Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 weeks ago
Hakeem Bourne McFarlane on why men fear commitment and abandonment at the same time — and what that does to how they touch people. This conversation goes at the part his other interviews leave out. Before he met the woman he now calls his internal compass, he spent four years with no dating apps, no porn, and nothing sexually explicit on his feed. What does childhood grief have to do with who a man reaches for, and how? What makes a man and a woman devotional?
Hakeem is the founder of the Choose Yourself Movement and the author of Choose Yourself To Be Chosen. He came to Skin and Soul™ because he thinks his work has to survive contact with sex, and it has never been tested there. He says a man penetrates a woman the way he penetrates the world. Let's start there.
Skin and Soul™: Beyond the Pale with Gwenm A. Carsley — the full conversation and the verbatim transcript live at gwenmcarsley.com/skin-and-soul-podcast.
GUEST: Hakeem Bourne McFarlane
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HOST: Gwenm A. Carsley
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Hakeem Bourne McFarlane on why men fear commitment and abandonment at the same time — and what that does to how they touch people. This conversation goes at the part his other interviews leave out. Before he met the woman he now calls his internal compass, he spent four years with no dating apps, no porn, and nothing sexually explicit on his feed. What does childhood grief have to do with who a man reaches for, and how? What makes a man and a woman devotional?
Hakeem is the founder of the Choose Yourself Movement and the author of Choose Yourself To Be Chosen. He came to Skin and Soul™ because he thinks his work has to survive contact with sex, and it has never been tested there. He says a man penetrates a woman the way he penetrates the world. Let's start there.
Skin and Soul™: Beyond the Pale with Gwenm A. Carsley — the full conversation and the verbatim transcript live at gwenmcarsley.com/skin-and-soul-podcast.
GUEST: Hakeem Bourne McFarlane
chooseyourself.info
facebook.com/keem.dreeam
instagram.com/bigdreamhakeem/?hl=en
tiktok.com/@bigdreamhakeem
youtube.com/@ChooseYourselfChannel
HOST: Gwenm A. Carsley
gwenmcarsley.com
instagram.com/gwenmcarsley
instgram.com/loovology
gwenmcarsleyofficial.com
🚀 Streaming video and Podcasts:
Catch our live shows streaming video and find edited episodes archived on our website. Can't be there in real-time? Subscribe at ttrnetwork.com and take the transformative journey with you wherever you go.
#transformation #empowerment #personalgrowth #inspiration #wellness #mindfulness #positivechange #globalperspectivices #lifetransformation #consciousliving #spiritualawakening #holistichealth #podcasts
