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![SOFT GIRL ERA: The rise AND RISE of *soft girls* and hyper-femininity
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0:00 RIP #girlboss
7:49 ‘Soft Girl Era’ explained
10:09 Celebrities are leading the ‘soft girl’ revolution
18:15 Beyonce’s ‘soft girl era’ – Her mission to reconnect male & female energy, family values & the rebirth of feminine traits
22:49 Black soft girls – How the black bourgeoisie is having their moment
31:17 Why the perpetual rise of ‘soft girls’?
38:04 Sweden’s soft girl problem (as the world’s most gender equitable society)
44:54 Soft girls, the rise of stay-at-home girlfriends, and society’s devaluation of ‘women’s work’
52:53 Why are young women unhappy?
ADDITIONAL SOURCES *all primary sources are referenced on-screen
https://sweden.se/life/equality/gender-equality [Equal power and influence for women and men – that’s what Sweden is aiming for].
https://www.ungdomsbarometern.se/generation-alpha-sveriges-storsta-och-mest-kopkraftiga-generation/ [Generation Alpha: Sweden’s largest and most purchasing power generation?]
https://www.vogue.co.uk/article/girlboss-culture-is-dead [Yes, The Girlboss Is Dead – But Here’s Who’s Replaced Her]
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/may/18/womens-rights-happiness-wellbeing-gender-gap [Gains in women’s rights haven’t made women happier. Why is that?]
https://www.brookings.edu/articles/are-women-happier-than-men-do-gender-rights-make-a-difference/ [Are women happier than men? Do gender rights make a difference? By Carol Graham]
https://www.nber.org/papers/w29893 [The Female Happiness Paradox by David G. Blanchflower & Alex Bryson (2022)]
https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20221202-soft-girl-what-it-really-means-to-lead-a-soft-life [‘Soft Girl’: The radical trend millennials love]
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#softgirl #softgirlaesthetic #softgirlera #beyonce #beyoncé #arianagrande #tiktoktrend #feminism #feminineenergy #feminine #tradlife #tradwife #beducated #kidology SOFT GIRL ERA: The rise AND RISE of *soft girls* and hyper-femininity](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/X6ner1LTcYQ/mqdefault.jpg)
![Are DINKs the future?
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𝑻𝑰𝑴𝑬𝑺𝑻𝑨𝑴𝑷𝑺
0:00 Intro
1:01 The Rise of DINKs (What are DINKs and why are they trending?)
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7:53 DINK money (Becoming DINKs by choice or force)
11:04 DINK struggles (Why DINKs are becoming the inevitable norm)
𝑷𝑹𝑰𝑴𝑨𝑹𝒀 𝑺𝑶𝑼𝑹𝑪𝑬𝑺
→ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPXGeQ5ADfk (Is it worth having kids?)
→ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-11726367/Meet-DINKs-dual-income-no-kids-couples-raking-millions-TikTok-fans-lifestyle.html (Daily Mail)
→ https://time.com/6250834/dink-tiktok-double-income-no-kids/ (TIME)
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![2023: The Year of Anti-Woke?
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❖ TIMESTAMPS ❖
0:00 Salutations | Disclaimer
1:28 Your internet privacy is important
3:20 Why is anti-woke suddenly going mainstream?
