Brian Murphy | Why am I not enough? @thisisbgm | Uploaded October 2020 | Updated October 2024, 18 hours ago.
A viewer wrote in with a very common question:
"My boyfriend asked to be open because he says he really enjoys sex with other guys. The question I always ask is why am I not enough? And he says that’s a selfish way to think. Is it selfish to think that with as much as I do for him, I should be the one he focuses on?"
If you or your boyfriend wants an open relationship, "Why am I not enough?" might be a reaction that you're having. In this video, I offer some ways you can think through that question.
SPOILER ALERT: you matter and you are enough 😘
❓Are you and your boyfriend on the same page? Download the free Commitment Clarity Checklist to to create more security and connection while opening the door for future possibility in a way that feels safe and committed 👉 thisisbgm.com/clarity
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A viewer wrote in with a very common question:
"My boyfriend asked to be open because he says he really enjoys sex with other guys. The question I always ask is why am I not enough? And he says that’s a selfish way to think. Is it selfish to think that with as much as I do for him, I should be the one he focuses on?"
If you or your boyfriend wants an open relationship, "Why am I not enough?" might be a reaction that you're having. In this video, I offer some ways you can think through that question.
SPOILER ALERT: you matter and you are enough 😘
❓Are you and your boyfriend on the same page? Download the free Commitment Clarity Checklist to to create more security and connection while opening the door for future possibility in a way that feels safe and committed 👉 thisisbgm.com/clarity
🔎 Want support in opening up your relationship (or improving an already open one)? Book a free discovery call: briangerald.com/relationship-coaching
🎥 Subscribe for new open relationship and/or gay relationship advice videos every Wednesday afternoon: youtube.com/creativereduction?sub_confirmation=1
KEEP IN TOUCH:
Practical relationship advice for gay guys, by a gay guy: briangerald.com
CONNECT WITH ME ONLINE!
Facebook: facebook.com/ThisIsBGM
Twitter: twitter.com/ThisIsBGM
Instagram: instagram.com/ThisIsBGM