Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 5 hours ago
Crafting that perfect first message to send to your match isn’t always as easy as it seems. Trust us, we’ve been there! So what exactly are you supposed to do after you match? Try these three tips:
🔎 Find something in common.
Maybe they have a pic wearing your favorite band’s merch or their bio says they also like hiking. Ask about it! Finding things in common and showing you care about the things they’re interested in are big steps in generating a spark.
😂 Tell a joke or funny story.
The best way to make a real connection is to show people who you really are. It’s great to start with something fun like a relatable story or a joke that shows your sense of humor.
❓Ask about them.
Ask about the best or worst date they’ve ever been on, what they like to do when they spend time with friends, or what they like about the city they live in. The best way to know if you’re a good match is to get to know them.
You’ve got this! 💪
Crafting that perfect first message to send to your match isn’t always as easy as it seems. Trust us, we’ve been there! So what exactly are you supposed to do after you match? Try these three tips:
🔎 Find something in common.
Maybe they have a pic wearing your favorite band’s merch or their bio says they also like hiking. Ask about it! Finding things in common and showing you care about the things they’re interested in are big steps in generating a spark.
😂 Tell a joke or funny story.
The best way to make a real connection is to show people who you really are. It’s great to start with something fun like a relatable story or a joke that shows your sense of humor.
❓Ask about them.
Ask about the best or worst date they’ve ever been on, what they like to do when they spend time with friends, or what they like about the city they live in. The best way to know if you’re a good match is to get to know them.
You’ve got this! 💪
