When Protection is Actually Control: The Danger of Protecting Girls @jessicaoutofthecloset
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Stories about “protecting girls” are everywhere- in dystopian fiction, in politics, and in everyday culture. But protection is never neutral. The Testaments continues the world of The Handmaid’s Tale and beneath its story of “saving girls” lies a deeper question: who actually gets protected, and at what cost? Both the books and TV shows have become synonymous with political protests and movements in real life. The speculative novel has become a cautionary tale of the erosion of women’s reproductive rights and bodily autonomy.

Let’s talk about the emotional reality of raising daughters in a world shaped by these ideas…

⏱ Timestamps

00:00: Opening
01:15 Why ‘The Testaments’ Matters Right Now
03:58 The Politics of Girlhood in Dystopian Fiction
08:16 Where are the Queer Girls?
14:59 Disability and “Desirable Futures”
19:54 Protection vs. Control in Gendered Narratives
22:44 The Marketability of Feminist Dystopia: When Resistance Becomes Aesthetic
26:30 Conclusion

SOURCES & FURTHER READING
Adorno, Theodor & Horkheimer, Max. Dialectic of Enlightenment. 1944.
Banet-Weiser, Sarah. Empowered: Popular Feminism and Popular Misogyny. Duke University Press, 2018.
Bond Stockton, Kathryn. The Queer Child, or Growing Sideways in the Twentieth Century. Duke University Press, 2009.
Clare, Eli. Brilliant Imperfection: Grappling with Cure. Duke University Press, 2017.
Foucault, Michel. The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1. Pantheon Books, 1976.
Kafer, Alison. Feminist, Queer, Crip. Indiana University Press, 2013.
Kincaid, James. Erotic Innocence. Duke University Press, 1998.
McRobbie, Angela. The Aftermath of Feminism. Sage, 2009.
McRuer, Robert. Crip Theory: Cultural Signs of Queerness and Disability. NYU Press, 2006.

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