Hannah Witton | The Difference Between Rough Sex and Sexual Violence @hannahwitton | Uploaded April 2022 | Updated October 2024, 3 days ago.
We’ve got a more serious topic today: we’re going to talk about consent, sexual violence, and a little bit of BDSM. We're exploring the recent normalisation of rough sex - and the difference between CONSENSUAL rough sex and sexual violence ✨ (CW: sexual assault, sexual violence and murder: take care of yourselves when watching)
Rough: How Violence Has Found Its Way Into the Bedroom and What We Can Do About It by Rachel Thompson*: uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781529110388
BISH: bishuk.com
SIMMER: bextalkssex.com/simmer#
RESOURCES FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED SEXUAL VIOLENCE
- Galop: domestic abuse and sexual violence support service for LGBT+ people.
Helpline: 0800 999 5428 (Monday-Friday, 10am-5pm / Wednesday & Thursday, 10am-8pm). Website: galop.org.uk
- The National Domestic Abuse Helpline, run by Refuge Free and confidential helpline.
Phone: 0808 2000 247 (24 hours a day)
- Survivors UK – Male Rape and Sexual Abuse Support: A range of support options to help those who identify as men recover from experiences of sexual abuse or rape.
National Helpline: 0845 122 1201
Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org.
Webchat available Monday-Sunday 12:00 - 20:00
BDSM RESOURCES
Kink Academy: kinkacademy.com
The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy*: uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781890159368
The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy*: uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781890159351
Loving BDSM: youtube.com/lovingbdsm
BDSM online workshops by Bex Caputo - bextalkssex.com/workshops
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Intro
01:30 – What is BDSM?
02:37 – Normalisation of rough sex
04:41 – Needing to be “up for it”
05:43 – It’s not consent if you don’t feel like you can say no
08:43 – Communication, negotiation, and aftercare
10:34 – Wrap-up
SIMILAR VIDEOS
Why 'Enthusiastic Consent' Doesn't Work For Everyone | Models of Sexual Consent: youtu.be/UreZfOT54Bw
What Kinks Do I Like? 🍭 | BDSM Test: youtu.be/UFjIhspamNw
Rough Sex Defence, Animal Crossing Sex Workers and JK Rowling’s Transphobia: youtu.be/puGLlLNniUA
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Doing It: bit.ly/DoingItBook
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🎥VIDEO EQUIPMENT*🎥
Main camera - Canon 80d: bit.ly/HannahsMainCamera
Lens - Sigma 18-35mm f1.8: bit.ly/HannahsLens
Microphone - H4n Zoom: bit.ly/HannahsMicrophone
Vlog camera - Sony Sony ZV-1: bit.ly/HannahsNewVlogCamera
Twitch camera - bit.ly/HannahsTwitchCamera
🎙PODCAST EQUIPMENT*🎙
Microphone - Samson Q2U: bit.ly/HannahsPodcastMicrophone
Recorder - H6n Zoom: bit.ly/HannahsPodcastRecorder
*Affiliate links
#HannahWitton
We’ve got a more serious topic today: we’re going to talk about consent, sexual violence, and a little bit of BDSM. We're exploring the recent normalisation of rough sex - and the difference between CONSENSUAL rough sex and sexual violence ✨ (CW: sexual assault, sexual violence and murder: take care of yourselves when watching)
Rough: How Violence Has Found Its Way Into the Bedroom and What We Can Do About It by Rachel Thompson*: uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781529110388
BISH: bishuk.com
SIMMER: bextalkssex.com/simmer#
RESOURCES FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED SEXUAL VIOLENCE
- Galop: domestic abuse and sexual violence support service for LGBT+ people.
Helpline: 0800 999 5428 (Monday-Friday, 10am-5pm / Wednesday & Thursday, 10am-8pm). Website: galop.org.uk
- The National Domestic Abuse Helpline, run by Refuge Free and confidential helpline.
Phone: 0808 2000 247 (24 hours a day)
- Survivors UK – Male Rape and Sexual Abuse Support: A range of support options to help those who identify as men recover from experiences of sexual abuse or rape.
National Helpline: 0845 122 1201
Website: https://www.survivorsuk.org.
Webchat available Monday-Sunday 12:00 - 20:00
BDSM RESOURCES
Kink Academy: kinkacademy.com
The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy*: uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781890159368
The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy*: uk.bookshop.org/a/689/9781890159351
Loving BDSM: youtube.com/lovingbdsm
BDSM online workshops by Bex Caputo - bextalkssex.com/workshops
CHAPTERS:
00:00 – Intro
01:30 – What is BDSM?
02:37 – Normalisation of rough sex
04:41 – Needing to be “up for it”
05:43 – It’s not consent if you don’t feel like you can say no
08:43 – Communication, negotiation, and aftercare
10:34 – Wrap-up
SIMILAR VIDEOS
Why 'Enthusiastic Consent' Doesn't Work For Everyone | Models of Sexual Consent: youtu.be/UreZfOT54Bw
What Kinks Do I Like? 🍭 | BDSM Test: youtu.be/UFjIhspamNw
Rough Sex Defence, Animal Crossing Sex Workers and JK Rowling’s Transphobia: youtu.be/puGLlLNniUA
💥MY CULTURE, LIFESTYLE & CAREER YOUTUBE CHANNEL💥
Subscribe: youtube.com/morehannah?sub_confirmation=1
✨WANT TO SUPPORT ME AND MY WORK?✨
Join The Common Room on Patreon! patreon.com/hannahwitton
📚MY BOOKS*📚
The Hormone Diaries: bit.ly/TheHormoneDiariesBook
Doing It: bit.ly/DoingItBook
Want to be the first to know about new projects & exclusive content?
📝SIGN UP TO MY NEWSLETTER📝
bit.ly/HannahWittonsNewsletter
🌻LET’S CONNECT🌻
Instagram: instagram.com/hannahwitton
Twitter: twitter.com/hannahwitton
Facebook: facebook.com/hannahwittonofficial
🎧LISTEN TO MY PODCAST🎧
pod.link/1464870183
💕JOIN THE HORMONE DIARIES COMMUNITY 💕
facebook.com/groups/451313315614742
💛MY WEBSITE💛
hannahwitton.com
🎮WATCH ME PLAY GAMES🎮
twitch.tv/hannahwitton
⭐CAPTIONS BY REV*⭐
rev.com/services?ref=hannahwitton
🎶MUSIC FOR YOUTUBE VIDEOS* 🎶
share.epidemicsound.com/hannah
🎥VIDEO EQUIPMENT*🎥
Main camera - Canon 80d: bit.ly/HannahsMainCamera
Lens - Sigma 18-35mm f1.8: bit.ly/HannahsLens
Microphone - H4n Zoom: bit.ly/HannahsMicrophone
Vlog camera - Sony Sony ZV-1: bit.ly/HannahsNewVlogCamera
Twitch camera - bit.ly/HannahsTwitchCamera
🎙PODCAST EQUIPMENT*🎙
Microphone - Samson Q2U: bit.ly/HannahsPodcastMicrophone
Recorder - H6n Zoom: bit.ly/HannahsPodcastRecorder
*Affiliate links
#HannahWitton
