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Are you dating someone who constantly switches personalities? 🌪️ One day they wear the "Romeo mask"—loving, charming, and generous. The next, the mask slips, and you're dealing with a cruel, controlling reality.
Living with this constant emotional oscillation keeps your nervous system on high alert. Recognizing these red flags early is the first step to protecting your peace. 💔
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About Terri Cole
Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free, The Boundary Boss Workbook, and Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency.
For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs.
She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over a million people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see terricole.com
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Are you dating someone who constantly switches personalities? 🌪️ One day they wear the "Romeo mask"—loving, charming, and generous. The next, the mask slips, and you're dealing with a cruel, controlling reality.
Living with this constant emotional oscillation keeps your nervous system on high alert. Recognizing these red flags early is the first step to protecting your peace. 💔
📚 Too Much Book: hfcbook.com
📩 Newsletter: terricole.com/newsletter
🔑 Ready to build healthier relationships? Join: terricole.com/tcm
🪔 Meditate with me: insighttimer.com/terricole
📸 Instagram: terricole.com/ig
About Terri Cole
Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free, The Boundary Boss Workbook, and Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency.
For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs.
She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over a million people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see terricole.com
BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/terricole
I’m not currently taking any new one-on-one therapy or coaching clients, but highly recommend using BetterHelp to find a therapist that fits your needs. As a team, we have fully vetted BetterHelp's resources.
terricole.com/gethelp -- If you are in a crisis or any other person may be in danger, the resources on this page can provide you with immediate help.
Please note: If you choose to sign up for BetterHelp or Insight Timer or buy through my Amazon links, I will receive a commission. Please know that I only recommend services and products that I know & trust.




![The Roadmap to Writing & Publishing Your First Book with Joelle Hann - Terri Cole
Master the book writing process and how to write a book proposal with Joelle Hann. Discover the exact roadmap to finish your manuscript and get published in 2026.
Learn the exact book writing process I used to become a bestseller with my developmental editor, Joelle Hann. Stop guessing and discover how a professional book proposal acts as your roadmap to a finished manuscript.
I’m going to be honest with you: writing a book is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. There were moments during my second book where I was literally in tears, feeling like I couldnt cross the finish line. What saved me? Having a roadmap and the right person in my corner.
In this episode, I’m sitting down with my personal developmental editor, Joelle Hann. Joelle has been the secret weapon behind my books (including Boundary Boss!) and has helped countless visionaries and leaders turn their big ideas into transformational books.
What you’ll learn in this conversation:
🔸Why not giving up is the only common denominator of successful authors.
🔸The difference between a developmental editor and a copy editor (and why you need the former first).
🔸How a book proposal acts as a business plan for your dream.
🔸Why writing the shitty first draft is a necessary part of the growth process.
If youre working on a book and are ready to make it happen, apply to Book Proposal Academy [https://brooklynbookdoctor.com/bpa-tc-show/]. Joelle will personally take a closer look at your book idea and discuss your next best steps! The next cohort starts on April 17th.
Find Joelle at:
https://brooklynbookdoctor.com/bpa-tc-show/
https://www.instagram.com/brooklynbookdoctor/
YT: @brooklynbookdoctor
https://www.linkedin.com/in/joellehann/
info@brooklynbookdoctor.com
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Time Stamps
00:00 - The common denominator of successful authors
03:23 - The Origin Story: Where creativity begins
10:00 - What does a Developmental Editor actually do?
18:10 - The Nervous Breakdown: The truth about the writing process
25:30 - Why you should never wing a book proposal
29:55 - How to join the Book Proposal Academy
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About Terri Cole
Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free, The Boundary Boss Workbook, and Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency.
For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs.
She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over a million people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see https://www.terricole.com/
BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/terricole
I’m not currently taking any new one-on-one therapy or coaching clients, but highly recommend using BetterHelp to find a therapist that fits your needs. As a team, we have fully vetted BetterHelps resources.
https://www.terricole.com/gethelp/ If you are in a crisis or any other person may be in danger, the resources on this page can provide you with immediate help.
Please note: If you choose to sign up for BetterHelp or Insight Timer or buy through my Amazon links, I will receive a commission. Please know that I only recommend services and products that I know & trust.
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