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If you’re in a committed relationship (or want to be!) it’s important that you and your boyfriend are on the same page about what commitment means to you.
“Commitment” means different things to different people.
Each person will bring their own expectations of what being in a committed relationship involves — even if you agree that you want to monogamous or agree that you want to be open.
I see trouble come along down the road when guys aren’t clear about what they expect.
Clarity 👏 is 👏crucial 👏
The Commitment Clarity Checklist is a way to create more security and connection while opening the door for future possibility in a way that feels safe and committed.
You can download it here: briangerald.com/clarity
In this short guided checklist, you’ll learn
🙌 How to get on the same page in how you describe your relationship
🙌 What you both mean by words like “boyfriends,” "partner," “taken,” “committed” or “exclusive” (you'd be surprised how different these can be! and how damaging misunderstandings can be)
🙌 A better way to strengthen your relationship and get on the same page, while leaving room for exploration in the future
🙌 How to align your interests and values so that everyone feels safe and excited in the relationship
🙌 The three lists you and your boyfriend need to make to avoid arguments about commitment or cheating in the future
🙌 Disagreement does not need to be mean the end of a relationship
🙌 A simple, low-pressure way to ask for what you want while also loving and respecting your partner
🙌 The first thing to do if your partner wants an open relationship so that you don’t sacrifice your feelings, values, or needs
This is where every couple should start:
✅ Before opening up or talking about polyamory
✅ If you want to improve your already-open relationship
✅ Or even if you want to stay monogamous
When you and your partner are on the same page, anything is possible.
Download it for free here: briangerald.com/clarity
🎥 Subscribe for new open relationship and/or gay relationship advice videos every Wednesday afternoon: youtube.com/creativereduction?sub_confirmation=1
KEEP IN TOUCH:
Practical relationship advice for gay guys, by a gay guy: briangerald.com
CONNECT WITH ME ONLINE!
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If you’re in a committed relationship (or want to be!) it’s important that you and your boyfriend are on the same page about what commitment means to you.
“Commitment” means different things to different people.
Each person will bring their own expectations of what being in a committed relationship involves — even if you agree that you want to monogamous or agree that you want to be open.
I see trouble come along down the road when guys aren’t clear about what they expect.
Clarity 👏 is 👏crucial 👏
The Commitment Clarity Checklist is a way to create more security and connection while opening the door for future possibility in a way that feels safe and committed.
You can download it here: briangerald.com/clarity
In this short guided checklist, you’ll learn
🙌 How to get on the same page in how you describe your relationship
🙌 What you both mean by words like “boyfriends,” "partner," “taken,” “committed” or “exclusive” (you'd be surprised how different these can be! and how damaging misunderstandings can be)
🙌 A better way to strengthen your relationship and get on the same page, while leaving room for exploration in the future
🙌 How to align your interests and values so that everyone feels safe and excited in the relationship
🙌 The three lists you and your boyfriend need to make to avoid arguments about commitment or cheating in the future
🙌 Disagreement does not need to be mean the end of a relationship
🙌 A simple, low-pressure way to ask for what you want while also loving and respecting your partner
🙌 The first thing to do if your partner wants an open relationship so that you don’t sacrifice your feelings, values, or needs
This is where every couple should start:
✅ Before opening up or talking about polyamory
✅ If you want to improve your already-open relationship
✅ Or even if you want to stay monogamous
When you and your partner are on the same page, anything is possible.
Download it for free here: briangerald.com/clarity
🎥 Subscribe for new open relationship and/or gay relationship advice videos every Wednesday afternoon: youtube.com/creativereduction?sub_confirmation=1
KEEP IN TOUCH:
Practical relationship advice for gay guys, by a gay guy: briangerald.com
CONNECT WITH ME ONLINE!
Facebook: facebook.com/ThisIsBGM
Twitter: twitter.com/ThisIsBGM
Instagram: instagram.com/ThisIsBGM
