When You Change, Narcissist Targets You @samvaknin
When You Change, Narcissist Targets You  @samvaknin
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A profound transformation renders you a new person, eligible to participate in a new shared fantasy.

Narcissist’s discontinuity and identity diffusion predispose him/her to recognize and react to transformations in others.

Your transformation is a form of narcissistic injury (a display of personal autonomy). It challenges the narcissist’s centrality in your life and undermines the internal object that represents you in his/her mind.

The narcissist resolves this dissonance by trying to “annex” you, convert you into a pliant internal object, safely ensconced in a new shared fantasy.

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