Uploaded February 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 days ago
Feelings You Can Trust EP 24: Change Your Self-Talk, Change Your Life
We often think change happens through information.
But real change happens when what you know aligns with what you believe.
In this episode of Feelings You Can Trust, we explore the unconscious mind — the part of you that stores patterns, emotional memory, and learned responses — and how self-talk acts as the bridge between conscious intention and unconscious belief.
If you’ve ever wanted to show up differently but found yourself repeating the same reactions, this conversation will help you understand why.
We discuss:
✨The role of the unconscious mind
✨Why “knowing better” doesn’t automatically change behavior
✨How self-talk reveals what you truly believe
✨The impact of repetition on identity
✨Listening to yourself without shame
✨Becoming a safe space for your own growth
🎧 Episode 24 is available now on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Substack.
💌 Listener Letters return next cycle — send yours to FeelingsYouCanTrust@gmail.com
Disclaimer
I am not a licensed therapist. The insights shared in this podcast are based on personal experience, education, and reflection. This content is for informational and self-development purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or legal advice. Please consult a qualified professional for support specific to your needs.
Feelings You Can Trust EP 24: Change Your Self-Talk, Change Your Life
We often think change happens through information.
But real change happens when what you know aligns with what you believe.
In this episode of Feelings You Can Trust, we explore the unconscious mind — the part of you that stores patterns, emotional memory, and learned responses — and how self-talk acts as the bridge between conscious intention and unconscious belief.
If you’ve ever wanted to show up differently but found yourself repeating the same reactions, this conversation will help you understand why.
We discuss:
✨The role of the unconscious mind
✨Why “knowing better” doesn’t automatically change behavior
✨How self-talk reveals what you truly believe
✨The impact of repetition on identity
✨Listening to yourself without shame
✨Becoming a safe space for your own growth
🎧 Episode 24 is available now on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Substack.
💌 Listener Letters return next cycle — send yours to FeelingsYouCanTrust@gmail.com
Disclaimer
I am not a licensed therapist. The insights shared in this podcast are based on personal experience, education, and reflection. This content is for informational and self-development purposes only and is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or legal advice. Please consult a qualified professional for support specific to your needs.






![12. NEVER attach your self worth to a no - Finding Peace in Failed Plans (Part 2)
More Peace (Please!) Episode 12 - Finding Peace in Failed Plans (Part 2)
I’m joined by the brilliant Kacee M. King, a powerhouse in finance, education, and healing-centered leadership, for a heart-centered conversation on finding peace in failed plans.
From the lessons of a failed marriage to the freedom that comes with release, Kacee reminds us that peace isn’t found in perfection—it’s found in trust.
Together, we explore:
✨ Why striving doesn’t equal peace
✨ What failure can teach us about timing and self-compassion
✨ How rock bottom can become holy ground
✨ And why your goals don’t define your worth—your growth does.
We also talk about shifting from ego-driven planning to intention-led living, and how choosing peace sometimes means choosing to let go.
This one is for anyone feeling behind, uncertain, or like the plan isn’t panning out. There is still peace. There is still a purpose. And there is so much more ahead.
Listen now, and as always, ask yourself for more peace, please.
Download Climbing Back Up to the Watch Tower on my Substack and stay connected:
🌿 **Climbing Back Up to the Watch Tower** https://substack.com/home/post/p-160155855
💻**Website:** https://www.brownandbendy.com/newsletter
📲 **Instagram:** [@BrownandBendy]https://www.brownandbendy.com/
🎥**YouTube:** [Brown and Bendy] https://www.youtube.com/c/brownandbendy
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![7. Stop Dreaming and Start Doing: Learning How to Take Aligned Action - More Peace (Please!)
Episode 7 – Stop Dreaming, Start Doing: Learning How to Take Aligned Action
Do you have all the ideas but still feel stuck when it comes to actually making things happen? Or maybe you’re out here hustling nonstop, but you’re not seeing the results you expected?
If either of those sound like you, this episode is for you.
In this episode of More Peace (Please!), I’m diving into why so many of us stay in our heads—dreaming, planning, vision-boarding—but struggle to take the kind of action that leads to real momentum. Then we get into the how of moving forward in a way that feels aligned and grounded.
We’ll talk about:
🌟 Finding a job that supports your peace and your purpose
🌟 Creating self-care habits that actually serve you
🌟 Showing up for your calling every single day
🌟 Setting real, soul-aligned goals (not just to-do lists)
So if you’re ready to get out of your own head and into aligned action, grab a matcha, a notebook, and let’s get it.
Download Climbing Back Up to the Watch Tower on my Substack and stay connected:
🌿 **Climbing Back Up to the Watch Tower** https://substack.com/home/post/p-160155855
💻**Website:** https://www.brownandbendy.com/newsletter
📲 **Instagram:** [@BrownandBendy]https://www.brownandbendy.com/
🎥**YouTube:** [Brown and Bendy] https://www.youtube.com/c/brownandbendy
💌**Substack:** https://substack.com/@brownandbendy 7. Stop Dreaming and Start Doing: Learning How to Take Aligned Action - More Peace (Please!)](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/rkaczS1TCQU/mqdefault.jpg)


