The Danger of Being the Perfect Employee | Work and Complex Trauma - Part 1/7 @TimFletcher
The Danger of Being the Perfect Employee | Work and Complex Trauma - Part 1/7  @TimFletcher
Uploaded August 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
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00:00 Introduction: The Unique Challenges of Work & CPTSD
01:45 Why Work Often Triggers Regression in Recovery
02:55 Can Trauma Survivors Be Good Employees?
03:45 Using the 90 Characteristics of CPTSD to Analyze Work
04:37 The "Ideal Employee" Trap: Why Survival Tools Look Like Work Ethic
05:53 The Unknown Danger: Why a New Job Triggers the Survival Brain
07:51 Navigating Unsafe Work Environments vs. Family of Origin
08:22 Default Settings: Sliding Back into a Sympathetic State
09:45 Mis-Trained Conscience: The Burden of "Productivity at All Costs"
10:52 Codependency as Love: Sacrificing Your Needs for the Job
11:45 The Fawning Strategy: Why We Shapeshift for Authority
13:38 The Cost of Fawning: Building Resentment Toward Your Boss
14:52 How-To: Setting Boundaries and Priorities on Day One
16:32 Conclusion: Integrating Work into a Healthy Recover

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