35 – The Future Of Love
Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: softwhiteunderbelly.org
#swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #attachement #attraction #love #relationships #humanconnection
