Uploaded December 2023 | Updated September 2026, 9 hours ago
Five years since launching That Stagey Blog, I have decided to filially and officially lower the curtain.
I am incredibly proud of what I created, and grateful to everyone who helped and supported me.
But gradually I have begun to find other interests. And although theatre will always hold a special place in my heart, there are other areas of my life that I wish to focus on.
Although this is the end of That Stagey Blog, I still intend to document my life across social media, creating content as an activist, and a gay man living with HIV.
I welcome you and hope you will follow my journey.
FOLLOW ME
@philipdehany
🎭 Blog
http://www.iamthat.uk
📸 Instagram
instagram.com/philipdehany
🐦 Twitter
twitter.com/philipdehany
⏰ TikTok
tiktok.com/@philipdehany
📖 Facebook
facebook.com/philipdehany
📧 Email
Philip@imthat.uk
This Christmas I will continue to support the Food Chain, as a volunteer.
I will be driving across London to collect people who are living with HIV and would otherwise be spending Christmas Day alone, and bringing them to the Food Chain where they will be given Christmas Dinner and a gift.
£5 will help pay for one meal, and £50 will help pay for a hire car for the day, so please give what you can.
The Food Chain, is an incredible charity that supported me for the past three months during a crisis that I suffered in relation to being stalked and outed as HIV+ online.
Based at Positive East in Stepney Green, The Food Chain provide a safe space to welcome people living and struggling with HIV.
I am raising money to help The Food Chain to keep their services going - delivering groceries, serving hot meals and providing specialist advice and guidance.
The Food Chain is critically under funded, and fundraising is vital to help. With winter and Christmas approaching, the needs of the HIV community increase.
Any donations you can offer, no matter the amount, would be hugely valued.
Just £10 pays for two tailored meals at our Eating Together service. £50 buys one grocery delivery for someone who is unable to shop or can’t afford to eat the appropriate food necessary to live well. And £100 buys enough formula milk for a parent living with HIV to feed their baby for 2 months.
For three months, I attended The Food Chain’s Eating Together lunches on Wednesdays and Saturdays. I was given a freshly cooked nutritious meal, and welcomed to join and meet other people living with HIV.
The experience was eye opening. I have gained a much greater insight into the struggles that other people living with HIV face, and I really want to do more to help.
Please give whatever you can, your donations really do make a difference.
Please click here to donate:
justgiving.com/page/philip-dehany-the-food-chain
Five years since launching That Stagey Blog, I have decided to filially and officially lower the curtain.
I am incredibly proud of what I created, and grateful to everyone who helped and supported me.
But gradually I have begun to find other interests. And although theatre will always hold a special place in my heart, there are other areas of my life that I wish to focus on.
Although this is the end of That Stagey Blog, I still intend to document my life across social media, creating content as an activist, and a gay man living with HIV.
I welcome you and hope you will follow my journey.
FOLLOW ME
@philipdehany
🎭 Blog
http://www.iamthat.uk
instagram.com/philipdehany
twitter.com/philipdehany
⏰ TikTok
tiktok.com/@philipdehany
facebook.com/philipdehany
Philip@imthat.uk
This Christmas I will continue to support the Food Chain, as a volunteer.
I will be driving across London to collect people who are living with HIV and would otherwise be spending Christmas Day alone, and bringing them to the Food Chain where they will be given Christmas Dinner and a gift.
£5 will help pay for one meal, and £50 will help pay for a hire car for the day, so please give what you can.
The Food Chain, is an incredible charity that supported me for the past three months during a crisis that I suffered in relation to being stalked and outed as HIV+ online.
Based at Positive East in Stepney Green, The Food Chain provide a safe space to welcome people living and struggling with HIV.
I am raising money to help The Food Chain to keep their services going - delivering groceries, serving hot meals and providing specialist advice and guidance.
The Food Chain is critically under funded, and fundraising is vital to help. With winter and Christmas approaching, the needs of the HIV community increase.
Any donations you can offer, no matter the amount, would be hugely valued.
Just £10 pays for two tailored meals at our Eating Together service. £50 buys one grocery delivery for someone who is unable to shop or can’t afford to eat the appropriate food necessary to live well. And £100 buys enough formula milk for a parent living with HIV to feed their baby for 2 months.
For three months, I attended The Food Chain’s Eating Together lunches on Wednesdays and Saturdays. I was given a freshly cooked nutritious meal, and welcomed to join and meet other people living with HIV.
