Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
What’s really standing between you and the success you want? Sometimes the biggest obstacle isn’t our circumstances, other people, or a lack of opportunity—it’s ourselves.
In this episode of 3 Questions with Kat, I sit down with Dhar Mann actor Jack Kenway Cheng for a conversation about self-sabotage, getting outside your comfort zone, overcoming obstacles, and learning to embrace the discomfort that comes with growth.
Jack shares his thoughts on why we can become our own greatest obstacle—and why being willing to try something new, even when you’re not good at it yet, is essential if you want different results.
We talk about:
✨ Why we sometimes sabotage our own success
✨ The fear that keeps us inside our comfort zones
✨ Why growth requires discomfort
✨ Being willing to be bad at something before you get good
✨ Developing the skills that can take you further
✨ Giving yourself permission to start somewhere
✨ Becoming a better friend and giving others more patience and grace
✨ Remembering that everyone around us is fighting their own battles
✨ Why some obstacles are easier to overcome when we face them together
You don’t have to have everything figured out before you move forward. Sometimes the first step is simply becoming willing to be uncomfortable long enough for the uncomfortable to become your new comfortable.
💬 QUESTION FOR YOU: What’s one way you may be getting in your own way right now—and what is one uncomfortable step you could take to move forward?
If this conversation encouraged you, LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE it with someone who needs the reminder that they don’t have to be great at something to begin—they just have to begin.
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👉 Learn why your worth can't be earned by you or taken away by anyone.
👉 Why your worthiness is not based on what you think of feel.
👉 How to be an heir of God's promises and live an empowering life with joy and accomplishment.
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What’s really standing between you and the success you want? Sometimes the biggest obstacle isn’t our circumstances, other people, or a lack of opportunity—it’s ourselves.
In this episode of 3 Questions with Kat, I sit down with Dhar Mann actor Jack Kenway Cheng for a conversation about self-sabotage, getting outside your comfort zone, overcoming obstacles, and learning to embrace the discomfort that comes with growth.
Jack shares his thoughts on why we can become our own greatest obstacle—and why being willing to try something new, even when you’re not good at it yet, is essential if you want different results.
We talk about:
✨ Why we sometimes sabotage our own success
✨ The fear that keeps us inside our comfort zones
✨ Why growth requires discomfort
✨ Being willing to be bad at something before you get good
✨ Developing the skills that can take you further
✨ Giving yourself permission to start somewhere
✨ Becoming a better friend and giving others more patience and grace
✨ Remembering that everyone around us is fighting their own battles
✨ Why some obstacles are easier to overcome when we face them together
You don’t have to have everything figured out before you move forward. Sometimes the first step is simply becoming willing to be uncomfortable long enough for the uncomfortable to become your new comfortable.
💬 QUESTION FOR YOU: What’s one way you may be getting in your own way right now—and what is one uncomfortable step you could take to move forward?
If this conversation encouraged you, LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE it with someone who needs the reminder that they don’t have to be great at something to begin—they just have to begin.
Want a personalized video from me? Whether you need a pep talk, encouragement, birthday shoutout, or just some heartfelt advice—I’ve got you! Book a custom message from me on Cameo and I’ll send you (or someone you love) a video that uplifts, inspires, and brings a smile. Here’s the link to my Cameo store: cameo.com/katherinenorland
Your free gift is three in-depth training videos out of my brand new, life-changing course "You Are Worthy".
👉 Learn why your worth can't be earned by you or taken away by anyone.
👉 Why your worthiness is not based on what you think of feel.
👉 How to be an heir of God's promises and live an empowering life with joy and accomplishment.
Download your free gift at FreeGiftFromCoachKat.com
NEW acting course coming soon. Get on the mailing list at ActingAndHavingFun.com
Check Out My Shop! - katnorlandmerch.redbubble.com
Young Living Essential Oils - youngliving.com/us/en
TikTok: tiktok.com/@katnorland?lang=en
Instagram: / katherinenorland
Facebook: facebook.com/KatNorland
Download my free book by visiting PoeticPrescriptions.com/FreeBook
DISCLAIMER: Links included in this description might be affiliate links. By purchasing a product with the links that I provide, I may receive a small commission. This is at no cost to you. Thank you for supporting this channel and allowing me to continue to bring you valuable content.
#3QuestionsWithKat #JackKenwayCheng #DharMann #DharMannActors #SelfSabotage #SuccessMindset #ComfortZone #PersonalGrowth #OvercomingObstacles #Motivation #KatherineNorland
