Uploaded June 2025 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
The masculine way to help boys process anger isn’t by silencing them—it’s by helping them understand what they’re really carrying. What looks like “bad behavior” is often buried pain. In this powerful moment at the Cave of Adullam, one of my students opens up about being bullied—and finally learns the truth about anger. It’s not just rage. It’s sadness. Hurt. Powerlessness. And when left unprocessed, it destroys futures. I pray this moment will not only teach parents and adults how to help their children process anger but also, themselves.
Timestamps
0:00 – When Anger Becomes a Threat
0:42 – “You Don’t Want That”: The Warning Most Boys Never Hear
1:21 – What Are You Really Angry About?
2:00 – Sadness or Strength? Teaching Boys to Go Deeper
2:52 – “No Such Thing As Pure Anger”
3:31 – The Weight of Anger: A Physical Exercise That Teaches Release
4:40 – His Story Comes Out: “I’m Still Being Bullied”
5:18 – The Hidden Cost of Holding It In
6:03 – Teaching Self-Control, Not Suppression
6:47 – “Words Do Hurt”: Why Verbal Bullying Leaves Scars
7:32 – Real Defense: Physical and Emotional Empowerment
8:08 – “You Don’t Have to Deal with This Alone”
The masculine way to help boys process anger isn’t by silencing them—it’s by helping them understand what they’re really carrying. What looks like “bad behavior” is often buried pain. In this powerful moment at the Cave of Adullam, one of my students opens up about being bullied—and finally learns the truth about anger. It’s not just rage. It’s sadness. Hurt. Powerlessness. And when left unprocessed, it destroys futures. I pray this moment will not only teach parents and adults how to help their children process anger but also, themselves.
Timestamps
0:00 – When Anger Becomes a Threat
0:42 – “You Don’t Want That”: The Warning Most Boys Never Hear
1:21 – What Are You Really Angry About?
2:00 – Sadness or Strength? Teaching Boys to Go Deeper
2:52 – “No Such Thing As Pure Anger”
3:31 – The Weight of Anger: A Physical Exercise That Teaches Release
4:40 – His Story Comes Out: “I’m Still Being Bullied”
5:18 – The Hidden Cost of Holding It In
6:03 – Teaching Self-Control, Not Suppression
6:47 – “Words Do Hurt”: Why Verbal Bullying Leaves Scars
7:32 – Real Defense: Physical and Emotional Empowerment
8:08 – “You Don’t Have to Deal with This Alone”
