Tara Wagner Coaching | WHEN To Keep Your Goals to Yourself (A Solution to Conflicting Research on Sharing Goals) @TaraWagner | Uploaded July 2019 | Updated October 2024, 3 hours ago.
Did you know the research on whether you should keep your goals to yourself or share them is actually conflicting? In this video, I’m sharing why that is, and when you SHOULD and SHOULDN’T share your goals, including WHO to share them with, and HOW goal sharing can be done effectively.
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I’ve recently found a couple great but conflicting videos and research on talking about goals or talking about future plans. It seems no goal-setting studies can agree on when you should keep your goals to yourself, but it all seems pretty obvious to me.
Like most things, it’s never black and white when it comes to goal-setting “facts”. The only “fact” is you need to find what works for you, which means knowing yourself, being honest when it comes to what motivates you or sustains you to follow through, knowing whether or why accountability is important to you, or if you’re just sharing your goals (or keeping them quiet) to prove them wrong.
In this video, I’m sharing what I’ve learned myself and from all of you: that sharing goals and being accountable for them has some pros and cons, but there is a way of thinking about and approaching this that seems to work best. It goes like this:
Not every person is a safe container for your dreams. Your dreams are like little sprouts that need extra nurturing and protection from the harsher elements before they’re ready to be put out into the world. That means certain times, certain people, and certain methods can all crush your little baby dream before you have a chance to “crush it”.
// MORE INSPIRATION
INSTEAD OF OUTCOME GOALS, SET THESE:
youtu.be/ddi-hneGM7U
HIGH-PERFORMANCE PLANNER VS START TODAY JOURNAL
youtu.be/nEjjCdc4QUs
HOW TO ACHIEVE A GOAL IN 90 DAYS:
youtu.be/26JXFNdwi9A
WHEN TO KEEP YOUR GOALS QUIET:
youtu.be/s7NHB__Fxos
WHY YOU’RE BUSY, BUT NOT PRODUCTIVE:
youtu.be/1xEFCQNmGBY
HOW TO AVOID SHINY OBJECT SYNDROME:
youtu.be/THJzBWeFVoI
5 WAYS TO STOP PROCRASTINATING:
youtu.be/Ac36f0n7omI
CAN’T MAINTAIN YOUR DAILY HABITS? DO THIS ASAP:
youtu.be/9vMpcMgUJ1A
17 SIGNS YOU’LL BE SUCCESSFUL:
youtu.be/dPpJNeEa42U
// GOODIES FOR ENTREPRENEURS
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➤ FREE AROMATHERAPY GUIDE: xotara.us/ssa
➤ JOIN MY FB GROUP: facebook.com/groups/xotarawagner
// ABOUT ME
I’m Tara Wagner, Belief Breakthrough coach with almost a decade of experience helping women overcome their limiting beliefs. I teach female entrepreneurs struggling with the work/life juggling act how to overcome Imposter Syndrome and overwhelm, so they can actually execute on all those ideas and plans they keep coming up with, and finally scale their businesses WITHOUT scaling their stress. #crushyourgoalsnotyoursoul
Each week I post new videos to help you uplevel your mindset and habits (including things around productivity, self-care, and more), and encourage you to be the badass CEO of your business (not the exhausted errand girl). To learn more, check out my links below or send me any questions you have.
// LET’S CONNECT
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➤ MY WEBSITE: xotara.us
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➤ FREE SELF-CARE TRAINING: xotara.us/scis
➤ FREE AROMATHERAPY DOWNLOAD: xotara.us/ssa
➤ MY DOTERRA WEBSITE: mydoterra.com/tarawagner
➤ WHY DOTERRA: xotara.us/why-doterra
➤ READ THE BLOG: xotara.us/keep-your-goals-to-yourself
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➤ SHARE THIS VIDEO: youtu.be/s7NHB__Fxos
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Did you know the research on whether you should keep your goals to yourself or share them is actually conflicting? In this video, I’m sharing why that is, and when you SHOULD and SHOULDN’T share your goals, including WHO to share them with, and HOW goal sharing can be done effectively.
FREE CLASS: How to Use a Holistic Approach to Create a Profitable Biz Without Burning Yourself Out
xotara.us/training
I’ve recently found a couple great but conflicting videos and research on talking about goals or talking about future plans. It seems no goal-setting studies can agree on when you should keep your goals to yourself, but it all seems pretty obvious to me.
