Uploaded December 2013 | Updated September 2026, 6 hours ago

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"If I could wave a magic wand and change one thing about you, I wouldn't. Because it might be connected to something I love." - Jimism #382

I decided that I was wrong when I originally shot this video. I don't think it's just about "Family." I think it's about "Unconditional Love." If we wish we could change something about someone, we must be careful. That change could affect other things we really like about that person.

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Inspiration - When I was home for Christmas, I was thinking about all the things my Mom wasn't happy with. And I realized at least one of them was me. And I started thinking about what she wanted from me that I wasn't delivering. And then I started thinking about how much you could carve away and still leave me, me. Then I started asking myself who do I love, what do I want to change and if I did, how would they be different?

Shot on an iPhone 4S. Edited with Final Cut Pro X.

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Jim Anderson Editing, 2013
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