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You've read Extreme Ownership
You haven't trained in months
You're one of the most disciplined people I know.
You've done the hard thing every day for 10 years.
All of it went into the business.
You'll get back to the gym once this quarter's over.
You'll sort the sleep out after tax time.
Neither of those days has ever arrived.
Jocko has more on than you do.
He trains first, then he works.
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You've got the discipline.
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Which is exactly where it should be pointed.
But that only works while you're still standing.
You've taken extreme ownership of everything except yourself.
You've read Extreme Ownership
You haven't trained in months
You're one of the most disciplined people I know.
You've done the hard thing every day for 10 years.
All of it went into the business.
You'll get back to the gym once this quarter's over.
You'll sort the sleep out after tax time.
Neither of those days has ever arrived.
Jocko has more on than you do.
He trains first, then he works.
You work first, and there's nothing left by then.
You've got the discipline.
You're just pointing it at everyone but you.
Which is exactly where it should be pointed.
But that only works while you're still standing.
You've taken extreme ownership of everything except yourself.

![Army Combat Veteran: Why Your Team Doesnt Actually Follow You & What Great Leaders Do Instead
David Neal spent 14 years leading soldiers into situations where bad leadership got people killed. Now he reveals why everything most business owners believe about authority, influence, and team performance is completely wrong.
David Neil is a former Australian Army Infantry Officer, and is now an executive coach, and CEO of The Eighth Mile Consulting. With 14 years in uniform, leading combat teams through high-pressure environments where clarity was mandatory and accountability was immediate, David now works with organisations that want substance over slogans. He helps leaders close the gap between what they say they value and how they actually behave. Recognised in Forbes, LinkedIn Top 20 Voices Australia, and Leaders Hum Top 200 Global Leaders, David brings the hard lessons of military leadership into the realities of building and running a business team.
He explains:
◼️ Why soldiers dont run at bullets for their country and what actually drives them
◼️ Why authority is a leadership failsafe, not a strategy and what happens when you lean on it
◼️ The wolf, the sheep, and the third type of leader almost nobody develops
◼️ Why the moment you pull rank, youre cashing in chips you can never get back
◼️ The real difference between leadership and management and why both matter
◼️ Why your team isnt resisting change openly and what theyre doing instead
◼️ Why motivation and discipline are not the same thing and operate on different brain chemicals
◼️ What Viktor Frankls observations in a Nazi prison camp reveal about hope, performance, and survival
◼️ Why a sheepdog with no teeth isnt a leader. Its just the next thing to get eaten
◼️ How to build a team that performs without you having to be in the room
[0:00] Intro
[0:53] Davids Background — From Martial Arts to the Australian Army
[4:45] What Surprised Him Most About Military Leadership
[11:56] The Machine Gun Thought Experiment — Why Authority Doesnt Make People Brave
[14:09] Leadership vs Management — Why The Debate Is Wrong
[20:09] The Government and COVID Paradox — Why We Hate Bureaucracy Until Crisis Hits
[25:18] Why Change Is So Hard
[30:42] What Got You Here Got You Here — The Mistake New Leaders Make
[36:23] The Lily Pad Problem — Why People Wont Jump Until You Address The Fear
[44:02] Why Soldiers Run At Bullets — The Answer Nobody Expects
[47:41] The Dwarves and The Elves — Why Head Office and The Floor Never Agree
[50:55] Viktor Frankl, Hope and What Happens When People Stop Believing
[55:49] Motivation vs Discipline — They Are Not The Same Thing
[1:00:46] The Wolf, The Sheep, and The Sheepdog — The Third Type of Leader
[1:05:30] A Sheepdog With No Teeth Isnt A Leader
[1:07:21] Peace Without Capability Is Just Helplessness
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-j-neal/
The Eighth Mile Consulting: https://www.eighthmile.com.au/
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