Uploaded January 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and we’re dropping an episode that might make you want to cancel the holiday altogether. You wrote in your most horrifying dating app stories for Jaci and Chelsey to unpack, and the lineup does not disappoint; Henry on Hinge with questionable hygiene, Daniel from Duet delivering unsolicited dong pics, murder threats from Mike on Mutual, and Bumble Ben rounding things out with a blatantly bold catfish move. Names have been changed for privacy, but the stories are very real — no app is safe, and these are tales from survivors who lived to tell them.
00:00 Intro
01:20 Vision board night
05:46 Activations
08:01 Becoming a morning person
19:22 Showing up late
30:05 Dating horror stories
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Valentine’s Day is right around the corner, and we’re dropping an episode that might make you want to cancel the holiday altogether. You wrote in your most horrifying dating app stories for Jaci and Chelsey to unpack, and the lineup does not disappoint; Henry on Hinge with questionable hygiene, Daniel from Duet delivering unsolicited dong pics, murder threats from Mike on Mutual, and Bumble Ben rounding things out with a blatantly bold catfish move. Names have been changed for privacy, but the stories are very real — no app is safe, and these are tales from survivors who lived to tell them.
00:00 Intro
01:20 Vision board night
05:46 Activations
08:01 Becoming a morning person
19:22 Showing up late
30:05 Dating horror stories
WWS LINKS (what we are wearing/mentioning): shopmy.us/whatwesaidpodcast
FOLLOW US!
INSTA:
WWS: instagram.com/whatwesaidpodcast
Jaci: instagram.com/jacimariesmith
Chelsey: instagram.com/chelseyjadecurtis
TIKTOK:
WWS: tiktok.com/@whatwesaid?_t=8kxJ0oJZakJ&_r=1
YOUTUBE:
Chelsey Jade: youtube.com/@chelseygustafson?si=YT3Rjc7FmTkf9352
Jaci Marie: youtube.com/@jacimarie_?si=8wtZ9LYJmkGDLMkk
Shop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedia.com/WHATWESAID
SPONSORS:
Activations: Motivational audios to shift your mindset – in minutes. Head to our link activations.com/podcast/whatwesaid and get our an exclusive offer: enjoy 14 days free and 69% off (plus, lock in this discounted rate forever!)
Covergirl: Go the distance with COVERGIRL’s new Eye Enhancer Wrap Tubing Mascara for a lash extension effect. Shop now at your nearest retailer.
Warby Parker: Our listeners get 15% off plus free shipping when they buy two or more pairs of prescription glasses at WarbyParker.com/WHATWESAID — using our link helps support the show. #WarbyParker #ad
Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://click.cash.app/ui6m/livjpll3 #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement. Discounts and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures.
