When Doing Whats Right Costs You Everything As A Mom @sallyharriscoach
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Uploaded May 2026 | Updated September 2026, 1 week ago
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In this powerful episode of The Sally Harris Show, we sit down with a courageous mom who shares her heartbreaking and complex journey through estrangement from all three of her children.
What began as an attempt to protect her young grandson turned into a life-altering chain of events—leading to distance, disconnection, and ultimately no contact with multiple children over the span of 13 years.
This conversation dives into:
The pain of being misunderstood when you’re trying to do the right thing
How family dynamics, fear, and influence can shift relationships overnight
The long-term emotional toll of estrangement and isolation
The role of enabling, codependency, and healing
And how surrendering control and leaning into faith can begin to restore peace
If you’ve ever felt like your intentions were twisted, your voice was silenced, or your love was rejected… this episode will remind you that you are not alone.
There is hope. There is healing. And there is still purpose in your story.

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00:00 – When protecting a child changes everything
00:30 – A mother navigating deep family estrangement
01:20 – The incident that started it all
03:00 – Signs something wasn’t right
05:00 – CPS involvement and family breakdown
06:30 – Threats, fear, and losing contact
07:30 – Estrangement spreads to multiple children
09:00 – The ultimatum letter and communication breakdown
10:30 – Addiction, enabling, and a turning point
12:00 – Learning surrender and letting go of control
13:30 – Finding faith and support after years of pain
15:00 – What she would do differently
16:20 – What she wishes her children knew
17:30 – Hope, healing, and moving forward





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