The experience was eye opening. I have gained a much greater insight into the struggles that other people living with HIV face, and I really want to do more to help.
Please give whatever you can, your donations really do make a difference.
Please click here to donate:
justgiving.com/page/philip-dehany-the-food-chain


![Alex Belfield lied about me, and his fans are still spreading his lies. Help me to clear my name.
#AlexBelfield #VoiceofReason #BBCPresenterScandal
[*I apoligise for the sound issues in this video]
I am Philip Dehany, one of the several victims who were stalked by former BBC presenter Alex Belfield, which led to him being jailed for five and a half years.
During the course of harassment, Belfield made over 30 videos about me that he posted on YouTube. They contained lies and false allegations that his fans now continue to spread.
Despite being jailed and have restraining orders imposed on him, Belfield continues to write to people to slander me, and incites them to continue to harass me, and write lies about me.
This is why I am taking legal action against Alex Belfield, to clear my name.
Belfield has already settled Jeremy Vine’s claim for defamation admitting that “Mr Belfield never had any basis at all to make the false allegations of dishonesty against Mr Vine.”
Belfield also stated “the defamatory and seriously harmful allegations of dishonesty which he made against the Claimant are entirely false.”
In the criminal trial against Belfield was found guilty of making “wholly false allegations”.
My Story:
I was one of the several victims attacked and harassed by Alex Belfield, because of my sexuality.
I spoke out about him to combat homophobia and am now trying to raise £15,000 to seek acknowledgment, an apology and damages.
I have already paid over £5,500 in legal fees, and now need to continue to raise £15,000 to pay for the Particulars of Claim.
If you are able to continue to support me, by sharing my story, thank you.
I am raising money through Crowd Justice. All the money raised will go directly to Samuel Solicitors.
https://www.crowdjustice.com/case/help-stop-ex-bbc-presenter-alex-belfield/
Who I Am:
I am Philip Dehany and I need your help. I was a theatre blogger and am now a volunteer for the Terrence Higgins Trust.
I am one of the several victims who were harassed by former BBC presenter Alex Belfield, which led to him being jailed for five and a half years. After his trial concluded, but before he was sentenced, Belfield publicly revealed information about my HIV status. I am now claiming compensation from him in the civil courts, under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997.
Belfield’s awful campaign of harassment against me, (much of which was directed at my sexuality) continued even during and after his trial. He constantly published harassing videos about me and others, and made a lot of money from YouTube advertising revenue and by asking for donations from his followers.
The impact upon me has been huge - my reputation has been seriously damaged and I lost my passion, confidence and ultimately my income as a theatre blogger. I am now seeking therapy.
Unless Belfield agrees to settle with me, which seems very unlikely, I will have no choice but to issue court proceedings against him and my costs to take the matter all the way to trial could reach £100,000.
Although being convicted for stalking and settling a defamation claim with Jeremy Vine, Belfield still refuses to acknowledge the damage he causes to me.
Please help me to raise legal fees to claim compensation from ex BBC presenter Alex Belfield who harassed and stalked me, and then threatened “he’d be back”.
Read my blog:
ALEX BELFIELD: The Truth, The Whole Truth, and Nothing But The Truth
https://www.iamthat.uk/post/alex-belfield-the-truth-the-whole-truth-and-nothing-but-the-truth
I will be continue to update this article with evidence until this case is resolved.
Further reading
These are the sentencing remarks from the case ‘R v Belfield’ detailing the full case:
https://www.judiciary.uk/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/R-v-Belfield-sentencing-160922.pdf
This article was published in The Guardian including an interview I did with Helen Pidd.
https://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/oct/12/alex-belfield-jeremy-vine-stalker-bbc-presenter-jail-harassment
This article was published in the Guardian after Belfield was sentenced.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/sep/16/former-bbc-dj-alex-belfield-jailed-for-stalking-jeremy-vine-and-others
This article was published in the Guardian after Belfield was found guilty.
https://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/aug/05/ex-bbc-dj-alex-belfield-found-guilty-of-stalking-jeremy-vine-and-others
SUNDAY MIRROR EXCLUSIVE: JeremyVine’s incredible gesture for fellow victims of ex-BBC DJ stalker
Read the article online:
https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/jeremy-vines-incredible-gesture-fellow-30584215
Watch more videos about my case here:
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFIBC_TD2-OYaozoIjnzdp3L1GimsAgH1 Alex Belfield lied about me, and his fans are still spreading his lies. Help me to clear my name.](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/LhAkAh9fn2w/mqdefault.jpg)