Like most things, it’s never black and white when it comes to goal-setting “facts”. The only “fact” is you need to find what works for you, which means knowing yourself, being honest when it comes to what motivates you or sustains you to follow through, knowing whether or why accountability is important to you, or if you’re just sharing your goals (or keeping them quiet) to prove them wrong.
In this video, I’m sharing what I’ve learned myself and from all of you: that sharing goals and being accountable for them has some pros and cons, but there is a way of thinking about and approaching this that seems to work best. It goes like this:
Not every person is a safe container for your dreams. Your dreams are like little sprouts that need extra nurturing and protection from the harsher elements before they’re ready to be put out into the world. That means certain times, certain people, and certain methods can all crush your little baby dream before you have a chance to “crush it”.
// MORE INSPIRATION
INSTEAD OF OUTCOME GOALS, SET THESE:
youtu.be/ddi-hneGM7U
HIGH-PERFORMANCE PLANNER VS START TODAY JOURNAL
youtu.be/nEjjCdc4QUs
HOW TO ACHIEVE A GOAL IN 90 DAYS:
youtu.be/26JXFNdwi9A
WHEN TO KEEP YOUR GOALS QUIET:
youtu.be/s7NHB__Fxos
WHY YOU’RE BUSY, BUT NOT PRODUCTIVE:
youtu.be/1xEFCQNmGBY
HOW TO AVOID SHINY OBJECT SYNDROME:
youtu.be/THJzBWeFVoI
5 WAYS TO STOP PROCRASTINATING:
youtu.be/Ac36f0n7omI
CAN’T MAINTAIN YOUR DAILY HABITS? DO THIS ASAP:
youtu.be/9vMpcMgUJ1A
17 SIGNS YOU’LL BE SUCCESSFUL:
youtu.be/dPpJNeEa42U
// GOODIES FOR ENTREPRENEURS
➤ FREE CLASS FOR ENTREPRENEURS: xotara.us/training
➤ FREE MINDSET TRAINING: xotara.us/b2b
➤ SELF-CARE IN SECONDS: xotara.us/scis
➤ FREE AROMATHERAPY GUIDE: xotara.us/ssa
➤ JOIN MY FB GROUP: facebook.com/groups/xotarawagner
// ABOUT ME
I’m Tara Wagner, Belief Breakthrough coach with almost a decade of experience helping women overcome their limiting beliefs. I teach female entrepreneurs struggling with the work/life juggling act how to overcome Imposter Syndrome and overwhelm, so they can actually execute on all those ideas and plans they keep coming up with, and finally scale their businesses WITHOUT scaling their stress. #crushyourgoalsnotyoursoul
Each week I post new videos to help you uplevel your mindset and habits (including things around productivity, self-care, and more), and encourage you to be the badass CEO of your business (not the exhausted errand girl). To learn more, check out my links below or send me any questions you have.
// LET’S CONNECT
➤ JOIN MY FB GROUP: facebook.com/groups/xotarawagner
➤ INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/tarawagner
➤ PINTEREST: pinterest.com/tarawagner
➤ MY WEBSITE: xotara.us
// OTHER HELPFUL LINKS
➤ FREE BREAKTHROUGHS TRAINING: xotara.us/b2b
➤ FREE SELF-CARE TRAINING: xotara.us/scis
➤ FREE AROMATHERAPY DOWNLOAD: xotara.us/ssa
➤ MY DOTERRA WEBSITE: mydoterra.com/tarawagner
➤ WHY DOTERRA: xotara.us/why-doterra
➤ READ THE BLOG: xotara.us/keep-your-goals-to-yourself
➤ TWEET THIS VID: https://ctt.ac/41MUQ
➤ SHARE THIS VIDEO: youtu.be/s7NHB__Fxos
// MY VIDEO SETUP + EQUIPMENT
xotara.us/video-setup
// DISCLAIMER
The information contained on this channel and the resources available for download through my website are for educational and informational purposes only. No health advice has been evaluated or approved by any governing body, and all advice should be undertaken at your own discretion, because you’re a smart cookie. Affiliate links may be included and are noted as such. By watching or subscribing to this channel you agree to use the common sense discretion outlined in painful detail on my full disclaimer, found here: xotara.us/disclaimer
