Uploaded September 2026 | Updated September 2026, 3 hours ago
“Things change. And friends leave. And life doesn’t stop for anybody.” – Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower (1999)
Did the coming-of-age movie lie to us? I dive into the films that explore what happens with life beyond your typical teen movie optimism, and how the whole genre seems to have aged up with time.
🕦TIMESTAMPS:🕝
0:00 - Intro
2:53 - "Emerging adulthood"
4:48 - Clueless (1995) and the teen movie template
6:46 - Frances Ha (2012) was just like me fr
12:29 - The Graduate (1967) and post-college cynicism
17:49 - Inside Llewyn Davis (2013) and the trappings of adulthood
22:43 - Millennial irony and the death of sincerity
30:52 - What does "coming-of-age" mean today?
🐱FOLLOW ME ON IG: instagram.com/anaisabelcosplays 🐈
🎸LISTEN TO CHEEKFACE'S ALBUM "PODIUM": open.spotify.com/album/4rJLfcbd5rmXOr6muEBKtM
Songs used: "Black Site" (intro) and "No Fly Zone" (outro)
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Australian copyright law on “Fair Dealing”:
https://www.copyright.org.au/acc_prod/acc/Information_Sheets/Fair_Dealing__What_Can_I_Use_Without_Permission.aspx
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🎬 Movies Used: 🎬
Clueless (1995), directed by Amy Heckerling.
Distributed by Paramount Pictures.
Frances Ha (2012), directed by Noah Baumbach.
Distributed by IFC Films.
The Graduate (1967), directed by Mike Nichols.
Distributed by Embassy Pictures (US), United Pictures (International).
Inside Llewyn Davis (2013), directed by Joel and Ethan Coen.
Distributed by CBS Films (United States), StudioCanal (United Kingdom and France).
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📄Main Sources Used: 📄
Millennials in Adulthood (Pew Research)
pewresearch.org/social-trends/2014/03/07/millennials-in-adulthood
What is Emerging Adulthood (University of New Hampshire)
https://www.unh.edu/pacs/emerging-adulthood
Frances Ha is All Grown Up (Olivia Rutigliano, Literary Hub)
lithub.com/frances-ha-is-all-grown-up
When ‘The Graduate’ Opened 50 Years Ago, It Changed Hollywood (and America) Forever (Smithsonian Magazine)
smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/graduate-opened-50-years-ago-changed-hollywood-forever-180967222
Why Do We Love “The Graduate”? (Jacob R. Brackman, The New Yorker)
newyorker.com/magazine/1968/07/27/the-graduate
It’s 2026. Are Millennials Having (Another) Moment? (Josiah Gogarty, GQ Magazine)
gq.com/story/its-2026-are-millennials-having-another-moment
Green screen overlays (credits) 🎞️
@JillianNoreen @HeyitsFaith @ximenaromero564 @SalmaSophis
Music from Epidemic Sound.
↓tags tags tags feel free to ignore↓
Coming of age, teen movies, high school, clueless, frances ha, inside llewyn davis, the graduate, emerging adulthood, millennials, quarter life crisis
“Things change. And friends leave. And life doesn’t stop for anybody.” – Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower (1999)
Did the coming-of-age movie lie to us? I dive into the films that explore what happens with life beyond your typical teen movie optimism, and how the whole genre seems to have aged up with time.
🕦TIMESTAMPS:🕝
0:00 - Intro
2:53 - "Emerging adulthood"
4:48 - Clueless (1995) and the teen movie template
6:46 - Frances Ha (2012) was just like me fr
12:29 - The Graduate (1967) and post-college cynicism
17:49 - Inside Llewyn Davis (2013) and the trappings of adulthood
22:43 - Millennial irony and the death of sincerity
30:52 - What does "coming-of-age" mean today?
🐱FOLLOW ME ON IG: instagram.com/anaisabelcosplays 🐈
🎸LISTEN TO CHEEKFACE'S ALBUM "PODIUM": open.spotify.com/album/4rJLfcbd5rmXOr6muEBKtM
Songs used: "Black Site" (intro) and "No Fly Zone" (outro)
-
All third-party clips and images are Fair Use/Fair Dealing under copyright law (transformative under criticism/review/commentary/news reporting).
Australian copyright law on “Fair Dealing”:
https://www.copyright.org.au/acc_prod/acc/Information_Sheets/Fair_Dealing__What_Can_I_Use_Without_Permission.aspx
US copyright law on "Fair Use":
copyright.gov/fair-use/more-info.html
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🎬 Movies Used: 🎬
Clueless (1995), directed by Amy Heckerling.
Distributed by Paramount Pictures.
Frances Ha (2012), directed by Noah Baumbach.
Distributed by IFC Films.
The Graduate (1967), directed by Mike Nichols.
Distributed by Embassy Pictures (US), United Pictures (International).
Inside Llewyn Davis (2013), directed by Joel and Ethan Coen.
Distributed by CBS Films (United States), StudioCanal (United Kingdom and France).
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📄Main Sources Used: 📄
Millennials in Adulthood (Pew Research)
pewresearch.org/social-trends/2014/03/07/millennials-in-adulthood
What is Emerging Adulthood (University of New Hampshire)
https://www.unh.edu/pacs/emerging-adulthood
Frances Ha is All Grown Up (Olivia Rutigliano, Literary Hub)
lithub.com/frances-ha-is-all-grown-up
When ‘The Graduate’ Opened 50 Years Ago, It Changed Hollywood (and America) Forever (Smithsonian Magazine)
smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/graduate-opened-50-years-ago-changed-hollywood-forever-180967222
Why Do We Love “The Graduate”? (Jacob R. Brackman, The New Yorker)
newyorker.com/magazine/1968/07/27/the-graduate
It’s 2026. Are Millennials Having (Another) Moment? (Josiah Gogarty, GQ Magazine)
gq.com/story/its-2026-are-millennials-having-another-moment
Green screen overlays (credits) 🎞️
@JillianNoreen @HeyitsFaith @ximenaromero564 @SalmaSophis
Music from Epidemic Sound.
↓tags tags tags feel free to ignore↓
Coming of age, teen movies, high school, clueless, frances ha, inside llewyn davis, the graduate, emerging adulthood, millennials, quarter life crisis
