Uploaded July 2025 | Updated September 2026, 1 day ago
One simple question stopped my impulse buying cold—will it work for you?
Struggling with impulse spending on makeup or other “little luxuries”? In this episode of The Adagio Sessions, I share the single question that transformed my shopping habits—no guilt, just a mindset shift that helped me fall back in love with what I already own.
Whether your weakness is lipstick, shoes, books, bags, or skincare, this question might just change the way you shop forever. If you've ever felt that thrill of the “add to cart” moment… only to forget the purchase two days later, this video is for you.
🪞 Topics we cover:
• The question that changed everything
• The real scarcity (hint: it’s not product)
• How to shop intentionally without deprivation
• Learning to lurv what you already have
👁🗨 Next week: I’ll show you how to “shop your stash” and create capsule collections from your own collection—it’s a treasure hunt with no credit card required.
♡ Videos mentioned:
YOU talked me out of the Lisa Eldridge Lipstick (and another neutral eyeshadow palette 🙄 )
youtu.be/Di8DO5DR1Rc
✨ Join Club Adagio for bonus content:
On Patreon:
patreon.com/c/TheStyleStumbler
On YouTube:
youtube.com/TheStyleStumbler/join
Both have the same content perks – I just offer both so you can choose what's more convenient for you. Thanks for considering supporting the channel in this way!
💄 On my face:
(Afilliate links)
Estee Lauder Double Wear
LISA ELDRIDGE | Luxuriously Lucent Lip Colour (Kitten Mischief)
go.shopmy.us/p-19876069
LISA ELDRIDGE | Lip Pencil (Fawn)
DOLCE&GABBANA | Face & Eyes Match Bronzer (Shade 02)
go.shopmy.us/p-20097284
DOLCE&GABBANA | Everlift Luminizer
go.shopmy.us/p-20097391
Dolce Gabbana Cheeks Eyes Match Blush Eyeshadow Powder
go.shopmy.us/p-20097426
♡ The microphone I use:
amzn.to/3Q2JPkO
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
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Links & Discount Codes
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♡ If you shop through my affiliate links & use my codes, my channel makes a commission. It's a great way to support me if there's something that you plan to buy. But keep in mind: makeup is just dirt, and clothing is just a fancy loin cloth. The true joy comes from using what we have. 😉 ♡
♡ SALT NY: go.shopmy.us/p-11974406
Use code STUMBLEINSTYLE on Salt NY's website for 10% off
♡ CALECIM: calecimprofessional.com/discount/StumbleInStyle
Use code StumbleInStyle on Calecim's site for 15% off your order
♡ ZEESEA COSMETICS: zeeseacosmetics.com/?ref=TheStyleStumbler
Use code StumbleInStyle at Zeesea for 15% off your order
♡ QUEEN MUSIA: go.shopmy.us/p-4373006
Use code StumbleInStyle on QM's site for 10% off your order
♡ UNIWIGS Top hair pieces: go.shopmy.us/p-9344075
Use code TSS15 on the Uniwigs site for 15% off your order
♡ INH HAIR: fbuy.io/insertnamehere/stephanie245
Using this INH link gives you 25% off orders over USD 100.
♡ ESUM Cosmetics: esumcosmetics.com/?aff=99
♡ NIRA at home laser treatment 25%-off link: nira.refr.cc/ReferralProgam/u/thestylestumbler
♡ SLEEP & GLOW Beauty Pillows: go.shopmy.us/p-18622066
Use code StumbleInStyle for $/€/£15 off pillows & blankets and 10% off the rest of the catalogue
♡ Would you like to make your own affiliate links? Use the following link to join ShopMy: shopmy.us/join/thestylestumbler
♡ About the channel:
How does one develop a sense of style? And how can we do it sustainably – both financially and environmentally? By enjoying and creatively using what we already have. By streamlining those things with thoughtful declutters. By developing awareness of how we use our stuff to encourage wiser decisions about the cosmetics, clothing and any other items we purchase. Sounds simple, but it's easier said than done. I've certainly been stumbling my way through it – let's stumble in style together!
🔗 Links to my style profiles:
Instagram: instagram.com/thestylestumbler
TikTok: tiktok.com/@thestylestumbler
One simple question stopped my impulse buying cold—will it work for you?
