Uploaded April 2026 | Updated September 2026, 2 weeks ago
Most women think being 'available' is how you keep a man, but true Feminine Energy works through magnetism, not effort. If you are always there, he has nothing to miss. In this video, I’m teaching you how to use the 'Distance Fix' to stop the people-pleasing cycle and start attracting the commitment you actually want.
In today’s episode, I’m teaching you the counter-intuitive feminine energy secret that forces a man to recognize your true worth. The whole concept is that you must strategically pull back your energy. Stop making yourself so accessible to men who are giving you low effort.
The idea is simple: Distance creates mystery, and mystery pulls him in.
By prioritizing your own life over his schedule, you create the healthy space needed for him to miss you, reflect on your value, and decide to show up and give you exactly what you want. Learn how to let distance reveal his true intentions and ultimately attract the relationship you deserve.
Stop chasing and start being pursued.
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About MJ Harris:
Malcolm “MJ” Harris is the best selling author who helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris family of comapnies, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
#FeminineEnergy #MakeHimChase #SelfWorth #MJHarris
Most women think being 'available' is how you keep a man, but true Feminine Energy works through magnetism, not effort. If you are always there, he has nothing to miss. In this video, I’m teaching you how to use the 'Distance Fix' to stop the people-pleasing cycle and start attracting the commitment you actually want.
In today’s episode, I’m teaching you the counter-intuitive feminine energy secret that forces a man to recognize your true worth. The whole concept is that you must strategically pull back your energy. Stop making yourself so accessible to men who are giving you low effort.
The idea is simple: Distance creates mystery, and mystery pulls him in.
By prioritizing your own life over his schedule, you create the healthy space needed for him to miss you, reflect on your value, and decide to show up and give you exactly what you want. Learn how to let distance reveal his true intentions and ultimately attract the relationship you deserve.
Stop chasing and start being pursued.
Schedule a PRIVATE Coaching Call With MJ: calendly.com/mjharrisspeaks
Get MJ's New Book: mjharrisspeaks.com/book/get-the-fck-out-your-own-way
Get Affordable Life Insurance imalilife.com
Join MJ's Team (Learn to Sell Insurance): imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in
Subscribe: bit.ly/3eUvcMz | Website: mjharrisspeaks.com
Watch the newest videos: youtube.com/playlist?v=GtYW-VU63Rk&list=PL2GP17BeNlBgMbRPDVgUoCp7vJzZsOJeq&index=2&playnext=1
Follow MJ Harris
Facebook: facebook.com/MJHarrisSpeaks
Twitter: twitter.com/MJHarrisSpeaks
Instagram: instagram.com/mjharrisspeaks
Make More Money By Joining MJ’s Insurance Team: imalilife.com/i-want-to-sell-insurance-opt-in
Watch more videos!
Relationship and Dating Advice: youtube.com/playlist?v=_0Y5raZbfGM&list=PL2GP17BeNlBjCzQoQDepyIpeb8Ofponwk&playnext =1
Financial Tips: youtube.com/playlist?list=PL2GP17BeNlBidh6QW_pImFkz_LTA7zAAH&playnext=1 Life With MJ: youtube.com/playlist?v=s5GRxjj0IQg&list=PL2GP17BeNlBisvlYkKjhzeEjPtSDo0a9y&playnext=1 Most Popular: youtube.com/playlist?v=GtYW-VU63Rk&list=PL2GP17BeNlBj811sEVvvYcHU2s30__Lh-&playnext=1
About MJ Harris:
Malcolm “MJ” Harris is the best selling author who helps you live your best life emotionally, romantically, and financially - and he makes you laugh alot! MJ is an internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer who has been featured by Oprah, USA Today and Black Enterprise. He has a global reach of over 20 million people each month - across social media and TV. In addition to this, he is the CEO and founder of MJ Harris family of comapnies, which is one of America's largest African-American owned financial services firms. MJ’s rise began when he started creating empowering and aspirational digital content about lessons learned from his path of achieving success after overcoming a childhood surrounded by abuse and addiction. Through his videos, online courses, and live events, he created a loyal global fanbase and quickly became a powerhouse in the self-improvement industry.
#FeminineEnergy #MakeHimChase #SelfWorth #MJHarris