12:20 Confirmation Bias
18:17 Why politics will never be a science
❖ SOURCES ❖
→ Howard Browns What Happened - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j4kW421N8O4
→ The entire Tár scene - https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/02/movies/lydia-tar-juilliard-conducting-scene.html
→ Konstantin Kisin | This House Believes Woke Has Gone Too Far - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJdqJu-6ZPo&t=3s
→ What Are We Doing to White People? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFpUjyM0orQ&t=38s
→ Sundance 2023 | Two with Amy Taubin (ep.157) - https://soundcloud.com/the-last-thing-i-saw-film/ep-157-sundance-2023-two-with-amy-taubin
→ Afua Hirsh full Guardian column - https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/sep/26/equality-woke-police-rightwing-minorities
→ Dr. Todd Grande analysis of Steven Crowder - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XP_kohzBZq8&t=2s
→ Atheists Are Sometimes More Religious Than Christians - https://www.theatlantic.com/international/archive/2018/05/american-atheists-religious-european-christians/560936/
→ Why Facts Dont Change Our Minds - https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/02/27/why-facts-dont-change-our-minds
→ The Knowledge Illusion: Why We Never Think Alone by Philip Fernbach and Steven Sloman
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![Marriage 1.0 — Has love destroyed marriage? | Monogamy in the digital age
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![How Our Pooping & Farting Taboos are Affecting Our Quality of Life
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16:22 Trapped farts | Social media & modern dating
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~further reading/information~
→ The Ladys Dressing Room by Jonathan Swift (1732) FULL POEM (https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/50579/the-ladys-dressing-room)
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~films referenced~
→ Call Me By Your Name (2017)
→ Bridesmaids (2011)
→ Along Came Polly (2004)
→ Pulp Fiction (1994)
→ White Chicks (2004)
→ Bones & All (2022)
→ The Human Centipede (2009)
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![SQUID GAME is about bureaucracy (not class) | ep.1 *no spoilers*
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Featured content:
Squid Game (오징어 게임) S1E1 (Red Light, Green Light)
Director: Hwang Dong-hyuk (황동혁)
Music:
An der schönen, blauen Donau, Op. 314 [By the Beautiful Blue Danube], or The Blue Danube
Composer: Johann Strauss II
Date of composition: 1866
Source: European Archives (public domain)
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![Intimacy illiteracy
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0:00 Salutations
3:15 A treat for Joshua Kregg
9:10 Music
14:53 Intimacy & self-awareness about being a “toxic” friend and partner
20:09 Seeking advice online through articles | Defining “Cosmopolitan” magazine | How shows, companies and society create anxiety around our s*x lives and intimacy levels
29:57 Commodifying our private lives | What is “sex” when there is no universal? | Extremes re. sex being sold as the norm or the goal
33:50 Which couples have the most s*x? (Cut) — reaction and commentary
1:44:37 BMJ (peer-reviewed medical journal) article on failings in s*x ed for young women | Shame and vulnerability in intimacy
2:05:30 Kidology out of context edit by @3asyp3asy and 2:08:28
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→ https://www.bmj.com/company/newsroom/doctors-reluctance-to-discuss-anal-sex-is-letting-down-young-women/ (Doctors reluctance to discuss a*al s*x is letting down young women)
→ Cosmopolitan...
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![Fat(PHOBIA): Feeling or Politik? | Cuts most controversial BLINDFOLDED SPEED DATE
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0:00 Salutations | Candace Owens for Halloween
9:51 Music
14:47 “Fat politics” introduced
17:11 “Politik” defined
20:02 What I don’t understand of the Fat Acceptance Movement
23:18 “Taylor Swift and the Word FAT” TikTok reaction
32:27 Personally, I don’t want to be fat
36:35 Fat as a feeling vs. Fat as a politik
42:45 Nietzsche, Ressentiment and Fat Politics | Fatphobia defined
56:23 Identity Politics: Minorities vs. majorities | Twitter’s take on Taylor Swift and Fatphobia
1:03:43 “Fat” as contextually determined | The rise of young girls going through puberty globally in relation to weight gain, obesity, and [modern] stress
1:10:09 Conflating fatphobia with r*c*sm and h*m*ph*bia
1:14:30 Cut – “Blindfolded People Go Speed Dating” | The ambiguous ethics of Cut
1:58:19 [Stereo]Types of gym bodies
2:00:24 Yoga and “queefing” | Q: Can men queef?
2:14:39 Looks matter | “Looks matter in terms of attraction, but you need more for retention.” (Ory)
2:21:38 Evolving [dating] preferences
2:23:50 Thor: Part 1 update | Women fearing rejection
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→ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRL7IMSB_ko [Dear Fat People: Taylor Swift Is Not Fatphobic by @PaigeChristieUK ]
→ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0MKA_04bEnY [Rythm 0 - The Psychological Experiment by @Cup Of Psych ]
→ https://www.newyorker.com/science/annals-of-medicine/why-more-and-more-girls-are-hitting-puberty-early [Why More and More Girls Are Hitting P*berty Earlier by Jessica Winter]
→ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5201160/ [Stigma in Practice: Barriers to Health for Fat Women by Jennifer A. Lee and Cat J. Pausé]
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