Struggling with impulse spending on makeup or other “little luxuries”? In this episode of The Adagio Sessions, I share the single question that transformed my shopping habits—no guilt, just a mindset shift that helped me fall back in love with what I already own.
Whether your weakness is lipstick, shoes, books, bags, or skincare, this question might just change the way you shop forever. If you've ever felt that thrill of the “add to cart” moment… only to forget the purchase two days later, this video is for you.
🪞 Topics we cover:
• The question that changed everything
• The real scarcity (hint: it’s not product)
• How to shop intentionally without deprivation
• Learning to lurv what you already have
👁🗨 Next week: I’ll show you how to “shop your stash” and create capsule collections from your own collection—it’s a treasure hunt with no credit card required.
♡ Videos mentioned:
YOU talked me out of the Lisa Eldridge Lipstick (and another neutral eyeshadow palette 🙄 )
youtu.be/Di8DO5DR1Rc
✨ Join Club Adagio for bonus content:
On Patreon:
patreon.com/c/TheStyleStumbler
On YouTube:
youtube.com/TheStyleStumbler/join
Both have the same content perks – I just offer both so you can choose what's more convenient for you. Thanks for considering supporting the channel in this way!
💄 On my face:
(Afilliate links)
Estee Lauder Double Wear
LISA ELDRIDGE | Luxuriously Lucent Lip Colour (Kitten Mischief)
go.shopmy.us/p-19876069
LISA ELDRIDGE | Lip Pencil (Fawn)
DOLCE&GABBANA | Face & Eyes Match Bronzer (Shade 02)
go.shopmy.us/p-20097284
DOLCE&GABBANA | Everlift Luminizer
go.shopmy.us/p-20097391
Dolce Gabbana Cheeks Eyes Match Blush Eyeshadow Powder
go.shopmy.us/p-20097426
♡ The microphone I use:
amzn.to/3Q2JPkO
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Links & Discount Codes
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
♡ If you shop through my affiliate links & use my codes, my channel makes a commission. It's a great way to support me if there's something that you plan to buy. But keep in mind: makeup is just dirt, and clothing is just a fancy loin cloth. The true joy comes from using what we have. 😉 ♡
♡ SALT NY: go.shopmy.us/p-11974406
Use code STUMBLEINSTYLE on Salt NY's website for 10% off
♡ CALECIM: calecimprofessional.com/discount/StumbleInStyle
Use code StumbleInStyle on Calecim's site for 15% off your order
♡ ZEESEA COSMETICS: zeeseacosmetics.com/?ref=TheStyleStumbler
Use code StumbleInStyle at Zeesea for 15% off your order
♡ QUEEN MUSIA: go.shopmy.us/p-4373006
Use code StumbleInStyle on QM's site for 10% off your order
♡ UNIWIGS Top hair pieces: go.shopmy.us/p-9344075
Use code TSS15 on the Uniwigs site for 15% off your order
♡ INH HAIR: fbuy.io/insertnamehere/stephanie245
Using this INH link gives you 25% off orders over USD 100.
♡ ESUM Cosmetics: esumcosmetics.com/?aff=99
♡ NIRA at home laser treatment 25%-off link: nira.refr.cc/ReferralProgam/u/thestylestumbler
♡ SLEEP & GLOW Beauty Pillows: go.shopmy.us/p-18622066
Use code StumbleInStyle for $/€/£15 off pillows & blankets and 10% off the rest of the catalogue
♡ Would you like to make your own affiliate links? Use the following link to join ShopMy: shopmy.us/join/thestylestumbler
♡ About the channel:
How does one develop a sense of style? And how can we do it sustainably – both financially and environmentally? By enjoying and creatively using what we already have. By streamlining those things with thoughtful declutters. By developing awareness of how we use our stuff to encourage wiser decisions about the cosmetics, clothing and any other items we purchase. Sounds simple, but it's easier said than done. I've certainly been stumbling my way through it – let's stumble in style together!
🔗 Links to my style profiles:
Instagram: instagram.com/thestylestumbler
TikTok: tiktok.com/@thestylestumbler
