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If you’re estranged from your adult child—or walking through a difficult relationship with them—you may feel like you’re constantly trying to say the right thing, do the right thing, and somehow fix what’s broken.
I know that feeling.
For years, I held tightly to the outcome I wanted with my daughter. I replayed conversations, rehearsed what I would say, prayed the same prayers, and wondered what else I could possibly do.
Until I reached a moment when I realized:
I can’t fix this. I have to let go.
And surprisingly, letting go wasn’t the end of hope. It was the beginning of something new in me.
In this episode, I’m sharing 4 things that can begin to happen when you stop trying to control the outcome and start releasing what was never yours to carry alone.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 When You’re Terrified of Saying the Wrong Thing
01:12 The Moment I Realized “I Can’t Fix This”
02:06 #1: Your Hands Start to Open
03:19 #2: The Noise Gets Quieter
04:42 When Your Mind Finally Has Room Again
05:13 Heart-to-Heart Consultation
05:52 #3: You Start Becoming Someone You Actually Like
07:05 From “How Do I Get Them Back?” to “Who Am I Becoming?”
07:38 #4: Peace Stops Depending on the Phone Ringing
09:03 What Peace Can Look Like During Estrangement
10:08 What’s Waiting on the Other Side of Letting Go
Letting go doesn’t mean you don’t love your child. It doesn’t mean you’ve stopped hoping. And it certainly doesn’t mean God has stopped working.
Sometimes open hands are exactly where a new kind of healing begins.
❤️ Ready for support in your specific situation?
My Heart-to-Heart Consultation is a private 30-minute conversation where we’ll talk about where you are, what you’ve been carrying, and what your next right step might be. This is not a coaching session—it’s an opportunity for us to determine what kind of coaching support may be the best fit for you.
👉 Schedule your Heart-to-Heart Consultation here: sally-harris.com/H2Happ
If you’re a mom navigating estrangement, limited contact, difficult boundaries, disrespect, or a painful relationship with your adult child, subscribe and join me here each week.
Healing is possible. People can change. And God is still at work—even when you can’t see it.
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If you’re feeling ready for support and want to learn more about working together, I invite you to start with a short application. From there, you’ll receive next steps to book your Heart-to-Heart Consultation. Start here: sally-harris.com/H2Happ
If you’re estranged from your adult child—or walking through a difficult relationship with them—you may feel like you’re constantly trying to say the right thing, do the right thing, and somehow fix what’s broken.
I know that feeling.
For years, I held tightly to the outcome I wanted with my daughter. I replayed conversations, rehearsed what I would say, prayed the same prayers, and wondered what else I could possibly do.
Until I reached a moment when I realized:
I can’t fix this. I have to let go.
And surprisingly, letting go wasn’t the end of hope. It was the beginning of something new in me.
In this episode, I’m sharing 4 things that can begin to happen when you stop trying to control the outcome and start releasing what was never yours to carry alone.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 When You’re Terrified of Saying the Wrong Thing
01:12 The Moment I Realized “I Can’t Fix This”
02:06 #1: Your Hands Start to Open
03:19 #2: The Noise Gets Quieter
04:42 When Your Mind Finally Has Room Again
05:13 Heart-to-Heart Consultation
05:52 #3: You Start Becoming Someone You Actually Like
07:05 From “How Do I Get Them Back?” to “Who Am I Becoming?”
07:38 #4: Peace Stops Depending on the Phone Ringing
09:03 What Peace Can Look Like During Estrangement
10:08 What’s Waiting on the Other Side of Letting Go
Letting go doesn’t mean you don’t love your child. It doesn’t mean you’ve stopped hoping. And it certainly doesn’t mean God has stopped working.
Sometimes open hands are exactly where a new kind of healing begins.
❤️ Ready for support in your specific situation?
My Heart-to-Heart Consultation is a private 30-minute conversation where we’ll talk about where you are, what you’ve been carrying, and what your next right step might be. This is not a coaching session—it’s an opportunity for us to determine what kind of coaching support may be the best fit for you.
👉 Schedule your Heart-to-Heart Consultation here: sally-harris.com/H2Happ
If you’re a mom navigating estrangement, limited contact, difficult boundaries, disrespect, or a painful relationship with your adult child, subscribe and join me here each week.
Healing is possible. People can change. And God is still at work—even when you can’t see it.
READY TO TAKE YOUR FIRST STEP? Apply for a consultation.👇
HEART-TO HEART CONSULT- sally-harris.com/H2Happ
LEARN MORE ABOUT MY “FROM STRUGGLE TO STRENGTH COURSE 👇 sally-harris.com/self-study
Check out my NEWEST blog posts 👇
sally-harris.com/blog
Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out!
What part of this video resonated with you the most? Comment below!
👇 SUBSCRIBE TO SALLY’S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👇
youtube.com/@sallyharriscoach
Free Guides Available to You:
sally-harris.com/free-guides
▶︎ The Empty Chair: Navigating Estrangement During the Holidays
▶︎ Self Care GPS Action Plan (Mini Course Available)
▶︎ Breaking the Chains of Mom Guilt: Your Path to Reclaiming Peace (Mini Course Available)
▶︎ Do You Want To Stop the Toxicity With Your Adult Child? (Mini Course Available)
▶︎ Navigating Challenges With Your Adult Child: Identifying Toxic Patterns & Finding Solutions
▶︎ Coping Strategies For Navigating Emotional Pain From Estranged Adult Children
sally-harris.com/free-guides
Mini Courses:
sally-harris.com/mini-courses
▶︎ Breaking the Chains of Mom Guilt: Your Path to Reclaiming Peace (Mini Course Available)
▶︎ Do You Want To Stop the Toxicity With Your Adult Child? (Mini Course Available)
▶︎ Self Care GPS Action Plan (Mini Course Available)
→ → → CONNECT WITH SALLY HARRIS ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←
▶︎ INSTAGRAM | instagram.com/sallyharriscoach/?hl=en
▶︎ FACEBOOK | facebook.com/coachsallyharris
▶︎ WEBSITE | sally-harris.com
#SallyHarrisMomsofEstrangedAdultKidExpert #estrangement #EstrangedParents #AdultChildren #EstrangedMother #FamilyEstrangement #LettingGo #ChristianMoms #HealingAfterEstrangement
