The Esther Perel Love Lexicon @onbeing
The Esther Perel Love Lexicon  @onbeing
Uploaded December 2019 | Updated September 2026, 22 minutes ago
Esther Perel is a therapist who has changed our discourse about sexuality and coupledom. Her wisdom often shines through the language she uses to navigate the human theater of love and relationships. We collaborated with Carissa Potter from People I’ve Loved to compile an illustrated lexicon of some of the terms she uses in her On Being interview, from “erotic intelligence” to “play.”

Delve more deeply into Esther Perel's wisdom in her 2019 On Being conversation with Krista, “The Erotic Is an Antidote to Death.”

—Listen on YouTube: youtu.be/FIO5jmDw7Rg?si=z4r60L7n6efNyw0l
—Listen at On Being: onbeing.org/programs/esther-perel-the-erotic-is-an-antidote-to-death

Illustration by: Carissa Potter, People I’ve Loved peopleiveloved.com

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