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THE 'CON' IN CONVERSION THERAPY BANS…
Dear marriage supporter,
The Government appears determined to press ahead with a sweeping ban on so‑called ‘conversion therapy’ (The Guardian). Such a wide‑ranging measure should chill anyone who upholds lifelong, man‑woman marriage as the gold standard for family life. To understand why such a law harms free speech and, more importantly, the very people it claims to protect, I spoke with Andrew Rodriguez, a licensed professional counsellor from Pennsylvania who trains other counsellors in reintegrative trauma care. Watch the full interview here.
Far from safeguarding vulnerable people, a blanket ban would instead withhold the very help many actively seek.
Rodriguez explains how similar bans in parts of the United States silence legitimate therapy: “activists have wiped out the competition so that the only approach that's really approved is the state‑sponsored approach of affirmation only”. He notes the chilling effect on clients who simply wish to address unwanted feelings in line with their own goals.
He stresses that “good therapy … is helping people gain insight and healing”. Reintegrative therapy explores underlying trauma, anxiety or unmet needs; changes in attraction follow only if clients want them. This client‑led focus, he argues, is the very opposite of coercion.
Rodriguez rejects modern identity labels: “there is no such thing as a sexual orientation”. He says true sexual identity rests on biological sex, and that marriage — a lifelong, monogamous union of a man and a woman — best coheres with human biology and children’s welfare.
At C4M we champion the freedom to pursue real, evidence‑based help that honours man‑woman marriage. We call on ministers to rethink any Bill that would deny adults the therapeutic choices they freely desire.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage
THE 'CON' IN CONVERSION THERAPY BANS…
Dear marriage supporter,
The Government appears determined to press ahead with a sweeping ban on so‑called ‘conversion therapy’ (The Guardian). Such a wide‑ranging measure should chill anyone who upholds lifelong, man‑woman marriage as the gold standard for family life. To understand why such a law harms free speech and, more importantly, the very people it claims to protect, I spoke with Andrew Rodriguez, a licensed professional counsellor from Pennsylvania who trains other counsellors in reintegrative trauma care. Watch the full interview here.
Far from safeguarding vulnerable people, a blanket ban would instead withhold the very help many actively seek.
Rodriguez explains how similar bans in parts of the United States silence legitimate therapy: “activists have wiped out the competition so that the only approach that's really approved is the state‑sponsored approach of affirmation only”. He notes the chilling effect on clients who simply wish to address unwanted feelings in line with their own goals.
He stresses that “good therapy … is helping people gain insight and healing”. Reintegrative therapy explores underlying trauma, anxiety or unmet needs; changes in attraction follow only if clients want them. This client‑led focus, he argues, is the very opposite of coercion.
Rodriguez rejects modern identity labels: “there is no such thing as a sexual orientation”. He says true sexual identity rests on biological sex, and that marriage — a lifelong, monogamous union of a man and a woman — best coheres with human biology and children’s welfare.
At C4M we champion the freedom to pursue real, evidence‑based help that honours man‑woman marriage. We call on ministers to rethink any Bill that would deny adults the therapeutic choices they freely desire.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so via the donate button at c4m.org.uk
Dr Tony Rucinski
facebook.com/coalition4marriage



![Africa defies Western assault on family values Judy Green interview with Tony Rucinski
AFRICA DEFIES WESTERN ASSAULT ON FAMILY VALUES
Dear marriage supporter,
I recently had the privilege of interviewing Judy Green, an advocate for traditional marriage values in East Africa.
In our discussion, Judy shared her deep concerns about the subtle imposition of liberal Western ideologies on African societies through the aid provided by Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs). These NGOs often come, Judy says, bearing “money with strings attached”, with the ‘strings’ being the propagation of non-traditional views around marriage, sex, and gender. These values, Judy tells me, are in stark contrast with Africa’s largely conservative culture. You can listen to our conversation here:
Judy emphasises the importance of protecting Africa’s respect for family and traditional values from these external influences. She explained the shock and disapproval many Africans feel towards liberal concepts being introduced by the West.
Central to our discussion was the crucial role of education in shaping future generations. Judy warns about the shaping of young, impressionable minds, saying, “whatever you input in there is what is going to come out later in life”, highlighting the need for a curriculum that reinforces the sanctity of traditional marriage and family values. She also expressed the need to remain vigilant, advising parents to “check [their] children’s homework” to ensure alignment with their cultural and moral beliefs.
Despite these challenges, Judy remains hopeful and focused on the path ahead. She sees the power of individual voices in this battle, saying, “when you speak out … your voice is important”. Her message is a call to action for us all, to protect the sanctity of man-woman marriage.
C4M recognises that ideological challenges to traditional concepts of marriage, monogamy and gender are not confined to the UK alone. As Judy and numerous others have advocated, remaining vigilant and speaking out when necessary are crucial steps in this fight. By ensuring our children are educated about the authentic benefits of real marriage, we can confidently look forward to a future where these values triumph.
If you would like to support us financially, you can do so using the Donate button on our website at http://www.c4m.org.uk
Tony Rucinski
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