Uploaded July 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
Interviewers comment all the time on what candidates wear to their interviews...especially video interviews.
On one hand they will remark at how great it was to see the candidate in a blazer, clearly taking this interview seriously.
On the other hand, interviewers sometimes cannot get past the fact that, even if it's for a job in technology or a more casual job, such as not an executive role, it's still seen as not caring and lacking professionalism.
We can sit here and say how annoying it is that we are being judged by our appearances, but everyone is judging your appearance in all situations, that’s the trouble with working with humans.
I say when in doubt, wear a shirt with buttons on a video call.
Maybe a blazer if it makes sense, but skip the tie.
PS- If you want some insight on why you get interviews but not offers, I linked a free assessment here: madelinemann.com/quiz
Interviewers comment all the time on what candidates wear to their interviews...especially video interviews.
On one hand they will remark at how great it was to see the candidate in a blazer, clearly taking this interview seriously.
On the other hand, interviewers sometimes cannot get past the fact that, even if it's for a job in technology or a more casual job, such as not an executive role, it's still seen as not caring and lacking professionalism.
We can sit here and say how annoying it is that we are being judged by our appearances, but everyone is judging your appearance in all situations, that’s the trouble with working with humans.
I say when in doubt, wear a shirt with buttons on a video call.
Maybe a blazer if it makes sense, but skip the tie.
PS- If you want some insight on why you get interviews but not offers, I linked a free assessment here: madelinemann.com/quiz


![Soft disqualifiers lead to more job offers
This interview trick gets hiring managers to sell YOU on the role.
It’s called a soft disqualifier.
It’s when you say both what you’re looking for and NOT looking for in a role.
This builds trust with the interviewer because you are showing sincere preferences.
Such as, you could say, “If the job is mostly [thing I don’t want], then it’s not the right role for me.”
For example, when I would interview for roles like the head of human resources.
I would say something like:
“If more than 50% of my time in a job is focused on administrative work, then its not a good fit for me.
I am good at the administrative side, but I need at least 50% of my time focused on projects and strategic initiatives to stay motivated.
When this resonated with the company it got them to start selling me on the opportunity.
Why it works:
So I want you to go into your next interview being clear about your skills, interests, and priorities.
Before your next interview, fill in these blanks:
🍊 I’m motivated by...
🍊I’m strong in...
🍊 I’m building skills in...
🍊If the job is mostly.... it’s not for me
And make sure your answers are specific.
Dont say I am motivated by teamwork.
Pick something concrete such as I am motivated by building out brand facilitations.
PS: If youre currently job searching, I have a free Job Shopping masterclass that helps you attract the right job opportunities.
Watch the free Job Shopping masterclass here: https://www.selfmadeway.com/job-shopping-class
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