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The Victorian Era Etiquette gets a bad wrap on YouTube. Let's talk about all Victorian Etiquette we still need in 2021.
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00:00 Victorian Era Etiquette We Need In 2021 [Intro]
00:48 What is etiquette?
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06:53 Principle 3: Make Wise Choices
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![What is the Regency Era?
Try Audible for your next read: https://amzn.to/45Uzoqb π So what is the Regency era? In short, it is a time period in English history that lasted from 1795 to 1837.
To better understand this time period, lets answer these two basic questions about it: Why was it called the Regency Era? What defined the era as special?
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0:00 What is the Regency Era [Intro]
0:45 When was the Regency Era?
1:06 Why is it called the Regency Era?
1:56 Regency Era Royals: King George III
2:44 What is a Regent?
3:21 The Prince Regent
4:12 What made the Regency era so special?
6:18 So what REALLY is the Regency Era?
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![How to Be Mistress of Pemberley | A Day in the Life of a 19th Century Country Estate Lady
Get $20 off your Brooklinen order over $100! Just click here https://bit.ly/EllieDashwood and enter my promo code ELLIE. π Have you ever wondered what Elizabeth Bennets life will be like once she marries Mr. Darcy? Well in this video, we break down exactly what it takes to be the mistress of a grand estate like Pemberley. We look at the typical day of an upper-class lady in the 19th century. And break down Elizabeths roles in a society like mother, wife, mistress, hostess, and lady bountiful.
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What Was Jane Austens Love Life Like? https://youtu.be/Yl4-CqhXnSw
Darcy and Lizzy had a Prenup? https://youtu.be/oGJUAboJx5I
The Regency Era Marriage Season https://youtu.be/OwUcb9SE_7A
Is Mr Darcys Pemberley Inspired by Chatsworth House? https://youtu.be/UREv1Sl-PIY
Is Darcy *Actually* Rich? https://youtu.be/thqY3020vH8
Regency Era Girls Education https://youtu.be/fozorPx6E7c
What Was a Governess? https://youtu.be/FFw2QmO8aJU
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Adams, S., Adams, S. (1825). The Complete Servant: Being a Practical Guide to the Peculiar Duties and Business of All Descriptions of Servants ... with Useful Receipts and Tables.Β United Kingdom:Β Knight and Lacey.
Cloth and Human Experience.Β (2013).Β United States:Β Smithsonian.
Hartley, F. (2020). The Ladies Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness.
Horn, P. (2014). Ladies of the manor: How wives & daughters really lived in country house society over a century ago. Stroud, Gloucestershire: Amberley Publishing.
Gerard, J. (1994). Country House Life: Family and Servants, 1815-1914. Oxford: Basil Blackwell Scientific Publications.
Murray, S. (2008). Moveable feasts: The incredible journeys of the things we eat. London: Aurum.
The Oxford Handbook of the History of Consumption.Β (2012).Β United Kingdom:Β OUP Oxford.
Ringo,Β F.Β J.Β (1925).Β Linen and Bedding.Β United States:Β A.W. Shaw Company.
Webster, T. (1815). An Encyclopæaedia of Domestic Economy. United States: Harper & Brothers.
The Workwomans Guide,: Containing Instructions to the Inexperienced in Cutting Out and Completing...Β (1840).Β United Kingdom:Β Simpkin, Marshall, and Company, Stationers Hall Court: Thomas Evans, ... Birmingham..
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![Is Darcy *Actually* Rich? Regency Era Economics In Pride and Prejudice
[Subtitulada en espaΓ±ol] Mr Darcy from Pride and Prejudice is famous for being rich. But just how rich is he? Is he actually that impressive or is he just sort of middle class fancy? In this video, I put Mr. Darcy into the financial context of the Regency era and show exactly what sort of financial position Jane Austen painted him in.
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π° Watching Guide
00:00 Is Darcy Actually Rich? [Intro]
01:11 Regency Economics vs Today
01:57 Examine Pride and Prejudice Quotes
02:45 Mrs Bennet Insight
03:54 Tis as Good as a Lord
05:53 Special Marriage License
08:11 Social Hierarchy of Georgian England
13:40 Darcy vs the Duke of Devonshire
16:51 Darcy as a Landowner
18:03 Pride and Prejudice Said So
π§Learn More
Cannadine, David. The Landowner as Millionaire: The Finances of the Dukes of Devonshire, c. 1800-c. 1926 (Continued). The Agricultural History
Review 25.2 (1977): 77-97.
Clark, G. βLand Rental Values and the Agrarian Economy: England and Wales, 1500-1914.β European Review of Economic History, vol. 6, no. 3, 2002, pp. 281β308., doi:10.1017/s136149160200014x.
Dickson, P. G. M., and J. V. Beckett. βThe Finances of the Dukes of Chandos: Aristocratic Inheritance, Marriage, and Debt in Eighteenth-Century England.β Huntington Library Quarterly, vol. 64, no. 3/4, 2001, pp. 309β355. JSTOR, www.jstor.org/stable/3817916.
The Etiquette of Courtship and Matrimony: with a Complete Guide to the Forms of a Wedding. United Kingdom, George Routledge and Son, 1852.
βForbes Billionaires 2021: The Richest People in the World.β
Forbes, Forbes Magazine, www.forbes.com/billionaires/.
Hilton, Boyd. A Mad, Bad, and Dangerous People?: England, 1783-1846. Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2013.
Le, Faye D. Jane Austens outlandish Cousin: The Life and Letters of Eliza De Feuillide. London: The British Library, 2002. Print.
Lindert, Peter H., and Jeffrey G. Williamson. Reinterpreting Britains social tables, 1688β1913. Explorations in Economic History 20.1 (1983): 94-109.
Thompson, F M. L. English Landed Society in the Nineteenth Century. Hoboken: Taylor and Francis, 2013.
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![Georgiana Darcys Backstory | Boarding School, Ramsgate, Wickham, Eloping to Gretna Green
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