Uploaded June 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 hours ago

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After 11 years of parenting, and 17 years of marriage, my professional skateboarder husband Shaun Hover and I sat down and got honest about what we have learned the hard way!

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Timestamps:

:55 Grüns
2:49 Find your happy place.
4:54 Find your people.
6:10 Naps & snacks forever.
8:13 Routines.
10:34 Travel when they’re under 2.
11:31 Acceptance over resistance. (marriage & parenting challenges we faced)
19:20 Screen time.
21:55 Make memories.
24:25 Embrace help (from dad + others)
28:45 Family values.
29:19 Shaun’s motto. (time with kids vs career)